Showing posts with label Real Love. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Real Love. Show all posts
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Saturday, September 1, 2007

A love story to share - To all the girls I loved Before!

A love story to share - To all the girls I loved Before!

Good day avid readers and my small but loyal fan base for the Real Love Doctor Site! Today we will tackle on something different, we will read a letter from an avid fan with the name of DEATH ZERO. He will be sharing a short story for today about his past love life, the girls he knew and loved before and all the relationships to be that just didn't happen. I enjoyed reading it and it's a bit bunchy but if you have time it will be worth a while to read.

You too can participate in the sharing or asking of questions regarding love, life and relationships, so email me or write a comment and be heard by our loyal fan base here in
the Real Love Doctor's Clinic.

Here is his letter.

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ei guys wanna share some of my on-going story and i hope the DOC post it in the BLOG and give some comments so that other bloggers and viewers may learn a lesson..

To The Moon And Back (and confuse a bit)
by: deathzero23

real love doctor quarrel
puppy love is not true love

I know i've been in love before and again..Yeah, I had my first serious relationship wayback at 3rd Year highschool and we started as best friends..A good foundation to start. And a good pattern developed into love. Yeah all are first times, like the first time i admit my true feelings in the face of the girl, prove my cleanest intentions, talked to her parents, first date, first kiss (yeah everykind of kisses hehehe), first touch, first score, etc. you named it, it's all there. But things got sour after highschool days..Yeah college days are crucial in terms of handling precious time.

I know at first before we pledge our love together (ahem i remember Edgar Mortiz' classic song My Pledge of Love Cannot be Broken LOL!) that we have this one difference. RELIGION. She's a catholic-convert-to-born again and I'm a pure Catholic. I know it will be a future problem but i neglected it just to have a serious Relationship. Then I paid the price, I lost her. But still i thank GOD for it. I thank God for making RELIGION is the cause of our break-up and not some 3rd party which is very painful. And i walked and wandered around soul-searching. Till i found this cute girl...

Yeah we've met in the university and we're classmates. College days. We have so many similaraties from A to Z. Yeah same pattern happened, Best friends turn lovers. The catch is By that time that we were friends, she have a BF but i'm at the right time since their relationship is starting to fall apart. I'm there to catch her fall. And completed her life...I think.

Since she transfered to other school then she got her first failing grade (yeah she's a genius student and tasted her first defeat), She got very busy and busy and busy. Her craving to get back at the top caused our nearing break-up...Adding to my INJURY she got a guy..yeah 3rd party which i didn't expect. She didn't told beforehand about this guy. She hid it from me. And just waited for me to find out for myself..I never really expect such kind girl to turned like that...and i hate what she did...she tried approaching me several times but i neglected it everytime. My reason? it's simple, the DAMAGE has been done so what to explain and to expect? nothing....And she got tired chasing me from e-mail, SMS and Friendster.

After that i made a hiatus from having serious relationships almost 4 years i think...i concentrated on studying hard...Still i thank GOD for this reason of our break-up happen earlier before i got enrolled in my thesis subject. Imagine the HUGE DAMAGE if the break-up happen during my thesis. It will be more than hell to suffer...right?

yeah i got graduated and got a job, still single and enjoying life, like spend money on stuffs, eat and drink, play videogames, enjoying my liberty. but something happened, i've met a girl.....

I know i've been in love before. I know how it feels from being loved, to be in love and being left and hurt...I'm not saying i love this new girl. We're having constant communication thru SMS, we see each other if time permits us. I can say that I LIKE HER. She's cute, kind, deep, thoughful, etc. although she believes in paranormals and tarrot cards and may some of you called it weird but hey i can still ride on it. But.... She's very career-driven girl. She's a Dean's Lister in college, want to earn big bucks early, taking a review school after work, and probably take board exams in January next year.

I'm in all total support for her. everytime she feels tired from such multi-tasking activities, having pressure problems and stuffs, I'm there to make her smile, feel happy, laugh, inspired and make her spirits up. And she's very thankful about it. Thankful to the point that she feels guilty for taking up my time just to be with her. But i told her not to worry and it's fine for me and it's true.

real quarrel in real love
avoid conflicts with her family to avoid this!^^^^^


She's a Fil-Chinese and i know such cultural differences may clash. Not to her but her parents. She's a Fil-Chinese alright but she's more of 80% PINOY in her attitude so no problem. But her parents is what bothers me. I know i've been there before but what is happening to me?

I always say to myself that i like her time and time again. But Is it the truth or am I just being CAUTIOUS due to my past heartaches? Again I've been there Before but i feel something is different within me.

Up to now, we still talked and cherish every conversation we have. And if I managed to have a date with her, I always make it a special moment never to forget for her. I'm stopping the story for now since i have nothing to add...I hope the readers never got tired reading this and i hope some of you learned a lesson at least a bit.

Whaddya Say DOC MAC?"

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As all can see, I will never ever edit your letters, so what ever came to my mail box, I will post it as is.

To Death Zero, thanks for this very informative and funny side of your life and love relationships. I will be monitoring your stories as always and will provide tips for you to make you more appealing to the women that you like, for now your story is nice and it showed me your nice strong character to move on from one failed relationships by making your chin-up and face the world. That is truly a manly character for you!


Good day, love doctor out for the day!





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Friday, August 24, 2007

The Real deal about Real Love by the Real Love Doc himself!


The Real deal about Real Love by the Real Love Doc himself!



What is real love?


Hello once again my good readers, it's been a few days since you last heard from the real love doctor eh? Well I have been pretty busy up late trying to promote the blog to the widest audience possible, also I am acquiring about a dozen letters already about love, life and relationships advice and I'm doing the best I can to get them all answered. Okay to move on, I would like to thank to all of you who started to comment here, although I would really love it if you can post a name or a nickname to your comments as being called "anonymous" seems to be getting old.

I have been asked many times about my views about real love, how did someone like me became a doctor of Real Love, well to be honest to you, I don't hold any doctorate degree or any real love diplomas, I simply just happen to know the ins and outs of Real Love. Many of us would get stuck and face a big wall when it comes to love, what more so if it is real love right? So to clearly gave you my beloved readers a good insight about real love I will quote a lot of stuff for today.
real love hug
a hug of real love
There are just too many lines of words describing real love, some were even made into songs, all of the above have one thing in common though and I will show it to you at the near end of my post, for now let's read some of the famous lines about real love.




Love is patient, love is kind...

Love is patient, and love is kind,
it is not jealous or prideful
love is not rude,
it is not selfish,
it is never angry, it is not happy with evil,
love is not happy with lies, but rejoices in the truth.

Love never gives up,
love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things,
endures all things.

Love never fails.

God is love.


source: the bible



Everything is clearer when you're in love.
Guilt for being rich, and guilt thinking that perhaps love and peace isn't enough and you have to go and get shot or something.
If someone thinks that love and peace is a cliche that must have been left behind in the Sixties, that's his problem. Love and peace are eternal.
All you need is love


source: john Lennon


Kindness in words creates confidence.
Kindness in thinking creates profoundness.
Kindness in giving creates love.


source:Lao Tzu


There is more hunger for love and appreciation in this world than for bread.

Source: Mother Teresa


“The best smell in the world is that man that you love.”

source:Jennifer Aniston


I believe the key to happiness is: someone to love, something to do, and something to look forward to.

source:Elvis Presley
elvis on real love doctor site
the king of real love?



As We have read along some of the quotes of famous people around the course of history, many describe love as something important and as a need, well they become famous but does that give them enough authority? We have quoted the bible, but not all really think it has authority to tell what is love, so who do you really believe when it comes to telling you what real love is? Will you believe what a real love doctor have to say about love? If you are intrigue and ready to hear my say on the issue of real love then read below now.


"For me real love is just not a need to be love but unconditional love, I got this thing which pretty much sums up my idea about real love:
"Real love isn’t "I love you if you love me", that’s worldly love.
Real love is "I love you no matter if you love me or not". Real
love just loves, and hopes the best for the other, and does whatever
they can for the happiness of someone else rather than themselves."

real love on dogs
real love is everywhere, even for pets


Yes many will say "hey that is foolish and loving blindly" well for me that ain't the case, you see if you respect the authorities like your government, that is already showing real love for your country, if you care for your spouse or partner that you sacrifice a few minutes everyday to comfort them and hug them to make them feel better that is already real love, if you can take time to bath your dog because you don't want him to stink or catch fleas then you are genuinely loving your dog. All of this self less acts of love is for me real love. So my tips, the next time you truly say I love you to your partner or love one, consider first the things you did the day before or the things you were planning to do for the days ahead, if you think you have unconditional love in your radar, then congrats you have found real love."

real love content





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