Best Friend Close Friend causing Love rifts to Lovers

Hello Dear Readers of The Real Love Doctor Clinic. Today we will tackle a life experience of the Real Love doctor himself. so sit back and enjoy reading the post below today!

I have been asked one too many times to somehow share my life experiences around here so people can gaged my being the Real Love Doctor as either fake or somewhat credible enough. I must say I am stumped always and that I don't have a clue where to start talking. One day a girl mailed me and ask why not share an experience about having an opposite-sex close friend. She asks if it is safe or not? She also included that she is in a relationship and that her boyfriend is pissed off sometimes with this guy close friend of hers.

Hello dear love doctor,

can you site some of your experiences regarding 3rd parties or best friends scneario that threatens a relationship? i have a clkose guy friend in which i have been doing sweet things lately and my current boyfriend is so jealous that he orders me not to hang out with my best friend again.

i'll gladly listen to your explaination,

good day doc
love maris

Dear Maris, To answer that question of your regarding third parties and other members of the opposite sex which could be a potential hazard to our current love relationships, I will personally share you one of my experiences about it. Not that I only have one experienced about that situation, I do have a few, but I will only cite the most relevant one that will surely tackle our main concern for the day.

First I really don't believe in GIRL_BOY best friends or close friends relationships, why??? Simple because for me it is considered as a love relationship under control or in other words you both are semi-in love with each other. That's why the jealousy and insecurity of your other behalf regarding your so called "opposite sex" best friend or close friend.

Man and woman cannot be close friends at all. That is my definitive answer. Many times I am close with a girl, we either become kissing friends or any other physical type of attraction occurs. It's best that the closeness must not be that "close" anymore. Do you treat the same sex friends of yours like the opposite sex close friend of yours the same??? Most answers will be probably no. It's because these close/best friends of the opposite sex we have are just as special as the next lover that we may have.

So I guess you are keeping this guy around because you are attracted to him. My advice is if you really want to be happy with your relationship now it's best that you tell your close friend to slowly pull away before anything else developed into some weird and strange feelings.

Till next time the Love Doctor Signing out of the Love Clinic








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99 Top secret List that women should know about guys

99 SECRETS GIRLS HAVE TO KNOW ABOUT GUYS


1. Guys don't actually look after good-looking girls. They prefer neat and *presentable girls.

* * * 2. Guys hate flirts.

* * * 3. A guy can like you for a minute, and then forget you afterwards.

* * * 4. When a guy says he doesn't understand you, it simply means you're not thinking the way he is.

* * * 5. "Are you doing something?" or "Have you eaten already?" are the first usual questions a guy asks on the phone just to get out from stammering.

* * * 6. Guys may be flirting around all day but before they go to sleep, they always think about the girl they truly care about.

* * * 7. When a guy really likes you, he'll disregard all your bad characteristics.

* * * 8. Guys go crazy over a girl's smile.

* * * 9. Guys will do anything just to get the girl's attention.

* * * 10. Guys hate it when you talk about your ex-boyfriend.

* * * 11. When guys want to meet your parents. Let them.

* * * 12. Guys want to tell you many things but they can't. And they sure have one *habit to gain courage and spirit to tell you many things and it is drinking!

* * * 13. Guys cry!!!

* * * 14. Don't provoke the guy to heat up. Believe me. He will.

* * * 15. Guys can never dream and hope too much.

* * * 16. Guys usually try hard to get the girl who has dumped them, and this makes it harder for them to accept their defeat.

* * * 17. When you touch a guy's heart, there's no turning back.

* * * 18. Giving a guy a hanging message like "You know what?!..uh...never mind!" *would make him jump to a conclusion that is far from what you are thinking.

* * * 19. Guys go crazy when girls touch their hands.

* * * 20. Guys are good flatterers when courting but they usually stammer when they talk to a girl they really like.

* * * 21. When a guy makes a prolonged "umm" or makes any excuses when you're asking him to do you a favor, he's actually saying that he doesn't like you and he can't lay down the card for you.

* * * 22. When a girl says "no", a guy hears it as "try again tomorrow."

* * * 23. You have to tell a guy what you really want before he gets the message clearly.

* * * 24. Guys hate gays!

* * * 25. Guys love their moms.

* * * 26. A guy would sacrifice his money for lunch just to get you a couple of roses.

* * * 27. A guy often thinks about the girl who likes him. But this doesn't mean that the guy likes her.

* * * 28 You can never understand him unless you listen to him.

* * * 29. If a guy tells you he loves you once in a lifetime. He does.

* * * 30. Beware. Guys can make gossips scatter through half of the face of the earth faster than girls can.

* * * 31. Like Eve, girls are guys’ weaknesses.

* * * 32. Guys are very open about themselves.

* * * 33. It's good to test a guy first before you believe him. But don't let him wait that long. *

* * 34. No guy is bad when he is courting

* * * 35. Guys hate it when their clothes get dirty. Even a small dot.

* * * 36. Guys really admire girls that they like even if they're not that much pretty.

* * * 37. Your best friend, whom your boyfriend seeks help from about his problems *with you may end up being admired by your boyfriend.

* * * 38. If a guy tells you about his problems, he just needs someone to listen to him. You don't need to give advice.

* * * 39. A usual act that proves that the guy likes you is when he teases you.

* * * 40. A guy finds ways to keep you off from linking with someone else.

* * * 41. Guys love girls with brains more than girls in miniskirts.

* * * 42. Guys try to find the stuffed toy a girl wants but would unluckily get the wrong one.

* * * 43. Guys virtually brag about anything.

* * * 44. Guys cannot keep secrets that girls tell them.

* * * 45. Guys think too much.

* * * 46. Guys' fantasies are unlimited.

* * * 47. Girls' height doesn't really matter to a guy but her weight does!

* * * 48. Guys tend to get serious with their relationship and become too

* * * possessive. So watch out girls!!!

* * * 49. When a girl makes the boy suffer during courtship, it would be hard for him to let go of that girl.

* * * 50. It's not easy for a guy to let go of his girlfriend after they broke up * especially when they've been together for 3 years or more.

* * * 51. You have to tell a guy what you really want before getting involved with *that guy.

* * * 52. A guy has to experience rejection, because if he's

* * * too-good-never-been-busted, never been in love and hurt, he won't * be matured and grow up.

* * * 53. When an unlikable circumstance comes, guys blame themselves a lot more *than girls do. They could even hurt themselves physically.

* * * 54. Guys have strong passion to change but have weak will power.

* * * 55. Guys are tigers in their peer groups but become tamed pussycats with their *girlfriends.

* * * 56. When a guy pretends to be calm, check if he's sweating. You'll probably *see that he is nervous.

* * * 57. When a guy says he is going crazy about the girl. He really is.

* * * 58. When a guy asks you to leave him alone, he's just actually saying, "Please come and listen to me"

* * * 59. Guys don't really have final decisions.

* * * 60. When a guy loves you, bring out the best in him.

* * * 61. If a guy starts to talk seriously, listen to him.

* * * 62. If a guy has been kept shut or silent, say something.

* * * 63. Guys believe that there's no such thing as love at first sight, but court the girls anyway and then realize at the end that he is wrong.

* * * 64. Guys like femininity not feebleness.

* * * 65. Guys don't like girls who punch harder than they do.

* * * 66. A guy may instantly know if the girl likes him but can never be sure unless the girl tells him.

* * * 67. A guy would waste his time over video games and basketball, the way a girl *would do over her romance novels and make-ups.

* * * 68. Guys love girls who can cook or bake.

* * * 69. Guys like girls who are like their moms. No kidding!

* * * 70. A guy has more problems than you can see with your naked eyes.

* * * 71. A guy's friend knows everything about him. Use this to your advantage.

* * * 72. Don't be a snob. Guys may easily give up on the first sign of rejection.

* * * 73. Don't be biased. Try loving a guy without prejudice and you'll be surprised.

* * * 74. Girls who bathe in their eau de perfumes do more repelling than attracting * guys.

* * * 75. Guys are more talkative than girls are especially when the topic is about *girls.

* * * 76. Guys don't comprehend the statement "Get lost" too well.

* * * 77. Guys really think that girls are strange and have unpredictable decisions but still love them more.

* * * 78. When a guy gives a crooked or pretentious grin at your jokes, he finds them offending and he just tried to be polite.

* * * 79. Guys don't care about how shiny their shoes are unlike girls.

* * * 80. Guys tend to generalize about girls but once they get to know them,they'll realize they're wrong.

* * * 81. Any guy can handle his problems all by his own. He's just too stubborn to deal with it.

* * * 82. Guys find it so objectionable when a girl swears.

* * * 83. Guys' weakest point is at the knee.

* * * 84. When a problem arises, a guy usually keeps himself cool but is already *thinking of a way out.

* * * 85. When a guy is conscious of his looks, it shows he is not good at fixing *things.

* * * 86. When a guy looks at you, either he's amazed of you or he's criticizing you.

* * * 87. When you catch him cheating on you and he asks for a second chance,

* * * give it to him. But when you catch him again and he asks for another chance, ignore him.

* * * 88. If a guy lets you go, he really loves you.

* * * 89. If you have a boyfriend, and your boy best friend always glances at you and it obviously shows that he is jealous whenever you're with your boyfriend, all I can say is your boy best friend loves you more than your boyfriend does.

* * * 90. Guys learn from experience not from the romance books that girls read and take as their basis of experience.

* * * 91. You can tell if a guy is really hurt or in pain when he cries in front of you!

* * * 92. If a guy suddenly asks you for a date, ask him first why.

* * * 93. When a guy says he can't sleep if he doesn't hear your voice even just for one night, hang up. He also tells that to another girl. He only flatters you and sometimes makes fun of you.

* * * 94. You can truly say that a guy has good intentions if you see him praying sometimes.

* * * 95. Guys seek for advice not from a guy but from a girl.

* * * 96. Girls are allowed to touch boys' things. Not their hair!

* * * 97. If a guy says you're beautiful, that guy likes you.

* * * 98. Guys hate girls who overreact.

* * * 99. Guys love you more than you love them if they are serious in your relationships.








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Blonde Women May make Men Dumber

Men like to make jokes on the stereotype of the dumb blond women. And now, a French team has discovered that men's mental ability plummeted when dealing with blond women, probably as they thought they had a less intelligent interlocutor.

The study published in Journal of Experimental
Psychology consisted in two trials, both of them coming with the same results. Men in the study had to complete general knowledge tests while being exposed to women of various hair colors. The scores dropped in both trials when the subjects were presented images of blond women. Further investigations revealed that the subjects had been following unconscious social stereotypes.

"This proves that people confronted with stereotypes generally behave in line with them. In this case blonds have the potential to make people act in a dumber way, because they mimic the unconscious stereotype of the dumb blond," said co-author Thierry Meyer, professor of social psychology at the University of Paris X-Nanterre.

You know that everybody takes the delicate girl with a high-pitch as an innocent creature, when actually she curses all day long when the boss is not around. The same happens with all people we deal with: he/she must be that way because he/she looks like that, speaks like that. This study is another proof which underlines the theory that people’s behavior is powerfully dictated by stereotypes.


Hollywood especially started (at the middle of the 20th century) to boost the stereotype of the dumb blond bimbo through movies stars like Marilyn Monroe, Goldie Hawn and Pamela Anderson. And the trend has been refueled recently by celebrities like Paris Hilton, Britney Spears, and Jessica Simpson.

Most white babies are born blond, that's why some researchers suppose there is a basic connection between blond hair and infancy, and the tendency to regard blond woman as less mature. As men have the tendency to look for younger women, as these are at the climax of their fertile period, perhaps this also explains the sexual preference of men for blond women, which they could perceive as younger.








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35 Reasons Why Men Are Happier Then Women

1. We keep our last name.

2. The garage is all ours.

3. Wedding plans take care of themselves.

4. Chocolate is just another snack.

5. We can be president.

6. We can wear a white T-shirt to a water park.

7. Car mechanics tell us the truth.

8. The world is our urinal.

9. We never have to drive to another gas station because this one's just too icky.

10. Same work, more pay.

11. Wrinkles add character.

12. Wedding dress - $5000; tux rental - $100.

13. People never stare at our chest when we're talking to them.

14. The occasional well-rendered belch is practically expected.

15. New shoes don't cut, blister, or mangle our feet.

16. One mood, ALL the time.

17. Phone conversations are over in 30 seconds flat.

18. We know stuff about tanks.

19. A five-day vacation requires only one suitcase.

20. We can open all our own jars.

21. We get extra credit for the slightest act of thoughtfulness.

22. If someone forgets to invite us, he or she can still be our friend.

23. Our underwear is $8.95 for a three-pack.

24. Everything on our face stays its original color.

25. Three pairs of shoes are more than enough.

26. We don't have to stop and think of which way to turn a nut on a bolt.

27. We almost never have strap problems in public.

28. We are unable to see wrinkles in our clothes.

29. The same hair style lasts for years, maybe decades.

30. We don't have to shave below our neck.

31. Our belly usually hides our big hips.

32. One wallet and one pair of shoes, one color, all seasons.

33. We can "do" our nails with a pocket-knife.

34. We have freedom of choice concerning growing a mustache.

35. We can do Christmas shopping for 25 relatives, on December 24, in 45 minutes.








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Sex at Work? Here's the TOP 10 PLACES where to do it

10 places to have sex at work

One in five people claim to have had sex in their office building. I did some asking around (and, of course, some looking on the internet) and discovered exactly where:

1. The boss's desk. Some surveys suggest that up to 25 per cent of people have bruised their spines - or someone else's - on their manager's table.

2. All 25 desks in your office. Don't think that you have the energy? Follow the example of this Australian woman.

3. Against a filing cabinet. It might be noisy and it's possible that at least one of you will end up with handle marks imprinted in your buttocks; on the other hand, a naked break-dancing civil servant might jump out of the cabinet mid-way through, making the whole escapade less private but potentially more exciting, if you like that sort of thing.

4. The editing suite. Apparently this is the preferred place for trysting TV types, being warm, dark and well-covered with CCTV cameras.

5. On the rooftop or a balcony. Outside, no one can hear you scream. On the other hand, unless you work in the tallest building in the vicinity, plenty of people can see what you're getting up to.

6. A sofa. Several people questioned in an informal Snakes & Ladders poll of people we thought might be quite naughty admitted bouncing on their boss's furniture after hours. One person suggested choosing leather over fabric where possible.

7. Somewhere there's food. Depending on where you work, this could be the canteen (mmm, gravy); the staffroom (particularly useful if you are dating a colleague although not recommended if you are also married to one); or the office tea-trolley. Really.

8. A disabled lavatory. More room than the average cubicle but still smells like a toilet.

9. The nurse's room. A lock, an examination table and even some wet wipes.

10. In the middle of an open-plan office. Go on. Be a devil. But do plan ahead; you'll need to think of something good to tell the recruitment agent the next morning when she wants to know why you left your last job.

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OMGosh Beautiful Girl going into my Pad

Hello dear readers of the Real Love Doctor's Blog, A long absence from the doctor eh?

not to worry even though I'm Busy I still replied to most of your emails dear fans.

and today the clinic once again opens from a dear guy who has a troubling yet funny love letter for us today. read on and be amazed at what is he up to now.

This is the Real Love Doctor coming in and helping out relationship problems.

The letter goes down bellow;

"ei mac,


long time no see in your clinic huh, love doctor lol.anyways i have read and followed some of the steps to date a girl from here, and this comming weekend a very beautiful and cute girl will be going into my place, what shall i do? i'm sacred as hell and i'm a newbie. any tips???


from,

decent guy but semi-kinky"


Hello there decent guy [but semi-kinky] I somewhat find that contradictingly funny, your name and all but first I would like to congratulate you on having a date and with a beautiful girl at that and straight into your pad. A big WOW for your achievement.

Now that you got the girl going to your place here's my advice and tip for you. This are the general 10 when having a woman in your house should be.


1. Since the girl agreed and trust you enough that she's even willing to spend time right there and then in your pad it's a good sign! Why? because she notices you and eventually started to like you and feel comfortable with you, so don't try to destroy that little established trust that you so faithfully earned.

2. Your going to spend a few hours with her so why not plan out what you want to do this week end now! It could either be a movie through top DVD's or a cooking spree and lot's of table talk.

3. If you prefer movies, then decide what to rent. girls are suckers for love related flicks or cute animal flicks. Just don't rent out animated stuffs or you will lose your manly appeal, also avoid slasher or teen bop flicks, they suck dude.

4. Prepare the place, set an atmosphere, clean it a little. Remember Grooming?

5. Put up and air freshener or something nice like scented candles.

6. unto your personality, don't be nervous be spontaneous enough and stay calm as much as possible.

7. Keep the lady entertain and when she allows it she might be touchy in a few hours or so and hugs will be there, but if it won't come don't force it. If you know your law, there is a term called rape.

8. Avoid long void silence, always talk, when watching a movie, comment in every nice scenes and tell stories.

9. Don't come into her too hard, you will regret it, be smooth and relax and she'll reply in a soft way.

10. Smile and act like the king of your place, this boost of confidence knowing you are in your territory will be sexy for the girl.



Well there you have it mate, enjoy the weekend and I hope you will be successful with this one, remember a happy relationships starts with communication and a lot of attention, so in the stage you are now I won't be surprised that anytime soon both you and this girl will be hitched.

Till next time, keep the letters pouring and enjoy the Real Love Doctor Clinic









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