Thursday, January 10, 2008

How to effectively write a love letter to a Woman and a Man


How to effectively write a love letter to a Woman and a Man

Hello dear readers of our Love Clinic, The real Love Doctor is in once again, Happy new year to all, the festivities of the season of new Year is almost over and from those times about a week ago or later we have maybe wrote a couple of letters to family and friends??? If so you did, great if not then better start practicing my friend. Today Love Doctor Mac will tackle about how to write effective Love Letters for both sexes, yep that's right. So read on and learn

Introduction

You want to give her something special - words that convey how you feel about her! But, where do you start?

This article tells you what she wants to know and how to say it to her.

Instructions

writing a love letter

Difficulty: Easy

Things You'll Need

  • 30 minutes to an hour of uninterrupted time.
  • scrap paper
  • nice stationary
  • A good writing instrument
  • a pressed flower, a photograph, or some small momento

Steps

1

Step One

Take a few moments to just sit quietly and think about her. On a scrap of paper, jot down the first words that come to your mind about her.
2

Step Two

Still thinking about her, write down one response for each of these:
a color, a texture, a scent or smell, a time of day, a season, a food, a song.
3

Step Three

If you have a favorite or special memory of the two of you, write down a few key words about it. You don't have to write details, just "caught in the rain," or "falling on the step" will do.
4

Step Four

Now, you're ready to write. On a scrap of paper, your first sentence should tell her that you were thinking about her today, and then include those first words that came to mind when you were thinking about her in step 1.
5

Step Five

Now, choose a few of the descriptive words (the color, scent, etc.) that you like the most. Make them into a couple of sentences. For example, if you're the romantic type, tell her that thinking of her reminded you of a warm sunny beach at midday, with the smell of jasmine on the breeze. Or, if you're more the strong and silent type, tell her that she is the softest, most beautiful woman you have ever known.
6

Step Six

Your last sentence should be something like, "It made me smile when I remembered ..." whatever your favorite or special memory is.
7

Step Seven

Read it over and make adjustments until it sounds right to you. Do not make adjustments more than twice; trust yourself. Your feelings will come through.
8

Step Eight

Write out your final draft on nice, quality stationary. Place a pressed flower, a small photograph, or something unique to the both of you inside. Seal it well or with a sticker that you know she will like.


Overall Tips & Warnings

  • You can buy single sheets and single envelopes of good stationary at art supply stores.
  • Be sincere and honest. Your love letter should truly be inspired by the thoughts you have of her. It will show in your words.
  • To a woman, it's the effort that counts. If it appears like you went through trouble just for her, she will love what you give her, no matter how difficult your handwriting may be to read.
  • Keep it about love and your appreciation of her. Don't inject sex into your love letter. (Save that for a different kind of letter, or yummy phone sex!)

writing a love letter

How to effectively write a love letter to a Man

Introduction

You want to express yourself, but you're not sure what to say or how to say it. What will capture his attention?

Instructions

Difficulty: Easy

Things You'll Need

  • 30 minutes to an hour of interrupted time.
  • scrap paper
  • Masculine or neutral stationary (paper or email background).
  • A good writing instrument.

Steps

1

Step One

Sit quietly for a few minutes. Picture him in your mind. Think about the way he makes you feel and why.
2

Step Two

On a scrap of paper, jot down a few key words based on your thoughts. You can either formulate sentences out of these words, or simply use the words, alone, to convey what he means to you and why.
3

Step Three

Limit your sentences to 15 words. Limit your letter to four or five sentences, maximum. Three would be ideal. Men have very good imaginations, being the visual creatures they are. They don't need a lot of words to understand what you mean.
4

Step Four

Add a scent. If there is a scent you wear that he knows well, spritz a little in the air and wave your love letter through it. It will carry the smell without being overpowering.


Overall Tips & Warnings

  • Men are visual animals. Keep your words few.
  • Add a sketch or photograph to your letter. Or, if you're sending an email, find an image that conveys your feelings and include it at the end of your words.
  • Be sincere and honest with yourself; it will show in your words.
  • Lace and frills should probably be avoided. Consider his tastes when choosing stationary or an email background.

There we have it.. till next time on the Real Love Doctor Clinic! This is the Real Love Doctor Mac Signing out.

Chow!




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