Blonde Women May make Men Dumber

Men like to make jokes on the stereotype of the dumb blond women. And now, a French team has discovered that men's mental ability plummeted when dealing with blond women, probably as they thought they had a less intelligent interlocutor.

The study published in Journal of Experimental
Psychology consisted in two trials, both of them coming with the same results. Men in the study had to complete general knowledge tests while being exposed to women of various hair colors. The scores dropped in both trials when the subjects were presented images of blond women. Further investigations revealed that the subjects had been following unconscious social stereotypes.

"This proves that people confronted with stereotypes generally behave in line with them. In this case blonds have the potential to make people act in a dumber way, because they mimic the unconscious stereotype of the dumb blond," said co-author Thierry Meyer, professor of social psychology at the University of Paris X-Nanterre.

You know that everybody takes the delicate girl with a high-pitch as an innocent creature, when actually she curses all day long when the boss is not around. The same happens with all people we deal with: he/she must be that way because he/she looks like that, speaks like that. This study is another proof which underlines the theory that people’s behavior is powerfully dictated by stereotypes.


Hollywood especially started (at the middle of the 20th century) to boost the stereotype of the dumb blond bimbo through movies stars like Marilyn Monroe, Goldie Hawn and Pamela Anderson. And the trend has been refueled recently by celebrities like Paris Hilton, Britney Spears, and Jessica Simpson.

Most white babies are born blond, that's why some researchers suppose there is a basic connection between blond hair and infancy, and the tendency to regard blond woman as less mature. As men have the tendency to look for younger women, as these are at the climax of their fertile period, perhaps this also explains the sexual preference of men for blond women, which they could perceive as younger.








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Reasons Why Men are Happier Than Women

35 Reasons Why Men Are Happier Then Women

1. We keep our last name.

2. The garage is all ours.

3. Wedding plans take care of themselves.

4. Chocolate is just another snack.

5. We can be president.

6. We can wear a white T-shirt to a water park.

7. Car mechanics tell us the truth.

8. The world is our urinal.

9. We never have to drive to another gas station because this one's just too icky.

10. Same work, more pay.

11. Wrinkles add character.

12. Wedding dress - $5000; tux rental - $100.

13. People never stare at our chest when we're talking to them.

14. The occasional well-rendered belch is practically expected.

15. New shoes don't cut, blister, or mangle our feet.

16. One mood, ALL the time.

17. Phone conversations are over in 30 seconds flat.

18. We know stuff about tanks.

19. A five-day vacation requires only one suitcase.

20. We can open all our own jars.

21. We get extra credit for the slightest act of thoughtfulness.

22. If someone forgets to invite us, he or she can still be our friend.

23. Our underwear is $8.95 for a three-pack.

24. Everything on our face stays its original color.

25. Three pairs of shoes are more than enough.

26. We don't have to stop and think of which way to turn a nut on a bolt.

27. We almost never have strap problems in public.

28. We are unable to see wrinkles in our clothes.

29. The same hair style lasts for years, maybe decades.

30. We don't have to shave below our neck.

31. Our belly usually hides our big hips.

32. One wallet and one pair of shoes, one color, all seasons.

33. We can "do" our nails with a pocket-knife.

34. We have freedom of choice concerning growing a mustache.

35. We can do Christmas shopping for 25 relatives, on December 24, in 45 minutes.








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A love story to share - To all the girls I loved Before!

A love story to share - To all the girls I loved Before!

Good day avid readers and my small but loyal fan base for the Real Love Doctor Site! Today we will tackle on something different, we will read a letter from an avid fan with the name of DEATH ZERO. He will be sharing a short story for today about his past love life, the girls he knew and loved before and all the relationships to be that just didn't happen. I enjoyed reading it and it's a bit bunchy but if you have time it will be worth a while to read.

You too can participate in the sharing or asking of questions regarding love, life and relationships, so email me or write a comment and be heard by our loyal fan base here in
the Real Love Doctor's Clinic.

Here is his letter.

"
ei guys wanna share some of my on-going story and i hope the DOC post it in the BLOG and give some comments so that other bloggers and viewers may learn a lesson..

To The Moon And Back (and confuse a bit)
by: deathzero23

puppy love is not true love

I know i've been in love before and again..Yeah, I had my first serious relationship wayback at 3rd Year highschool and we started as best friends..A good foundation to start. And a good pattern developed into love. Yeah all are first times, like the first time i admit my true feelings in the face of the girl, prove my cleanest intentions, talked to her parents, first date, first kiss (yeah everykind of kisses hehehe), first touch, first score, etc. you named it, it's all there. But things got sour after highschool days..Yeah college days are crucial in terms of handling precious time.

I know at first before we pledge our love together (ahem i remember Edgar Mortiz' classic song My Pledge of Love Cannot be Broken LOL!) that we have this one difference. RELIGION. She's a catholic-convert-to-born again and I'm a pure Catholic. I know it will be a future problem but i neglected it just to have a serious Relationship. Then I paid the price, I lost her. But still i thank GOD for it. I thank God for making RELIGION is the cause of our break-up and not some 3rd party which is very painful. And i walked and wandered around soul-searching. Till i found this cute girl...

Yeah we've met in the university and we're classmates. College days. We have so many similaraties from A to Z. Yeah same pattern happened, Best friends turn lovers. The catch is By that time that we were friends, she have a BF but i'm at the right time since their relationship is starting to fall apart. I'm there to catch her fall. And completed her life...I think.

Since she transfered to other school then she got her first failing grade (yeah she's a genius student and tasted her first defeat), She got very busy and busy and busy. Her craving to get back at the top caused our nearing break-up...Adding to my INJURY she got a guy..yeah 3rd party which i didn't expect. She didn't told beforehand about this guy. She hid it from me. And just waited for me to find out for myself..I never really expect such kind girl to turned like that...and i hate what she did...she tried approaching me several times but i neglected it everytime. My reason? it's simple, the DAMAGE has been done so what to explain and to expect? nothing....And she got tired chasing me from e-mail, SMS and Friendster.

After that i made a hiatus from having serious relationships almost 4 years i think...i concentrated on studying hard...Still i thank GOD for this reason of our break-up happen earlier before i got enrolled in my thesis subject. Imagine the HUGE DAMAGE if the break-up happen during my thesis. It will be more than hell to suffer...right?

yeah i got graduated and got a job, still single and enjoying life, like spend money on stuffs, eat and drink, play videogames, enjoying my liberty. but something happened, i've met a girl.....

I know i've been in love before. I know how it feels from being loved, to be in love and being left and hurt...I'm not saying i love this new girl. We're having constant communication thru SMS, we see each other if time permits us. I can say that I LIKE HER. She's cute, kind, deep, thoughful, etc. although she believes in paranormals and tarrot cards and may some of you called it weird but hey i can still ride on it. But.... She's very career-driven girl. She's a Dean's Lister in college, want to earn big bucks early, taking a review school after work, and probably take board exams in January next year.

I'm in all total support for her. everytime she feels tired from such multi-tasking activities, having pressure problems and stuffs, I'm there to make her smile, feel happy, laugh, inspired and make her spirits up. And she's very thankful about it. Thankful to the point that she feels guilty for taking up my time just to be with her. But i told her not to worry and it's fine for me and it's true.

avoid conflicts with her family to avoid this!^^^^^

She's a Fil-Chinese and i know such cultural differences may clash. Not to her but her parents. She's a Fil-Chinese alright but she's more of 80% PINOY in her attitude so no problem. But her parents is what bothers me. I know i've been there before but what is happening to me?

I always say to myself that i like her time and time again. But Is it the truth or am I just being CAUTIOUS due to my past heartaches? Again I've been there Before but i feel something is different within me.

Up to now, we still talked and cherish every conversation we have. And if I managed to have a date with her, I always make it a special moment never to forget for her. I'm stopping the story for now since i have nothing to add...I hope the readers never got tired reading this and i hope some of you learned a lesson at least a bit.

Whaddya Say DOC MAC?"

"



As all can see, I will never ever edit your letters, so what ever came to my mail box, I will post it as is.

To Death Zero, thanks for this very informative and funny side of your life and love relationships. I will be monitoring your stories as always and will provide tips for you to make you more appealing to the women that you like, for now your story is nice and it showed me your nice strong character to move on from one failed relationships by making your chin-up and face the world. That is truly a manly character for you!


Good day, love doctor out for the day!

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Great Gift Ideas for Your Loved One #2

Great Gift Ideas for Your Loved One #2

The Real Love Doctor Gift Ideas Number 2

Hello readers and avid letter senders, before I hit another Ask the Love Doctor about love, life and relationships segment, I will give out another tips and tricks to all of you out there with partners or even just a loved one alike.

Last time out we talked about giving them some out of town or out of the country tickets beneath their pillows or enclosed in a letter of appreciation, I can only imagine the happiness one will feel to uncover that kind of gift! if you really feel a special connection with someone, or if you have fallen deeply in love with someone, many times you have gone into thinking if there are stuff you can personally give to that special someone that you love. Most of the time you just ran out of great gift ideas right? Never fear just return here once so often and the love doctor will show you great gift ideas all the time.

For today we go physical and we will tackle on the one thing that keeps everybody feel connected to the person they love, and that is the sense of touch! What else is there to boost the senses than a good touchy and relaxing back rub or better known as the back massage!

be gentle

Every one is stressed nowadays, with all the bustling of city life and family life, so if you and your partner do get a chance to be sitting or lying away somewhere comfortable, just shock them and start giving them a soft massage on their backs! This will work wonders on the relationship and will surely make your partner appreciative of this special gift that you have offered to them.

To get you going, I have my own techniques in doing a back rub, but for now you just need to know the general steps and info. More on back massages soon! Enjoy the info below

Setting the mood:

Before giving a massage, let the person take a hot bath or shower. This will help initiate the relaxation process. Light some aroma candles and play some soothing music to set the mood.

Massage Steps:

1: Lie the person face down on a flat, comfortable surface, such as a floor mat or firm bed.
2: Stand by his/her side, and place one hand on the lower back and one hand between the shoulder blades, over the heart.
3: Apply thumb pressure on both sides of the spine simultaneously and warm up the back. First start at the lower back and knead with your thumbs up gently to the neck area.
4: Apply massage oil with a smooth, delicate stroke. With one long stroke, slide your palms on either side of the spine going downwards to the pelvis.
5: Continue gliding your hands on other parts of the back and then on both sides of the neck to the base of the head.
6: Massage the lower back area and move up slowly to the shoulders. Place the first and index fingers of each hand on either side of the spine. Make rhythmic, overlapping movements with the fingers all the way down the back.
7: Apply pressure as if you are kneading, on the muscular areas at the top of the shoulders and the mid-back area.
8: Using your fingers, apply pressure on areas that feel tight or hard, called as knots.
9: Perform circular massage strokes, clockwise and anti-clockwise with your fingertips on the muscles close to the spine and around the shoulder blades.
10: Then gently rotate the arms, one at a time, for proper blood flow.

do em often too!

Massage Tips & Warnings
Avoid working directly on the spine. When massaging near the spine, use extremely gentle strokes without any pressure. Massage on either side of the spine instead.
When massaging, use slow movements for a soothing and calming effect, and fast movements for a stimulating effect.
Do not massage on broken skin, blisters or open areas, where there is a possibility of infection.
Make massage a relaxing experience, and do not hurry things.


Till next time!

The Real Love Doctor Signing out




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I need space! Ask the Love Doctor/ Love Doctor Mac answers! 2

Ask the Love Doctor/ Love Doctor Mac answers!

Another fine day to all of you! We're back with our new letter for the week. I choose this letter out of about 6 because I was encouraging folks to comment and join in the discussions, So this guy did just that! and because He did He will get Love, Life and Relationships 101 tips from the Love Doc. Here's his letter:

"got a big problem hir guyz just dont know what 2 do anymore im just starting to dislike my girl im just tired of her trips and attitude but damn i just cant leave her it fells like im in hell w/o her my best budd tells me that this the point were in we both need space but we both cant give it to each other for an unknown reason hope you could give some tips i have many more to say.... till next time - LuNaTiV_0829"

Hello there LunaTiv, Firstly I would like to welcome you in here and thank you so much for the courage to come out in the open and tell the Love Doctor about your relationship problems. I will waste no time in giving you a sound advice for today okay? But the results is still really up for you to achieve. So with out further ado some tips from your in-house Love Doctor!

not talking?

Suggestions:

1.Communicate!- Early part of your relationship with your girl I'm betting that both of you were heavy chatters right? Talking about each others life, experiences and mainly topics to get to know each other the better. Why not do it all over again? This time around talk about future plans or new found interests between the both of you. The chain in a good relationship is good over all communication! So take time, have a seat in a park or in a place where both of you will share a minimum of an hour a day to just talk! Talk a lot. I do this too with my girl, we chat on coffee and we end up laughing our ass off always and I always look forward to her nice coffee making skills in the morning and in the afternoon. For something new, never take the moment conversation out of the coffee talk, What I mean is, what is it that you and her talking for that talk moment stays during that time and never strays to another time of day or the next hours after your chatter with her. We always talk about politics and stuff in the news for example, then after the coffee talk, we never talk about it again till the next time we sit and have coffee again!


2.Bond like glue!- Most often times relationships and love goes stale because the lack of bonding, most times too we just can't seem to take the other partner's trips or likes as what you said in your letter... "im just starting to dislike my girl im just tired of her trips and attitude"... this comment came from someone who never bonded with his/her partner. The stuff that binds us in a good relationship is love right? But if Love goes wrong and boring the foundation or "glue" will not be strong to keep things in tack. That is why a good bonding trip should happen. First talk to each other and plan a certain activity that the 2 of you will surely enjoy! Most women like to see nature or travel to places. So if you can afford a trip around Asia go on travel, [visit here for an Asian Travel Guide!] or better yet have a cheap adventure and drive around the next town and see places you too have never been. The misadventures and the bondness these trips can bring will do wonders for the relationships and it will save it! Remember the key here is to have an activity that both of you enjoy, a guarantee success of good lovers bonding in a happy event is what I promise you if you will be able to pull this one off.


So before you decide on harsh decisions and that dreadful "NEED SPACE" excuse, why not try the 2 tips I did. I am hoping that my 2 easy tips will save your lost interest to your girl, remember it was you the guy who came into the life of your girlfriends, bother the living hell out of them and it is not just right to leave them just then and there, make an effort to be in love with her again just like the effort you did a while ago in making her love you back!

P.S.

"we both cant give it to each other for an unknown reason hope you could give some tips i have many more to say"

Dude I'm no psychic, just tell me the whole thing and we will discuss it here okay?

goodluck!



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Seduction Tips #2 Clothes

Seduction Tips #2 Clothes

Clothing for men

In a relationship to be? Love at first glance? Already started dating? Let the Real love doctor help you on this matter.

Hello readers and once again good day to all. Another busy day in the clinic and lately I have a surge of emails pouring in. To those who mailed, don't you guys worry, the love doctor is here to answer your relationship, love and life inquiries even if it takes me a long life time to do all of it! So unto our next seduction tip. Clothing for men!

On our first tip on grooming we specifically point out the importance of clean decent clothes to be worn not only at work but on a daily basis when you leave the house. Why? Because we can't be too sure if Mr. Right for me or The Girl of your dreams might suddenly pop up out of nowhere. The next topic is clothing style for men. Yes clothes, it's a basic necessity of our everyday life so why not add it to your appeal to women. If your middle aged or even in the late teens, don't you think its time to rid of the "youngsters look" all in all? What I mean is the hip-hop culture or the emotional punk rocker days must be left behind! But if you prefer to remain in these so called years then I can't force you to totally commit and do a transformation. One thing I learned after college is when I rid of my rocker look, more women came up to me and I started to feel confident too. I don't have the weird looks I use to get at trains and subways when I do public transport, I started to do my own individual style of wearing my favorite clothes. Yep it is still on, individuality is still king in the modern world, but you have to make sure your individuality taste is still in the norm. Why? because in general most of the population is in the norm, it's basic marketing sense that if you sell to the mass general public that you tend to grab the big sales and these sales means a lot of eyes of women that will find you attractive.

simple yet elegant is still trendy

Clothes if you are already dating or in a great relationship not only projects your image, but along with your partner, the two of you will show to the world to what type of a couple are you. Decent formal, clean pressed clothes will tell the public that both of you may have stable jobs or that you both came from well brought up family, while rugged and dirty looking "drags" will convey a sense of rebellion or worse lower status in the society, so you better be careful in what you wear so to not to shame your partner. It's viral if you don't know yet, if your partner dresses decently, you will somehow get infected and pretty soon your preference on clothing is due to change to decency too. That's the good in a well developed relationship.

elmo says you don't have to be emo anymore

different styles of clothing to attract varies from one person to another depending on the individual's height and weight. It's just basic common sense that is needed to avoid the pitfalls of bad clothing. For example, wearing dress shoes and black socks on running shorts or cargo shorts make you look like a grandpa disaster [what a term!] and having to wear tennis shoes on corporate wear is somewhat dumb! Every clothing has it's own do's and don'ts but the thing that stands out the most is COLOR!. Color blending is my term on this one, if you're dark toned in skin, then it is adviceable to avoid pastel colors and neon colors, they will surely make you look like a lollipop holder or a tootsie roll on crack, instead go with the near shades of black and white to grey and lightly toned colors of the rainbow. When I say rainbow, the basic colors or elementary colors compromising the spectrum is just made up with the Red, Blue and Green, wear light versions of these colors to help promote eye rest when people stare at you. If you are whiter in complexion like me, then pretty much all colors are in favor for you to wear. Just make sure to always wear the basic colors or singled color shirts because they tend to bring more attention that those flowery or graffiti types, worse are the stripes [we ain't no zebra's! stripes only works if your super thin or super fat or super short or super tall] Stripes are good too sometimes and on ocassions but I don't recommend them to be worn often.

we zebras should watch out for em lions

The key ingredient here is simplicity. A simple colored clothing when a catchy small graphics or a tag line is enough to draw attention. Don't forget once you got that female looking at you to smile and be your at your best confidence, because this is your first step in getting to know her. You have already done the part of selling your biggest advertisement, your self and your clothes.
Clothes need not be expensive to stand out, it just have to be worn properly and appeal to more people together with your self. You must be confident enough to wear a certain clothes for it's seduction magic to work. With this tip number 2 on relationship, love and life advices I can guarantee a few glances from the opposite sex coming your way!

till next time avid readers good day
Love doctor Mac signing off!



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For Women Love Tips Number 1

A few Good Men!

For the Girls, Relationships, Love and Life Tips for Women #1
Places to meet those Mr.Right for me.


Ah You might probably ask why on earth are we looking for Mr. Right when he doesn't actually exist! well not to burst your bubble girl he does exist, but only as "Mr. Right For you!" why as just for you? because there is always a someone for anyone, the only thing we need to do is look for them and not be like those hopeless romantics who wait for their Prince falling down from the sky or sprouting from the ground out of nowhere. Men are territorial creatures, and just like the time of the stone age, Men can be categorized to the places he usually hang out. I will give further details about this stuff on future issues, for now we shall concentrate on where do most of the few Good men hang out!

like a grain of sand, where are the few good men?

Before we jump into the topic of finding the few good men on building relationships or finding love, let me tell you this. As a guy I already know what the entire world is like, and that women outnumbered men, hmmm i don't know the exact figure but last time I check it was like a ratio of men versus women to the numbers of 1:5, which basically means in every one guy there are five women. Nature is a culprit for this because of the chromosomes needed in the DNA to produce a male offspring. During conception, where the mom and the dad share one chromosome each, it takes 2 genes of DNA x to have a male and any other combination like x-y, y-x, y-y will eventually produce a female. No wonder in other countries a son born to a family is accompanied by tremendous celebrations! I think the ratio now tends to worsen since the female species have gays, transsexuals and any other male preference to compete with! No kidding. So there you have some little facts not to get your ass sitting there if you really want a man in your life, go find him and don't let those countless hours you spent in the mirror or millions of bucks for beauty products just go to waste by either finding no man in your life or ending up with Mr. Wrong.

Now where do the few good men hang out? Well to tell you a little known fact is that they don't hang around the Internet! Even though
a million women may claim that they find the man of their dreams online, I doubt it if they have any idea to how many perverts, nerds, over sized lards preying on helpless women are there in the web, I don't even know the figure but with all the bad rep in the news about online dating and online match making the Internet is still not a good place to seek a few good men. To those who got lucky in the Internet, then good for you, the word says it all. LUCKY. Real men who are worthy of your time don't need to sulk up in the Internet for more that 1 an hour a day in the Internet or if work requires even an 8-9 hour shifts on the net, why? cause like TV the Internet takes away his social life. Real men who are ripe for good relationships and love making are everywhere where there is people, these guys are social creatures. A healthy normal guy is a social person. They love to go out and meet people on all walks of life, and not wasting their time in the net, watching porn or doing some stuff many of us don't understand [why do many fall into the traps of Internet addiction? we can only wonder what they are doing in that hell hole!] Yes, real man that could be Mr. Right For You can mostly be found in Social, well beloved and people packed places! if you want to know what are the Places I'm talking about I will give you just a few list soon as I will continue to tell you
about where to seek real men in future post. For now I will suggest a good meeting place!


The Ball Arena!!!

act like a good crowd

It's simple. Men thrives and dies for competition. So in the real world today where can this place of competition be? Well for one is the workplace, but hell no you don't want to seek your Mr.right there! These places can be found in SPORTS ARENA or typical venues where sports are played! It's a fact that real men love sports. There are many types of sports, be it boxing, wrestling, bikes and other physical dangerous stuffs but nothing appeal more to men that BALL SPORTS. Do your research but the top ball sports are these FOUR---BASKETBALL,
BASEBALL, SOCCER and FOOTBALL/RUGBY. So go cheer for your favorite team, bring along a companion, when I say a companion it means only one! Men sometimes tend not to approach a herd of women, so at least a nephew or a close friend will do, best if she's a girl too. Sit somewhere in the general admission area or if you can afford after the ringside seats, then try to look fresh and act naturally. Mostly guys go with their friends too but most of them go with their buddy, so If one of these few good men spot you and you advertise your self right by carrying the right moves and wearing the right clothes for the occasion [casual wear or sporty, no need for expensive dresses in a ball game] then they might just will make a move to get to know you. Also don't wait till half time to buy drinks or food at the stalls, if your Guy stands up and heads for the comfort room then you too should stand up. Just make sure you are always on his radar or just around the vicinity, if he is into you he will do the right move and introduce himself to you. Don't frustrate if it takes you a couple or more games till some guy approaches, everything takes time.

dress sporty!

That's it for today's relationship tips by your love doctor!



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What are they Thinking? Men and Women

HUMOR WITH LOVE

For today since we have no Letters pouring in for our Ask Dr.Mac/Ask the love doctor segment, we will just enjoy a good site review and some few laughs about an article I find in that site. This Topic is not way off topic mind you and we are still dead on Love, Life and Relationship Tips from your good Love Doctor!

That site is no other than the quirky blog of some guy in the vicinity of Metro Manila

A Blog about Girls in the Philippines

Here's a few nice pics from his site which I will show here.

if you can spot the sex gland then you have great eyes

if you can't find the sex gland then see an eye specialist! NOW

It's a really funny site and shows you the HUMOROUS side of the Philippine folks, or more commonly known as the pinoys!

See you next time. Good day




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How to attract the opposite sex tip 1 GROOMING continued...

GROOMING 101

Now to continue on our topic of grooming. WE SHOULD start for MEN

Women comes in later in the next updates!
Let me tell you a secret that most women possessed, they judge men at the instant they see you. Yes that's a fact. Ask a woman close to you, like your mother, sister girlfriend or girl friends. The very first thing that majority of women, [why did I say majority? because I want to generalized but not conclude stuff by myself ^_^], do when they see an eye candy of a man is how neat he looks. Secondly she will look at his actions and mannerisms. For now since the first impression states for how neat you look, we shall only focus there.

Most women spend countless hours in front of the mirror to have themselves looking good, don't you think you can be at least hygienic? Shave everyday or 3x a week seems appropriate if you want to save that rugged style [ boy! the Beattles Sgt.Pepper era is long gone back in the 60's] Wash your hair or trim it 4-6 weeks or so, if you want to sport long doo's then make them look presentable, use deodorant's [no need to stress the importance factor here], wash your genitals for crying out loud! [what more can be embarrassing than when mr.hardy makes his grand showing and flies were circling all over him] wait these are just the basics!

More complex stuffs are cut the nails of your hands and feet or if you want em long clean those dirty crap underneath them [women likes to check men's nails when they stare at your hand], make sure your socks and shoes wont smell by applying foot deos on your feet, clean your shoes, press em clothes and wear a clean pair of shirt or underwear everyday [not much for pants since you can wear them twice the minimum ^_^]. Now if you go for those minority looks like a rocker perhaps or an EMO kid, then make sure you have a clean looking face and the look doesn't make you look like a greasy street bum.

oh those were the days

Such detail to your self is already a big piece of the pie for women when you start off to make that very first impression of yours. Even if you are not so good looking or just an average Joe, there will be times when your confidence will be boost by feeling clean and [feeling] handsome.

here's a few general tips:

1. GO TO A HAIRSTYLIST: instead of the usual barber, go to a hairstylist often. they make hair doo's customization the best and they always seem to know what they are doing unlike those sleazy barbers who cut and cut all day to copy Hitler's bowl head. the only downside is Saloons and Hairstylist cost more even thrice the price of a simple barber cut, but the rewards will be gold, as a good hair day will surely not keep the chics away!

2. SHAVING: hair and hair growing on places they aren't design to be must be taken off, the more skin you show, the lesser hairs you keep, that's the rule of the thumb. If you don't want to lose that goatie, then trim it to an acceptable level. Pubics are best when trimmed and nicely cut to a few centimeters. As I said, gone are the days of the hippies and John Lennon wannabes, stick to the George Clooney look or the Brad and the Beckhams' as other's want to point out.

3. GLASSES: nerd! well don't be. generally glasses don't look good. isolated cases of cuteness can be achieved but most of the time you will look like a weird science project with a pair of specs, so lose them! wear contacts instead. If you think contacts are pricey, then ask a lady friend or a trendy gay guy to what shape of specs suits your face.

4. DRESS CODE: this is the second most important thing in your look. Go to a fancy club or pub and spy on the newest thing that most guys wear, then make an effort to emulate but be sure to make your self stand out for that individuality feel. If it suits your body and image, buy latest mags and look at what good-looking models wear and ask a woman or a woman at heart if the dress code you styled your self looks good on you. A second-third opinion works best only if they come from the opposite sex, since these are the species you wanna impress!

ABS is better than AB

5. WORKING OUT: if you can, take advantage of making your body have the right curves and lose that AB and have em ABS. these appeals to women more, but hey if you can accept what you see at the mirror when you look at it after shower, then I don't have to force you on working out. Go grab that supersized FastFood Meal and kill your image and your self fatso! Remember being fat is not appealing to women, they may say your cute but they won't sleep with you! And don't be the next Schwarzenegger too, unless you are trying to attract dudes and not dudets =P
Everything in moderation my friend.

6. TAKE CARE OF YOUR BODY/MIND/SOUL: the most important part of grooming. if you have a disease, have it treated right away with the right stuff and not crappy myths. You can't use a deadly smile if you have lousy teeth and you can't show skin if you have skin problems wont you? also take care of your mind, don't overdue everything, like talking too much, showing too much knowledge unless you're a geek in National Geographic, or stalk some girl. Focus and keep your mind at a healthy state [I don't know, do yoga or have a vacation but always keep in mind to keep that stress level low, eat properly]. Your soul must not rot in hell here on earth, don't be a friggin' war freak, be nice and kind or at least for a few hours in a day. Be nice to children and offer seats to the ederly, when your personality is okay women tend to magnetize straight into you.

ever wonder why chics dig these types?

There, those are just general tips on grooming for men, of course there are more to it, but if you have all of those then you can pretty much say you have covered the basics in making it easy to attract or find your potential mate. If you are hard headed and a rebel, oh so you really want things to go your way, then make it in moderation and don't go to extremes which can make you a deviant of society.

For your information being in the norm or the accepted is a start for you. That's why it's called normal and accepted because people generally like it or are pleased with it. So if you tend to sway a bit to the left or right, just tone it down to an acceptable firewall level.


Next grooming for women.... SOON



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How to attract the opposite sex tip 1 GROOMING

Introduction to GROOMING

How many times does your mother ever told you when you were young to brush your teeth, comb your hair and take a bath? How many times does your school administrator tried to discipline you for your penmanships and project reports to be organized and looking fresh? How many times have you read company policies which states that a certain well groomed dress code is a must in reporting to your office? Countless times isn't it?

Well just like everything else, humans tend to like cleanliness a bit little more than being dirty. Of course there are only an exceptional few who would intentionally make themselves look greasy, yuppie and plain outright dirty, but who would want to be seen with them unless you belong to that social circle! and then there are those who become not well groomed just because of plain NEGLECT or a sickening LAZINESS syndrome. Yes I coined that one didn't I.

not just a bad hair day folks

First let us get to the basics of the human sexual taste, ever since time memorial, when the first humans started to socialize, grooming was already playing a big part of their world. The men would smell the woman they like and if they are attracted they will pursue her. The "Alpha male" usually is the most cunning and dominant and yep, he is well-groomed in the eyes of his lady mates. Onward to the 21st Century and you won't be shocked at how consumer beauty product brands dominate the scene almost anywhere you look! Billboards, T.V. commercials and print media. Everything is there offering stuff that will make you stand out from the rest.

But you don't need all of those consumer products to attract a potential mate or keep your partner smiling at how great you look, it all boils down to what is the norm. What really is the norm? That we will talk about in Grooming part 2 in a couple of days. Sit tight.





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The Answer To Life, Relationships, Universe and Everything Can Now Be Found in Google!

No kidding!… well since this pretty will be my first ever post as a new blogger here in Real Love Doctor, let me give you a smile and some weird looks while you browse over to google, the world’s best capitalist search engine ever, and that’s not even pushing it.To know the answer please try to be a good follower and follow these instructions:

1. go to www.google.com

2. encode in the only text box you will see in that page, or also known as the search bar

3. encode these phrase letter per letter, word for word– the answer to life the universe and everything

4. once the search result page appear google will calculate and show you the answer using its powerfull search engine technology

If you have been good enough and followed my instructions to a breeze then you will come right to the answer.

The next post will be me giving you an introduction to who I am, what do I do, what is thisplace all about and what are we doing here?

For the meantime good day everyone!

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The Love Doctor | Real Life Experiences To Love Tips

It's been a while since I started to give advice again. After so many failed relationships in my life [let's say more about more than a dozen, but hey at least a couple or two did work out fine] I decided to tie the knot maybe sometime around next year. Which leads me to do this website to at least give out helpful advice to youngsters and not so youngsters out there or to those who are happy in love.

Life isn't about being alone and being frustrated and there is always time to move on or face new things. This Real Love Doc blog site isn't about your ordinary e-book about relationships or love advice cliche that you will always hear or read everywhere. This Site is an in your face, real life experiences and no holds bar accounts on finding a partner, being together with your partner, facing the problems in a love partnerships and many other life related accounts. All of these are not created for you to follow step by step just like you do in a manual, but for you to take notes or inspire or even make it as a reference as why somebody out there is successful at love or why somebody out there is miserable in love.

Once a week we will take a letter or email from our readers, guests or friends and We will be able to read, comment and give our own advices to the one seeking our help. Then we will also have our weekly tips and tricks about love form those who are "experienced" enough for all of us to learn and enjoy reading. Articles about healthy life and living will also be discussed weekly and of course our last course for the day will be literature, movies and all other interesting stuff that makes being in a romantic relationship ever so appealing. All in all we can all expect this blog to be updated at least 3-5x a week the max and at least 2x a week the minimum. so be sure to be here always and expect to find stuff that relates to you. This blog will surely grow from its humble roots to help people all around the globe, with or without internet access, to be one of the best source of real life information about love relationships.

Have no worries, Doctor Mac is no dirty salesman or some internet wacko who will do you harm, The Doc is a simple computer engineer who have at least been into many places all across the globe but still find time to inspire people in all walks of life through free thought writings, comments, forums and this upcoming blog. When one helps, one will feel fulfillment and joy like no other, religion,gender and race set aside. He believes no man is an island and no island anywhere is incapable of housing men.

So sit back, join in the discussions, drop me a line or email cause the Doctor is in. The Love Clinic is officially opened!

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