The Real Love Doctor Talks about planning your Valentine Date

The Real Love Doctor Talks about planning your Valentine Date

The Real Love Doctor Welcomes you all back for another session in our love clinic. Last time around we talked about how to effectively write an effective love letter for both man and woman, and boy follow emails poured in like crazy, okay well just about two mails. Hehe. They were all asking for the same thing though, one big question when valentines is just around the corner in just a couple of more weeks to be exact, they were asking how to have a perfect valentines date. Well that is just what the real love doctor Mac is all about. I am here as your friendly neighborhood Love Doctor and I will give out the best advices for you to make your partner happy, and make your very own experience in this year's valentine a successful and memorable one.





Steps to take to prepare for a valentine date:


1. Plan ahead

Be it with months time preparation or now that it's just a couple of weeks ahead, Valentines needs a rough draft or a few imagination to go along. Ask yourself these few questions. Will I have a budget to spend when the date comes? What are her favorite restaurants? Can I afford to take her there? What are my alternatives? Gifts? How many hours will we spend outside? Movies? Something outrageous and out of this world? Will I be going according to her preference? My preference? Compensated preferences?

2. Gifts are Important

As a gentleman make it always a great hobby to offer your woman or woman to be gifts, women are suckers for gifts and usually feel special when you hand this stuff to them. Make the gift something she can use often, that way she can remember you every time she use your gift. Well think of something fast now.

3. Make Reservations

Always make it a habit to scout your place to hang out with, if good take the contact numbers of that place and call up weeks prior to the Valentine Event. This way you can avoid rush ups and competition with other couples dating during the same time of the holiday.

4. I go for a letter rather than flowers, but girls have a world different than our own

In other words, be unique. Uniqueness earns points to a girls heart, if chocolates are her craze give only a few, a simple flower and not a bouquet can be romantic, but bear in mind that a million men out there also will buy flowers, do you want to be with the majority too? Originality will bring out the best of you.

5. Lastly, treat her well and make her a princess even for the day only

Give in to her wishes and make this day special to her and for you to. If you got this mind set right from the start then I can guarantee you that you will have one of the most special day ever.

Have a blast the both of you, and I will be writing a few articles still before Valentines, So make plans now, write them up to make you remember them and start saving for that day, In my count valentines day prices are always bloated up to take advantage of couples celebrating the said event, so take this 5 steps for a successful and wonderful day.

Till next time, The Real Love doctor signing out of the love clinic. Feel free to mail me all your love problems and love inquiries on our new email ad blogger05@hotmail.com

Till next time Love Doctor is out

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How to Properly Prepare for a Date [ yeah for noobs and virgins ] VERY EFFECTIVE TECHNIQUE

1.Do some homework. In the days before a date, take time out to catch up with current events and hot topics. These are great conversation starters and you will be able to impress your date with your knowledge. Try to remember as much as you can about previous conversations together so you can follow up on them. Have a couple of funny stories or conversation pieces up your sleeve in case you need them.

2.Start looking and feeling good in advance. Set time aside for exercise in the days before the date, whether it's yoga or push ups. Eat well and get plenty of sleep.

3.Pick your clothes early. You should have several outfits laid out before the day of the date. This way you won't have any last minute panics when you realize you have a spaghetti stain down your favourite shirt. Plus, it will allow you to try on a few different looks on the day of the date and see which one fits your mood most comfortably at the time.

4.Clean up on the day of the date. Take a nice, long shower or bath. Ensure you have clean hair and nails. You should smell good, but not overpowering. Avoid heavy perfumes and aftershaves, especially if your date could be allergic. Ladies, go easy when applying make-up and aim for a natural but groomed look. If things go well he will eventually see you without make-up - and you will want him to recognize you at that point. Shortly before leaving for your date, floss and brush your teeth thoroughly.

5.Think positively. You're going out to enjoy yourself, after all. Don't start worrying about what disasters could happen, because that way they are far more likely to. If you are getting nervous, call a good friend, watch your favourite comedy show or listen to upbeat music. Loosen up. Focus on having fun and you inevitably will.

6.Be punctual. Give yourself plenty of time to get to your rendezvous. Keeping your date waiting will start things off on the wrong foot.

TIPS
* Relax, be yourself, and be confident. More specifically, in addition to "being confident," you should "know your success" (success breeds confidence). Instead of "being yourself," try "being your best self".
* Sometimes even with the best preparation, your date might turn out awful. You may wish to have a "back out plan" in case this happens. Find a good friend you can call and then he/she can call you back in a few minutes so you can say you have some sort of crisis you need to attend to. You could also try being an honest person and say that you don't think it's working out, and that you need to leave early. Be prepared to contribute to the date and excuse yourself.
* Bring a condom. Whether you plan to use it or not, it is better to be prepared than to end up with responsibilities you didn't want. But, remember that you don't have to have sex.

Warnings and cautions
* Never put yourself in a compromising situation--most people are trustworthy, but "date rape" is unfortunately a real occurrence. Always have a first date in a public setting (restaurant, movie, club, mall, etc.) Only accept drinks served from a bottle or can opened by you or in front of you, or by a third party (like a bartender). Unfortunately, there are drugs ("date rape drugs") that can be added to ANY drink without any noticeable difference in taste. Some people use these drugs to put women (and sometimes men) in precarious situations. If you turn away from your drink, get into the habit of covering it with your hand, as it only takes a second to slip something into a drink. If you are suspicious, get a new drink.
* If you feel something's wrong, trust your instincts and politely but firmly end the date.
* Be sure to always have a cell phone and cash for a cab so that you never feel you have to rely on your date for a ride home.
* Always be careful about alcoholic intake.
* Don't Do Drugs









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50 THINGS GUYS NEED TO KNOW ABOUT GIRLS

50 THINGS GUYS NEED TO KNOW ABOUT GIRLS

1. Girls like to be held, NOT fondled.

2. We like to cuddle and be loved NOT treated like crap.

3. When we say or neck or back or something else hurts you should offer to make it feel better (give us a massage).

4. We like to be treated WITH respect.

5. We like it when you call when you say your going to call.

6. Girls are more sensitive than guys so watch what you say and do.

7. When you brake-up with us DON'T do it over the Internet and explain why your breaking up with us and tell the truth don't lie about it.

8. If there's something we're doing wrong then tell us NOT your friends, we're the ones that can change it your friends can't.

9. On a date you should pick us up NOT us pick you up.

10. When we go out to dinner DON'T pick the cheapest restaurant.

11. We like it when you put your arm around us and rub our stomach.

12. DON'T force us to do something otherwise you'll NEVER get it.

13. DON'T ask us what's wrong unless you want to know the honest to God answer.

14. DON'T keep asking us what's wrong when we've already told you nothing because obviously nothing is wrong or we just don't want to talk about it.

15. If you don't want us pissed at you DON'T do something stupid that will piss us off.

16. If you don't want us to hate you forever don't let us find out about your other girlfriend in simple terms DON'T EVER CHEAT ON US.

17. You don't ALWAYS have to be right.

18. Except us and love us for who we are NOT who you want us to be.

19. If we talk to another guy it's NOT cheating.

20. When we brake up DON'T lie to your friends and say we broke up with you when YOU broke up with us.

21. When our best friend is a guy it doesn't mean that we like them.

22. When someone comes up to us and says crap DON'T just stand there stick up for us.

23. When we say call me it means as soon as possible NOT 2 or 3 days later.

24. When we ask what your thinking we just want to know if your thinking about us.

25. Just because your friends don't like us doesn't mean you have to break up with us, you're the one going out with us not them.

26. DON'T judge us on looks because looks DON'T matter it's what we're like on the inside NOT the outside.

27. DON'T get mad over something stupid because you'll be ruining it for yourself NOT us.

28. Just because we talk to our ex boyfriends DOESN'T mean we like them. (A lot of us like to become friends with our ex's not enemies)

29. We don't care if you talk to your ex girlfriends just DON'T do ANYTHING with them. (KEYWORD is ANYTHING)

30. When we say we don't feel good we really mean we need you to hold us and kiss us and make us feel better.

31. Anything we say or do during that 4 days to a week each month CANNOT be held against us.

32. We think about you ALL the time.

33. If you're developing such good finger skills playing video games you better put them to good use sometimes.

34. We're sensitive too...be gentle (and we're not just talking about our hearts here guys).

35. When we say we're tired put your arm around us and cuddle with us so we can put our head on your shoulder or lap.

36. Don't EVER lie to us about ANYTHING, you know we'll find out eventually.

37. SAYING something sweet MIGHT get you off the hook, but DOING something sweet will always get you off the hook.

38. Hugs and kisses MUST be given at all times.

39. Don't always expect us to call you, the phone works both way, you know the drill!!

40. I love you is a big step, DON'T say it unless you really mean it.

41. Come and pick us up when we need you to, most of the time we just miss you a lot and want to see you!

42. DO NOT hit on or lead on numerous girls...Because it definitely sucks for you when we all find out...You just ruined your chances with all of us!!

43. We have PMS every month...Please just try to understand...We don't feel good, we're angry, and we're emotional.. DON'T FIGHT WITH US...It's just something you don't want to do.

44. Most of the things you do reflects back on us in some way...or efects us in some way...DON'T DO ANYTHING STUPID.

45. Don't say you understand when you really don't.

46. Don't make bets about us we ALWAYS find out.

47. We don't shave our legs EVERY day so get over it.

48. You don't have PMS so don't act like you know what it's like because you never will.

49. Be there for us...a hug, a kiss, a call, a visit or even just listening to us can go along way.

50. When we brake up DON'T go after my best friend.









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How to Properly french kiss someone

Hello dear Readers of the Real Love Doctor's clinic, today the Love Doctor will continue to give tips and know how's about Love and the art of body language in presenting one's love for another. Today as I checked on the last time in most of my emails, I have learned that a lot of those of you out there were asking on how to hug properly, when is the time for a great holding hands and even 2 letters on how to kiss correctly a girl. As I teared my self in laughing upon reading such things, I came up with a standard way of kissing passionately instructions just for you to follow. enjoy

Introduction To the ART OF FRENCH KISSING

French kissing is similar to another French invention: Champagne. A little bit will make you giddy but too much can lead to trouble. Whether you're studying up before a first date or simply curious, here are some French kissing techniques for anyone looking to learn how to French kiss.

Instructions

Difficulty: Easy

Things You'll Need

• Breath Mints

Steps

1

Step One

Remember that French kissing can quickly unhinge passions. Start with gentle pecks and tongue-free kisses as you get to know someone.

2

Step Two

When you're ready to French kiss, lean toward your date with your head tilted slightly to avoid bumping noses. Men may wrap their arms around a date's waist; women may wrap their arms around a date's neck.

3

Step Three

Make eye contact as you lean toward one another but close your eyes as the lips meet. Inadvertent eye-contact mid-kiss can be quite awkward.

4

Step Four

As you lean in for the kiss, have your lips parted ever so slightly and inhale through your mouth to heighten the senses and to avoid breathing on your date.

5

Step Five

Allow your lips to brush against each others to create light, feathery kisses. Keep the tongue in your mouth initially.

6

Step Six

As the kiss warms up, allow your tongue to flicker onto your date's lips. Don't let your tongue linger--keep the flickers quick and gentle.

7

Step Seven

If your date responds in kind, let your tongue extend back toward his or her tongue. Keep the movement light and gentle--tongue wrestling is a no-no.

8

Step Eight

Breathe through your nose as your tongues touch playfully and sensually.

9

Step Nine

Lose yourself in the moment: give complete attention to the kiss. If your mind is on anything else, you're missing out on the full experience.

10

Step Ten

End the kiss. French kissing can get messy if continued without breathers. Take time to nuzzle necks, nibble ears or whisper sweet nothings before diving in for another kiss.

Tips & Warnings

• Fresh breath is essential. Avoid smelly foods (garlic, brie cheese, corn chips, coffee) beforehand. Freshen up with a mint or gum, making sure to dispose of the gum before kissing.
• Some people find it helpful to practice French kissing on ice cream. It's a chilly but effective way to practice tongue flickers.
• Read your date's body language to ensure a French kiss would be welcomed. Holding hands and gentle brush-ups during the date are good signs.
• There is no single right way to French kiss. Kissing is as individual as the people doing it. The most important thing is to be true to yourself, your date and the moment.
• French kissing can quickly unleash passions. Know your limits beforehand and be prepared to put the other person on hold when you reach them.
• French kissing improves with practice. Don't be dismayed if your first time French kiss fails to ignite fireworks. Practice makes perfect.
• Don't shove your whole tongue in the other person's mouth, it's not a pleasant experience.

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Why do guys give girls sexy expressions? Answered By the Real love Doctor

Hello Dear Readers of The Real Love Doctor Clinic. Oh My How Time Flies By the Minute and soon it will be Christmas, Just in 12 days or less depending on your location, the grandest festive time of the year for most countries is really here. Your Love Doctor as busy as always have been going into a lot of trouble preparing life's management as of late. No worries To all who sent their emails as I have been answering them privately too.

To all concern Our Email System has broke down and I will Change the Email To DASAINBONG@Yahoo.com

I repeat Mail all your Life, Love And Relationships Concerns only to DASAINBONG@Yahoo.com.


For now let's go on to our next letter sender of the day.

It came from a sweet girl going to a name Vallery, Here is her concerns about real love or flirting and my answer is right in below. Let the Real Love Doctor get to work now and have your appointments ready for those who needs love advice and love tips.



Dear Love Doctor

Why do guys give girls sexy expressions?
This guy i like at work when ever i look at him or smile or laugh or talk to him he gives me this really sexy expression. and i cant even explain it. and i don't know why he does it. i hope you can help me on this.

Dear Vallery, in accordance to your letter I will make this brief and simple for you just like your love letter to me. Which is plain short and straight to the point and I really find it appealing that you did it that way as it has a rush kinda feel in it. LOL

Why do you feel this way to him can only be answered in two simple ways

1. First He is into you or he wants you, that's why he gives you the look and he tries to be sexy all the time when talking to you, guys tend to be at their sexiest when they flirt with girls they like.

2. Maybe He's really that sexy and you find him attractive, everyone has a distinct taste about how we like our partners or mate to be, YOU MIGHT JUST BE ATTRACTED TO HIM. Maybe he is really a hunk after all


there You have it, keep the love letters pouring and have a merry Christmas ahead.

The Real Love Doctor Signing Off

Till the next time our clinic opens









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Simple Relationship tips for men

Okay guys, we all have wondered at one time or another, what’s it take to have a good relationship? Hopefully I can help some of you struggling fellows out a bit.

Woman are mysterious, strong, soft, weak, compassionate, caring, thoughtful, delicate and many other emotions, usually all at the same time. Men, well, we just are what we are. We get confused when they cry, laugh, get mad, scream and sleep. It’s a basic difference between men and women. Some things you can do to help your woman and make her think she is the best and only person in your life. This is of course directed to men in a relationship.

Pay attention to her. This is the number one thing you can do. If she is talking, don’t be text messaging a friend, watching sports, playing games, or reading. Give her your undivided attention. And keep that thought running through your head out of there, it will show up in your eyes. Make eye contact with her. Gently lay your hand on her arm or leg to let her know you are focused completely on her. It makes her feel that she is worth your time and attention.

Do thing with her that she wants to do. She goes with you to sporting events, the latest action flicks, your sports bars, your greasy restaurants. Go with her where she wants. See a movie she wants to see. Maybe *gasp* get dressed up and go to a nice restaurant. Go for a quite walk in a park, by the lake, in a flower garden. During this time, turn your cell phone off, or on silent, hold her hand, look at her. Listen to what she says, and reply in full sentences instead of monosyllable words.

Compliment her, but don’t over do it. Don’t use the standard, “you are hot” or other cheesy lines. Pick out something specific. If you watch her get ready, see what she spends the most time working on, and compliment that. Compliment her hair, shoes, clothes. Tell her she is beautiful. Look in her eyes when you say this and maintain eye contact. Never complain about how long it takes her to get ready. She is doing it for you.

Having other female friends is not necessarily a no-no, but if you do have any make sure your woman knows about them. If they want to meet for dinner/lunch, always, always, always make sure your woman is invited. This is a touchy subject, some women want no other woman talking to her man, others don’t mind as long as they are included in every aspect of your friendship as well.

If anything is remembered from reading this, remember this. When you have a woman, and she is everything to you, make sure she knows it. Don’t take her for granted, cause somebody else out there will show her what you can’t, and you will be without your everything.









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OMGosh Beautiful Girl going into my Pad

Hello dear readers of the Real Love Doctor's Blog, A long absence from the doctor eh?

not to worry even though I'm Busy I still replied to most of your emails dear fans.

and today the clinic once again opens from a dear guy who has a troubling yet funny love letter for us today. read on and be amazed at what is he up to now.

This is the Real Love Doctor coming in and helping out relationship problems.

The letter goes down bellow;

"ei mac,


long time no see in your clinic huh, love doctor lol.anyways i have read and followed some of the steps to date a girl from here, and this comming weekend a very beautiful and cute girl will be going into my place, what shall i do? i'm sacred as hell and i'm a newbie. any tips???


from,

decent guy but semi-kinky"


Hello there decent guy [but semi-kinky] I somewhat find that contradictingly funny, your name and all but first I would like to congratulate you on having a date and with a beautiful girl at that and straight into your pad. A big WOW for your achievement.

Now that you got the girl going to your place here's my advice and tip for you. This are the general 10 when having a woman in your house should be.


1. Since the girl agreed and trust you enough that she's even willing to spend time right there and then in your pad it's a good sign! Why? because she notices you and eventually started to like you and feel comfortable with you, so don't try to destroy that little established trust that you so faithfully earned.

2. Your going to spend a few hours with her so why not plan out what you want to do this week end now! It could either be a movie through top DVD's or a cooking spree and lot's of table talk.

3. If you prefer movies, then decide what to rent. girls are suckers for love related flicks or cute animal flicks. Just don't rent out animated stuffs or you will lose your manly appeal, also avoid slasher or teen bop flicks, they suck dude.

4. Prepare the place, set an atmosphere, clean it a little. Remember Grooming?

5. Put up and air freshener or something nice like scented candles.

6. unto your personality, don't be nervous be spontaneous enough and stay calm as much as possible.

7. Keep the lady entertain and when she allows it she might be touchy in a few hours or so and hugs will be there, but if it won't come don't force it. If you know your law, there is a term called rape.

8. Avoid long void silence, always talk, when watching a movie, comment in every nice scenes and tell stories.

9. Don't come into her too hard, you will regret it, be smooth and relax and she'll reply in a soft way.

10. Smile and act like the king of your place, this boost of confidence knowing you are in your territory will be sexy for the girl.



Well there you have it mate, enjoy the weekend and I hope you will be successful with this one, remember a happy relationships starts with communication and a lot of attention, so in the stage you are now I won't be surprised that anytime soon both you and this girl will be hitched.

Till next time, keep the letters pouring and enjoy the Real Love Doctor Clinic









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50 real reasons why women make love

Top 50 Reasons Why Women Have Sex

This info from the Love Doctor's Clinic Will surely be at help to those who wants to uncover the secrets to why women want or have sex.....I hope this helps! Love Doctor is quiet Busy nowadays, but don't worry we will be in posting mode soon!

When drinking or drugging one has sex, uses sex and does sex for various OK or not so OK reasons.

Recovery from alcoholism/addiction increases sexuality and desire.

This list can help you decide why you had sex, and why you may have sex in the future. A key question is ‘Will the reason I’m having sex enhance my serenity - sobriety?’ Or, ‘Will I be disturbed by this action?’.

This study is very important to modern society. This is especially so since the sexual revolution opened peoples minds to a broader range of sexuality and sexual expression.

The study;

Historically, the reasons people have sex have been assumed to be few in number and simple in nature-

• to reproduce,
• to experience pleasure, or
• to relieve sexual tension.

Several theoretical perspectives suggest that motives for engaging in sexual intercourse may be larger in number and psychologically complex in nature. Our first study used a procedure that identified 237 expressed reasons for having sex.

Here are the top 50 reasons women have sex;

• I was attracted to the person
• I wanted to experience the physical pleasure
• It feels good
• I wanted to show my affection to the person
• I wanted to express my love for the person
• I was sexually aroused and wanted the release
• I was ‘‘horny’’
• It’s fun
• I realized I was in love
• I was ‘‘in the heat of the moment’’
• I wanted to please my partner
• I desired emotional closeness (i.e., intimacy)
• I wanted the pure pleasure
• I wanted to achieve an orgasm
• It’s exciting, adventurous
• I wanted to feel connected to the person
• The person’s physical appearance turned me on
• It was a romantic setting
• The person really desired me
• The person made me feel sexy
• The person caressed me
• It seemed like the natural next step in my relationship
• I wanted to become one with another person
• It just happened
• I wanted to increase the emotional bond by having sex
• I wanted the experience
• I wanted the adventure/excitement
• The person had an attractive face
• The person was a good kisser
• I wanted to intensify my relationship
• My hormones were out of control
• I wanted to try out new sexual techniques or positions
• I wanted to feel loved
• The person had a desirable body
• I wanted to celebrate a birthday or anniversary or special occasion
• I wanted to communicate at a ‘‘deeper’’ level
• I was curious about sex
• It was a special occasion
• The person was intelligent
• I wanted to say ‘‘I’ve missed you’’
• I wanted to keep my partner satisfied
• I got ‘‘carried away’’
• The opportunity presented itself
• The person had a great sense of humor
• I wanted to improve my sexual skills
• I was curious about my sexual abilities
• The person seemed self-confident
• I wanted to make up after a fight
• I was drunk
• I was turned on by the sexual conversation

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How to Handle Guys Hitting on your Girl!

5 ways to handle Guys hitting on your girl

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Handy Dandy tips I found which can be beneficial to the Real Love Doctors Clinic

If your are one of the many lucky men that has a girlfriend or wife that attracts a lot of attention from your male peers, you know how annoying those peers can be. Especially when you leave to go to the bathroom or she leaves your immediate side, these guys swarm in like bees to honey. For some guys this represents reason to stay out the bar or club scene with you girl but there are ways to handle these situations and have a little fun in the process. The most important thing is never let this rattle you, despite your possible insecurities always keep your cool as odds are she came with you and she is leaving with you and if not you're better off without her.


1. Let's say a guy is at the bar attempting to buy her a drink, if she is a respectable girlfriend she will not accept his offer. Just hang back a second while he gets rejected, then move in on your girl opposite side and pretend you don't know her, tell her how beautiful she is and offer to buy her a drink. She of course will accept and the heckler on the other side should slump off in defeat.



2. This same application can be used when a guy asks you lady to dance, again she will reject him and again you swoop in as if you don't know her and grab her hand and ask her if she wants to dance. Again you win and the heckler has lost, as if he ever had a chance of winning. This too is fun and can be quite erotic if you spice up your approach a little.

3. A bold move is to wait until a guy is trying to pick up your girl and then politely stroll up and say excuse me to both of them and say, young lady you are so beautiful that I had to just come over and see what you taste like, followed immediately by passionately kissing her deeply. She won't resist, and if she does you two got problems. Again the picker upper is defeated and this type of role play is the type of gift that can keep on giving.

4. A smooth move while at the bar, is to position yourself at the end of the bar then send the bartender over to your girl with a drink, while the guy trying to pick her up is talking. The bartender will give her the drink and say compliments of the gentleman at the end of the bar and he would like you to join him. Again, she won't resist and the picker upper will be stunned by the move. This is for those who want to avoid close contact with the heckler, but be careful with this one as it may backfire if your are to far away or if your lady has poor eyesight.

5. A final crushing maneuver is to walk while the guy is trying to pick up your girl and say excuse me, I have been thinking about you all night long, let dip outta here back to my place. She won't resist and you don't have to leave right away, but for any would be pick up artist this is a severe ego blow.

These are just a few of my tactics, each of which can modified and spiced up, the main thing is to be bold and smooth, women love the role play and the confidence. If you are too busy worrying about what this guy might do if attempt one of these moves then it is probably best you stay home until you build up some gonads. In addition, having a woman that is desirable to other men is a good thing, trust me.

Tactics may not apply to women pick up artists, again if your woman is desirable to men and women this too is a good thing!!!









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Seduction Tips #4 Use your sense of touch! The Real Love Doc recommends

Seduction Tips #4 Use your sense of touch! The Real Love Doc recommends

Hello once again dear readers, another update in our seduction tips section of The Real love Doctor's clinic. For today we will discuss the fourth seduction tip for men and women. That is to use the sense of touch as a weapon of seduction!

Read on how to use one of the basic overall senses of the human body, the sense of touch, to work in our favour.

In the previous seduction tips, we have talked about how to start a conversation and even the right timing to get her contact details, once the topics are flowing and both of you have well engaged in deep chat for around more or less than 5 minutes, it's time to use this special technique that some of us has learned to master. No we won't use the "touchy" feel thing nor do we need to cope a feel, some simple steps will do to get her interest aroused and make her feel that you are really into her.

be compose all the time

Tap on the shoulder

When the chance arises, don't shy out in placing the palm on your hands directly above her shoulder blades, doing so gives her the feeling of belongingness and just making the atmosphere friendlier. Smile and calmly tap her shoulders once in a while and doing it once in every ten to fifteen minutes will do.

Pressing or lifting her elbows

This technique works well when the girl is holding on to her glass or drinks, when it appears that she is the one making more of the conversation and the time comes when it's your turn to talk, leverage her arms by holding on the tip of her elbows and slightly raising it, this will cause her to feel a little closeness between the two of you.

Holding her hands

When in guiding her to stand from a seat or better yet to help her out when taking steps, it's best to hold her hand and gently use your strength to keep her balance, her palms have most of the nerve endings of her body, so when she'll grab your warm hand, she will feel ease and security!

Guiding her lower back

Same as holding her hands, another closer approach can be guiding her lower back while taking steps, dancing or best while walking to some minor obstacles like ledges, small hallways, leaving doors or a puddle of water. This technique will not only boost your gentleman points but will make you the REAL MAN in shining armor for her, just don't over do it and act over excited, remember be calm and keep it cool!

The last and most important seduction techniques involving the sense of touch is playing, fixing and stroking her hair

I usually do this when we are both comfy on our chairs and sitting close together, I start while she is leaning forward and slowly play with the arch of the back of her head, trying to feel her long hair [or short hair], then after a few minutes I'll make an effort to brush it aside and fix it along her ears when the wind blows it away to reveal her face. Do this while smiling a little and looking straight at her eyes. This move will surely signal the girl that you are so into her! No situation can be the same, but if you master this technique it will work wonders for you!


There you have it folks, seduction tips for men today, and next time I will include women's seduction tips on men because I have received a couple of mails from women who also want to seduce men! Yeah women need advices from the Real Love Doctor too!

Till then the Real Love Doctor is signing out! Peace and Good blessings!

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Getting her phone Number, Email or anything to keep you 2 in touch! Love Advice #3 Evaluate when to make a move!

Getting her phone Number, Email or anything to keep you 2 in touch! Love Advice #3 Evaluate when to make a move!

Hello once again, avid readers of my site, for today a great topic for seduction tips number 3. It's a topic about Getting her phone Number, Email or anything to keep you 2 in touch! From my previous prescriptions, I have always said that self promotion and marketing comes first in attracting the opposite sex, just like a giant bill board, if you can't have the girls noticed you the first time around then you already lose the potential mate or partner which you could be in a relationship with. Our next seduction tips get's you into a mood in approaching her, making a small chatter and a few feel good conversation, it was centered into making her comfortable with you. So it will be appropriate that our next tip is to have her contact infos so maybe you can invite her for a snack, dinner or whatever date that suits your taste.

So before you go jump around and start celebrating and shouting "yes the real love doctor will finally reveal to me secrets of getting the girl's number!"

chance of a lifetime?

Asking a woman for a date, for her phone number, or for her email address is always risky. You are having a hard time figuring out how big a risk you must take, and how quickly you must take it. Because you can't tell how much you should risk and how quickly you should risk it, you miss important opportunities.


When you interact with women, you need to keep a closer eye on just how urgent the situation is. Every man has had a wonderful woman walk out of his life forever because he wasn't conscious of how urgent it was to take a risk with her right then. Men have also blown it by risking too fast with women, and scaring them off. Understanding the three time frames of an interaction with a woman will help keep that from happening to you again.

1. You only have a few minutes: In this situation you only have a few minutes (or a few seconds, even) to make contact. You are on the train, or you are in line, and this is your one and only chance. You are in line with a woman, you say hi to her, and it leads to a conversation, you have to get her number or email address right then. If you blow it, she is going to be literally gone. In this situation you have to cut to the chase quickly. You have to risk a lot to get her phone number or email address, or it's all over.

2. You have a few hours. This is a situation like an all-day seminar, a party, or a work-related activity, where you know she is going to be around for a little while. You can risk with her over time. You don't have to risk it all right away--you can afford to wait, and to take small risks with her over a few hours, rather than having to take a really big risk all at once.

3. You can reliably have interactions over days, weeks, or more. This is the waitress you can go back and see over and over, or the woman in your Aerobics class who always works out at 5pm on Tuesdays and Thursdays. You can risk much more slowly with these women, and build a connection over time, because you know you will see them again and again.

handle it like a man!

The power about knowing about these three time frames is that it gives you the power of knowing how much you have to risk, and how quickly you have to risk it. It gives you a "reality-check" about what you absolutely must do next if you want the woman. If you are putting gasoline into your car, and the woman next to you is attractive and you want to talk to her, then you had better risk a lot right then, because she is about to disappear from your life. On the other hand, if that same woman shows up at an eight-week class you are taking, you don't have to risk big right away by going for her phone number or email address. You can risk big if you want, but you can also take smaller risks, and seduce her over time.

You can also look at this like it is a "risk spectrum." You have to take more risk when you ask for the number of a woman you are in line with than you risk in getting her number over time, like when you see her twice a week in your aerobics class, for instance.

Hopefully this will help you evaluate your situation, and take appropriate action!

So for our next Love and Seduction tips we will tackle the next tip, CALLING HER or CONTACTING HER.

till then hope you enjoyed!

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How to start a conversation- Ask The love Doctor Mac and Love doctor Mac Answers!

How to start a conversation- Ask The love Doctor Mac and Love doctor Mac Answers!

Hello and Good day to all my avid readers, The love doctor is getting much love on our column and segments here at the Love, Life and Relationship blogs most noted is the Ask Doctor Mac and Doctor Mac answers! So far I got an overwhelming pour of letters to just about everywhere through emails, comments and even text messages. Nice very nice indeed. So keep em letters and inquiries coming. The Love Doctor is more happy to help!


Anonymous said...

ei there, can you teach us some approach or how to start a convo to some random cute/attractive/prospect girl? Not pick up line ah. For example in a PUV, MRT or waiting for the bus.

-thanks

August 18, 2007 9:50 PM


So we have someone here who is a bit shy in the outside but in the inside is burning with passion to start a conversation with a girl he mets at random places. To start with, I hope you did a good job and have read my grooming tips early on my previous post! if not you can read it again here---->GROOMING!

I can offer some tips below, but the whole entire process still depends on the way you handle yourself, and of course the degree of interest you can muster out of the girl you have set your targets on. For more on women body languages just stay tune and we will surely discuss it one of these days in our Love, life and relationships segments in the coming days.

key is smile!

general tips:

1. be decent enough! - no girl at her right mind will talk to a dirty dressed and sex maniac looking guy! so always dress well and be clean looking, you will never know when or where you might see the girl of your dreams maybe, she may be walking around your corner one of these days!

2. sport that killer smile! - when I say killer smile I don't mean a smile that will knock her off the train! just smile naturally and avoid the plastic looking ones like you see at the faces of celebrities. Be genuine enough and always practice that "U" shaped lips and face in front of a mirror. Better yet avoid thinking LUSTFUL things in your head to avoid that dreadful "rapist smile" off your face! Be natural and smile at happy thoughts like you are going to date her!

3. killer punch lines! - this may sound too cheesy and some may tell you they won't work, but I can vouch for you that they do! words like "Hey your body is a wonderland, and I'll change my name to Alice!" and "I won't buy you a drink ever, because you're a stranger and I don't buy drinks to strangers" works my friend! These punch lines when delivered well will make the girl smile and will loosen up the tension between the two of you. Normally we get nervous in approaching someone, also if the girl knew you are going to approach her, she too will be tense and nervous and most of time won't know what to do next. Punch lines erases all of that. Think of it as a great title on a silly website, it gets you to read the content doesn't it? I will provide some killer punchlines that have worked for me through the years, with them came the technique and proper executions that I will soon tell all of you my avid readers of this Love, Life and relationship blog! Stay tune in future posts!

4. Be fluid! - once you and the girl exchanges smile then it's time to show her the deeper you. Act and be intelligent, if you're not that intelligent at least cover it with wittiness! Talk about relevant topics usually ranging from the place that you met. "Boy is today hot! I have showered twice this morning and I still feel icky!" or "It took me an hour the last time I tried picking a taxi in this spot, silly me, I didn't notice the preying traffic enforcer a few meters behind my back" Conversation like this make things go fluid and at ease.



So there you have it the early spot on stuff to do to get the girl talking back to you. Remember there are many factors regarding this topic, but I will provide infos as soon as I can, also note that I didn't include how to get the girls number or give away your number right? This issue is a different story by itself and I will focus on it soon in a future post. So for now, practice practice!

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Seduction Tips #2 Clothes

Seduction Tips #2 Clothes

Clothing for men

In a relationship to be? Love at first glance? Already started dating? Let the Real love doctor help you on this matter.

Hello readers and once again good day to all. Another busy day in the clinic and lately I have a surge of emails pouring in. To those who mailed, don't you guys worry, the love doctor is here to answer your relationship, love and life inquiries even if it takes me a long life time to do all of it! So unto our next seduction tip. Clothing for men!

On our first tip on grooming we specifically point out the importance of clean decent clothes to be worn not only at work but on a daily basis when you leave the house. Why? Because we can't be too sure if Mr. Right for me or The Girl of your dreams might suddenly pop up out of nowhere. The next topic is clothing style for men. Yes clothes, it's a basic necessity of our everyday life so why not add it to your appeal to women. If your middle aged or even in the late teens, don't you think its time to rid of the "youngsters look" all in all? What I mean is the hip-hop culture or the emotional punk rocker days must be left behind! But if you prefer to remain in these so called years then I can't force you to totally commit and do a transformation. One thing I learned after college is when I rid of my rocker look, more women came up to me and I started to feel confident too. I don't have the weird looks I use to get at trains and subways when I do public transport, I started to do my own individual style of wearing my favorite clothes. Yep it is still on, individuality is still king in the modern world, but you have to make sure your individuality taste is still in the norm. Why? because in general most of the population is in the norm, it's basic marketing sense that if you sell to the mass general public that you tend to grab the big sales and these sales means a lot of eyes of women that will find you attractive.

simple yet elegant is still trendy

Clothes if you are already dating or in a great relationship not only projects your image, but along with your partner, the two of you will show to the world to what type of a couple are you. Decent formal, clean pressed clothes will tell the public that both of you may have stable jobs or that you both came from well brought up family, while rugged and dirty looking "drags" will convey a sense of rebellion or worse lower status in the society, so you better be careful in what you wear so to not to shame your partner. It's viral if you don't know yet, if your partner dresses decently, you will somehow get infected and pretty soon your preference on clothing is due to change to decency too. That's the good in a well developed relationship.

elmo says you don't have to be emo anymore

different styles of clothing to attract varies from one person to another depending on the individual's height and weight. It's just basic common sense that is needed to avoid the pitfalls of bad clothing. For example, wearing dress shoes and black socks on running shorts or cargo shorts make you look like a grandpa disaster [what a term!] and having to wear tennis shoes on corporate wear is somewhat dumb! Every clothing has it's own do's and don'ts but the thing that stands out the most is COLOR!. Color blending is my term on this one, if you're dark toned in skin, then it is adviceable to avoid pastel colors and neon colors, they will surely make you look like a lollipop holder or a tootsie roll on crack, instead go with the near shades of black and white to grey and lightly toned colors of the rainbow. When I say rainbow, the basic colors or elementary colors compromising the spectrum is just made up with the Red, Blue and Green, wear light versions of these colors to help promote eye rest when people stare at you. If you are whiter in complexion like me, then pretty much all colors are in favor for you to wear. Just make sure to always wear the basic colors or singled color shirts because they tend to bring more attention that those flowery or graffiti types, worse are the stripes [we ain't no zebra's! stripes only works if your super thin or super fat or super short or super tall] Stripes are good too sometimes and on ocassions but I don't recommend them to be worn often.

we zebras should watch out for em lions

The key ingredient here is simplicity. A simple colored clothing when a catchy small graphics or a tag line is enough to draw attention. Don't forget once you got that female looking at you to smile and be your at your best confidence, because this is your first step in getting to know her. You have already done the part of selling your biggest advertisement, your self and your clothes.
Clothes need not be expensive to stand out, it just have to be worn properly and appeal to more people together with your self. You must be confident enough to wear a certain clothes for it's seduction magic to work. With this tip number 2 on relationship, love and life advices I can guarantee a few glances from the opposite sex coming your way!

till next time avid readers good day
Love doctor Mac signing off!



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For Women Love Tips Number 1

A few Good Men!

For the Girls, Relationships, Love and Life Tips for Women #1
Places to meet those Mr.Right for me.


Ah You might probably ask why on earth are we looking for Mr. Right when he doesn't actually exist! well not to burst your bubble girl he does exist, but only as "Mr. Right For you!" why as just for you? because there is always a someone for anyone, the only thing we need to do is look for them and not be like those hopeless romantics who wait for their Prince falling down from the sky or sprouting from the ground out of nowhere. Men are territorial creatures, and just like the time of the stone age, Men can be categorized to the places he usually hang out. I will give further details about this stuff on future issues, for now we shall concentrate on where do most of the few Good men hang out!

like a grain of sand, where are the few good men?

Before we jump into the topic of finding the few good men on building relationships or finding love, let me tell you this. As a guy I already know what the entire world is like, and that women outnumbered men, hmmm i don't know the exact figure but last time I check it was like a ratio of men versus women to the numbers of 1:5, which basically means in every one guy there are five women. Nature is a culprit for this because of the chromosomes needed in the DNA to produce a male offspring. During conception, where the mom and the dad share one chromosome each, it takes 2 genes of DNA x to have a male and any other combination like x-y, y-x, y-y will eventually produce a female. No wonder in other countries a son born to a family is accompanied by tremendous celebrations! I think the ratio now tends to worsen since the female species have gays, transsexuals and any other male preference to compete with! No kidding. So there you have some little facts not to get your ass sitting there if you really want a man in your life, go find him and don't let those countless hours you spent in the mirror or millions of bucks for beauty products just go to waste by either finding no man in your life or ending up with Mr. Wrong.

Now where do the few good men hang out? Well to tell you a little known fact is that they don't hang around the Internet! Even though
a million women may claim that they find the man of their dreams online, I doubt it if they have any idea to how many perverts, nerds, over sized lards preying on helpless women are there in the web, I don't even know the figure but with all the bad rep in the news about online dating and online match making the Internet is still not a good place to seek a few good men. To those who got lucky in the Internet, then good for you, the word says it all. LUCKY. Real men who are worthy of your time don't need to sulk up in the Internet for more that 1 an hour a day in the Internet or if work requires even an 8-9 hour shifts on the net, why? cause like TV the Internet takes away his social life. Real men who are ripe for good relationships and love making are everywhere where there is people, these guys are social creatures. A healthy normal guy is a social person. They love to go out and meet people on all walks of life, and not wasting their time in the net, watching porn or doing some stuff many of us don't understand [why do many fall into the traps of Internet addiction? we can only wonder what they are doing in that hell hole!] Yes, real man that could be Mr. Right For You can mostly be found in Social, well beloved and people packed places! if you want to know what are the Places I'm talking about I will give you just a few list soon as I will continue to tell you
about where to seek real men in future post. For now I will suggest a good meeting place!


The Ball Arena!!!

act like a good crowd

It's simple. Men thrives and dies for competition. So in the real world today where can this place of competition be? Well for one is the workplace, but hell no you don't want to seek your Mr.right there! These places can be found in SPORTS ARENA or typical venues where sports are played! It's a fact that real men love sports. There are many types of sports, be it boxing, wrestling, bikes and other physical dangerous stuffs but nothing appeal more to men that BALL SPORTS. Do your research but the top ball sports are these FOUR---BASKETBALL,
BASEBALL, SOCCER and FOOTBALL/RUGBY. So go cheer for your favorite team, bring along a companion, when I say a companion it means only one! Men sometimes tend not to approach a herd of women, so at least a nephew or a close friend will do, best if she's a girl too. Sit somewhere in the general admission area or if you can afford after the ringside seats, then try to look fresh and act naturally. Mostly guys go with their friends too but most of them go with their buddy, so If one of these few good men spot you and you advertise your self right by carrying the right moves and wearing the right clothes for the occasion [casual wear or sporty, no need for expensive dresses in a ball game] then they might just will make a move to get to know you. Also don't wait till half time to buy drinks or food at the stalls, if your Guy stands up and heads for the comfort room then you too should stand up. Just make sure you are always on his radar or just around the vicinity, if he is into you he will do the right move and introduce himself to you. Don't frustrate if it takes you a couple or more games till some guy approaches, everything takes time.

dress sporty!

That's it for today's relationship tips by your love doctor!



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