How to effectively write a love letter to a Woman and a Man

How to effectively write a love letter to a Woman and a Man

Hello dear readers of our Love Clinic, The real Love Doctor is in once again, Happy new year to all, the festivities of the season of new Year is almost over and from those times about a week ago or later we have maybe wrote a couple of letters to family and friends??? If so you did, great if not then better start practicing my friend. Today Love Doctor Mac will tackle about how to write effective Love Letters for both sexes, yep that's right. So read on and learn

Introduction

You want to give her something special - words that convey how you feel about her! But, where do you start?

This article tells you what she wants to know and how to say it to her.

Instructions

Difficulty: Easy

Things You'll Need

• 30 minutes to an hour of uninterrupted time.
• scrap paper
• nice stationary
• A good writing instrument
• a pressed flower, a photograph, or some small momento

Steps

1

Step One

Take a few moments to just sit quietly and think about her. On a scrap of paper, jot down the first words that come to your mind about her.

2

Step Two

Still thinking about her, write down one response for each of these:
a color, a texture, a scent or smell, a time of day, a season, a food, a song.

3

Step Three

If you have a favorite or special memory of the two of you, write down a few key words about it. You don't have to write details, just "caught in the rain," or "falling on the step" will do.

4

Step Four

Now, you're ready to write. On a scrap of paper, your first sentence should tell her that you were thinking about her today, and then include those first words that came to mind when you were thinking about her in step 1.

5

Step Five

Now, choose a few of the descriptive words (the color, scent, etc.) that you like the most. Make them into a couple of sentences. For example, if you're the romantic type, tell her that thinking of her reminded you of a warm sunny beach at midday, with the smell of jasmine on the breeze. Or, if you're more the strong and silent type, tell her that she is the softest, most beautiful woman you have ever known.

6

Step Six

Your last sentence should be something like, "It made me smile when I remembered ..." whatever your favorite or special memory is.

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Step Seven

Read it over and make adjustments until it sounds right to you. Do not make adjustments more than twice; trust yourself. Your feelings will come through.

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Step Eight

Write out your final draft on nice, quality stationary. Place a pressed flower, a small photograph, or something unique to the both of you inside. Seal it well or with a sticker that you know she will like.

Overall Tips & Warnings

• You can buy single sheets and single envelopes of good stationary at art supply stores.
• Be sincere and honest. Your love letter should truly be inspired by the thoughts you have of her. It will show in your words.
• To a woman, it's the effort that counts. If it appears like you went through trouble just for her, she will love what you give her, no matter how difficult your handwriting may be to read.
• Keep it about love and your appreciation of her. Don't inject sex into your love letter. (Save that for a different kind of letter, or yummy phone sex!)

How to effectively write a love letter to a Man

Introduction

You want to express yourself, but you're not sure what to say or how to say it. What will capture his attention?

Instructions

Difficulty: Easy

Things You'll Need

• 30 minutes to an hour of interrupted time.
• scrap paper
• Masculine or neutral stationary (paper or email background).
• A good writing instrument.

Steps

1

Step One

Sit quietly for a few minutes. Picture him in your mind. Think about the way he makes you feel and why.

2

Step Two

On a scrap of paper, jot down a few key words based on your thoughts. You can either formulate sentences out of these words, or simply use the words, alone, to convey what he means to you and why.

3

Step Three

Limit your sentences to 15 words. Limit your letter to four or five sentences, maximum. Three would be ideal. Men have very good imaginations, being the visual creatures they are. They don't need a lot of words to understand what you mean.

4

Step Four

Add a scent. If there is a scent you wear that he knows well, spritz a little in the air and wave your love letter through it. It will carry the smell without being overpowering.

Overall Tips & Warnings

• Men are visual animals. Keep your words few.
• Add a sketch or photograph to your letter. Or, if you're sending an email, find an image that conveys your feelings and include it at the end of your words.
• Be sincere and honest with yourself; it will show in your words.
• Lace and frills should probably be avoided. Consider his tastes when choosing stationary or an email background.

There we have it.. till next time on the Real Love Doctor Clinic! This is the Real Love Doctor Mac Signing out.

Chow!









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How to Properly Prepare for a Date [ yeah for noobs and virgins ] VERY EFFECTIVE TECHNIQUE

1.Do some homework. In the days before a date, take time out to catch up with current events and hot topics. These are great conversation starters and you will be able to impress your date with your knowledge. Try to remember as much as you can about previous conversations together so you can follow up on them. Have a couple of funny stories or conversation pieces up your sleeve in case you need them.

2.Start looking and feeling good in advance. Set time aside for exercise in the days before the date, whether it's yoga or push ups. Eat well and get plenty of sleep.

3.Pick your clothes early. You should have several outfits laid out before the day of the date. This way you won't have any last minute panics when you realize you have a spaghetti stain down your favourite shirt. Plus, it will allow you to try on a few different looks on the day of the date and see which one fits your mood most comfortably at the time.

4.Clean up on the day of the date. Take a nice, long shower or bath. Ensure you have clean hair and nails. You should smell good, but not overpowering. Avoid heavy perfumes and aftershaves, especially if your date could be allergic. Ladies, go easy when applying make-up and aim for a natural but groomed look. If things go well he will eventually see you without make-up - and you will want him to recognize you at that point. Shortly before leaving for your date, floss and brush your teeth thoroughly.

5.Think positively. You're going out to enjoy yourself, after all. Don't start worrying about what disasters could happen, because that way they are far more likely to. If you are getting nervous, call a good friend, watch your favourite comedy show or listen to upbeat music. Loosen up. Focus on having fun and you inevitably will.

6.Be punctual. Give yourself plenty of time to get to your rendezvous. Keeping your date waiting will start things off on the wrong foot.

TIPS
* Relax, be yourself, and be confident. More specifically, in addition to "being confident," you should "know your success" (success breeds confidence). Instead of "being yourself," try "being your best self".
* Sometimes even with the best preparation, your date might turn out awful. You may wish to have a "back out plan" in case this happens. Find a good friend you can call and then he/she can call you back in a few minutes so you can say you have some sort of crisis you need to attend to. You could also try being an honest person and say that you don't think it's working out, and that you need to leave early. Be prepared to contribute to the date and excuse yourself.
* Bring a condom. Whether you plan to use it or not, it is better to be prepared than to end up with responsibilities you didn't want. But, remember that you don't have to have sex.

Warnings and cautions
* Never put yourself in a compromising situation--most people are trustworthy, but "date rape" is unfortunately a real occurrence. Always have a first date in a public setting (restaurant, movie, club, mall, etc.) Only accept drinks served from a bottle or can opened by you or in front of you, or by a third party (like a bartender). Unfortunately, there are drugs ("date rape drugs") that can be added to ANY drink without any noticeable difference in taste. Some people use these drugs to put women (and sometimes men) in precarious situations. If you turn away from your drink, get into the habit of covering it with your hand, as it only takes a second to slip something into a drink. If you are suspicious, get a new drink.
* If you feel something's wrong, trust your instincts and politely but firmly end the date.
* Be sure to always have a cell phone and cash for a cab so that you never feel you have to rely on your date for a ride home.
* Always be careful about alcoholic intake.
* Don't Do Drugs









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50 THINGS GUYS NEED TO KNOW ABOUT GIRLS

50 THINGS GUYS NEED TO KNOW ABOUT GIRLS

1. Girls like to be held, NOT fondled.

2. We like to cuddle and be loved NOT treated like crap.

3. When we say or neck or back or something else hurts you should offer to make it feel better (give us a massage).

4. We like to be treated WITH respect.

5. We like it when you call when you say your going to call.

6. Girls are more sensitive than guys so watch what you say and do.

7. When you brake-up with us DON'T do it over the Internet and explain why your breaking up with us and tell the truth don't lie about it.

8. If there's something we're doing wrong then tell us NOT your friends, we're the ones that can change it your friends can't.

9. On a date you should pick us up NOT us pick you up.

10. When we go out to dinner DON'T pick the cheapest restaurant.

11. We like it when you put your arm around us and rub our stomach.

12. DON'T force us to do something otherwise you'll NEVER get it.

13. DON'T ask us what's wrong unless you want to know the honest to God answer.

14. DON'T keep asking us what's wrong when we've already told you nothing because obviously nothing is wrong or we just don't want to talk about it.

15. If you don't want us pissed at you DON'T do something stupid that will piss us off.

16. If you don't want us to hate you forever don't let us find out about your other girlfriend in simple terms DON'T EVER CHEAT ON US.

17. You don't ALWAYS have to be right.

18. Except us and love us for who we are NOT who you want us to be.

19. If we talk to another guy it's NOT cheating.

20. When we brake up DON'T lie to your friends and say we broke up with you when YOU broke up with us.

21. When our best friend is a guy it doesn't mean that we like them.

22. When someone comes up to us and says crap DON'T just stand there stick up for us.

23. When we say call me it means as soon as possible NOT 2 or 3 days later.

24. When we ask what your thinking we just want to know if your thinking about us.

25. Just because your friends don't like us doesn't mean you have to break up with us, you're the one going out with us not them.

26. DON'T judge us on looks because looks DON'T matter it's what we're like on the inside NOT the outside.

27. DON'T get mad over something stupid because you'll be ruining it for yourself NOT us.

28. Just because we talk to our ex boyfriends DOESN'T mean we like them. (A lot of us like to become friends with our ex's not enemies)

29. We don't care if you talk to your ex girlfriends just DON'T do ANYTHING with them. (KEYWORD is ANYTHING)

30. When we say we don't feel good we really mean we need you to hold us and kiss us and make us feel better.

31. Anything we say or do during that 4 days to a week each month CANNOT be held against us.

32. We think about you ALL the time.

33. If you're developing such good finger skills playing video games you better put them to good use sometimes.

34. We're sensitive too...be gentle (and we're not just talking about our hearts here guys).

35. When we say we're tired put your arm around us and cuddle with us so we can put our head on your shoulder or lap.

36. Don't EVER lie to us about ANYTHING, you know we'll find out eventually.

37. SAYING something sweet MIGHT get you off the hook, but DOING something sweet will always get you off the hook.

38. Hugs and kisses MUST be given at all times.

39. Don't always expect us to call you, the phone works both way, you know the drill!!

40. I love you is a big step, DON'T say it unless you really mean it.

41. Come and pick us up when we need you to, most of the time we just miss you a lot and want to see you!

42. DO NOT hit on or lead on numerous girls...Because it definitely sucks for you when we all find out...You just ruined your chances with all of us!!

43. We have PMS every month...Please just try to understand...We don't feel good, we're angry, and we're emotional.. DON'T FIGHT WITH US...It's just something you don't want to do.

44. Most of the things you do reflects back on us in some way...or efects us in some way...DON'T DO ANYTHING STUPID.

45. Don't say you understand when you really don't.

46. Don't make bets about us we ALWAYS find out.

47. We don't shave our legs EVERY day so get over it.

48. You don't have PMS so don't act like you know what it's like because you never will.

49. Be there for us...a hug, a kiss, a call, a visit or even just listening to us can go along way.

50. When we brake up DON'T go after my best friend.









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How to Properly french kiss someone

Hello dear Readers of the Real Love Doctor's clinic, today the Love Doctor will continue to give tips and know how's about Love and the art of body language in presenting one's love for another. Today as I checked on the last time in most of my emails, I have learned that a lot of those of you out there were asking on how to hug properly, when is the time for a great holding hands and even 2 letters on how to kiss correctly a girl. As I teared my self in laughing upon reading such things, I came up with a standard way of kissing passionately instructions just for you to follow. enjoy

Introduction To the ART OF FRENCH KISSING

French kissing is similar to another French invention: Champagne. A little bit will make you giddy but too much can lead to trouble. Whether you're studying up before a first date or simply curious, here are some French kissing techniques for anyone looking to learn how to French kiss.

Instructions

Difficulty: Easy

Things You'll Need

• Breath Mints

Steps

1

Step One

Remember that French kissing can quickly unhinge passions. Start with gentle pecks and tongue-free kisses as you get to know someone.

2

Step Two

When you're ready to French kiss, lean toward your date with your head tilted slightly to avoid bumping noses. Men may wrap their arms around a date's waist; women may wrap their arms around a date's neck.

3

Step Three

Make eye contact as you lean toward one another but close your eyes as the lips meet. Inadvertent eye-contact mid-kiss can be quite awkward.

4

Step Four

As you lean in for the kiss, have your lips parted ever so slightly and inhale through your mouth to heighten the senses and to avoid breathing on your date.

5

Step Five

Allow your lips to brush against each others to create light, feathery kisses. Keep the tongue in your mouth initially.

6

Step Six

As the kiss warms up, allow your tongue to flicker onto your date's lips. Don't let your tongue linger--keep the flickers quick and gentle.

7

Step Seven

If your date responds in kind, let your tongue extend back toward his or her tongue. Keep the movement light and gentle--tongue wrestling is a no-no.

8

Step Eight

Breathe through your nose as your tongues touch playfully and sensually.

9

Step Nine

Lose yourself in the moment: give complete attention to the kiss. If your mind is on anything else, you're missing out on the full experience.

10

Step Ten

End the kiss. French kissing can get messy if continued without breathers. Take time to nuzzle necks, nibble ears or whisper sweet nothings before diving in for another kiss.

Tips & Warnings

• Fresh breath is essential. Avoid smelly foods (garlic, brie cheese, corn chips, coffee) beforehand. Freshen up with a mint or gum, making sure to dispose of the gum before kissing.
• Some people find it helpful to practice French kissing on ice cream. It's a chilly but effective way to practice tongue flickers.
• Read your date's body language to ensure a French kiss would be welcomed. Holding hands and gentle brush-ups during the date are good signs.
• There is no single right way to French kiss. Kissing is as individual as the people doing it. The most important thing is to be true to yourself, your date and the moment.
• French kissing can quickly unleash passions. Know your limits beforehand and be prepared to put the other person on hold when you reach them.
• French kissing improves with practice. Don't be dismayed if your first time French kiss fails to ignite fireworks. Practice makes perfect.
• Don't shove your whole tongue in the other person's mouth, it's not a pleasant experience.

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Why do guys give girls sexy expressions? Answered By the Real love Doctor

Hello Dear Readers of The Real Love Doctor Clinic. Oh My How Time Flies By the Minute and soon it will be Christmas, Just in 12 days or less depending on your location, the grandest festive time of the year for most countries is really here. Your Love Doctor as busy as always have been going into a lot of trouble preparing life's management as of late. No worries To all who sent their emails as I have been answering them privately too.

To all concern Our Email System has broke down and I will Change the Email To DASAINBONG@Yahoo.com

I repeat Mail all your Life, Love And Relationships Concerns only to DASAINBONG@Yahoo.com.


For now let's go on to our next letter sender of the day.

It came from a sweet girl going to a name Vallery, Here is her concerns about real love or flirting and my answer is right in below. Let the Real Love Doctor get to work now and have your appointments ready for those who needs love advice and love tips.



Dear Love Doctor

Why do guys give girls sexy expressions?
This guy i like at work when ever i look at him or smile or laugh or talk to him he gives me this really sexy expression. and i cant even explain it. and i don't know why he does it. i hope you can help me on this.

Dear Vallery, in accordance to your letter I will make this brief and simple for you just like your love letter to me. Which is plain short and straight to the point and I really find it appealing that you did it that way as it has a rush kinda feel in it. LOL

Why do you feel this way to him can only be answered in two simple ways

1. First He is into you or he wants you, that's why he gives you the look and he tries to be sexy all the time when talking to you, guys tend to be at their sexiest when they flirt with girls they like.

2. Maybe He's really that sexy and you find him attractive, everyone has a distinct taste about how we like our partners or mate to be, YOU MIGHT JUST BE ATTRACTED TO HIM. Maybe he is really a hunk after all


there You have it, keep the love letters pouring and have a merry Christmas ahead.

The Real Love Doctor Signing Off

Till the next time our clinic opens









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Simple Relationship tips for men

Okay guys, we all have wondered at one time or another, what’s it take to have a good relationship? Hopefully I can help some of you struggling fellows out a bit.

Woman are mysterious, strong, soft, weak, compassionate, caring, thoughtful, delicate and many other emotions, usually all at the same time. Men, well, we just are what we are. We get confused when they cry, laugh, get mad, scream and sleep. It’s a basic difference between men and women. Some things you can do to help your woman and make her think she is the best and only person in your life. This is of course directed to men in a relationship.

Pay attention to her. This is the number one thing you can do. If she is talking, don’t be text messaging a friend, watching sports, playing games, or reading. Give her your undivided attention. And keep that thought running through your head out of there, it will show up in your eyes. Make eye contact with her. Gently lay your hand on her arm or leg to let her know you are focused completely on her. It makes her feel that she is worth your time and attention.

Do thing with her that she wants to do. She goes with you to sporting events, the latest action flicks, your sports bars, your greasy restaurants. Go with her where she wants. See a movie she wants to see. Maybe *gasp* get dressed up and go to a nice restaurant. Go for a quite walk in a park, by the lake, in a flower garden. During this time, turn your cell phone off, or on silent, hold her hand, look at her. Listen to what she says, and reply in full sentences instead of monosyllable words.

Compliment her, but don’t over do it. Don’t use the standard, “you are hot” or other cheesy lines. Pick out something specific. If you watch her get ready, see what she spends the most time working on, and compliment that. Compliment her hair, shoes, clothes. Tell her she is beautiful. Look in her eyes when you say this and maintain eye contact. Never complain about how long it takes her to get ready. She is doing it for you.

Having other female friends is not necessarily a no-no, but if you do have any make sure your woman knows about them. If they want to meet for dinner/lunch, always, always, always make sure your woman is invited. This is a touchy subject, some women want no other woman talking to her man, others don’t mind as long as they are included in every aspect of your friendship as well.

If anything is remembered from reading this, remember this. When you have a woman, and she is everything to you, make sure she knows it. Don’t take her for granted, cause somebody else out there will show her what you can’t, and you will be without your everything.









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Sex at Work? Here's the TOP 10 PLACES where to do it

10 places to have sex at work

One in five people claim to have had sex in their office building. I did some asking around (and, of course, some looking on the internet) and discovered exactly where:

1. The boss's desk. Some surveys suggest that up to 25 per cent of people have bruised their spines - or someone else's - on their manager's table.

2. All 25 desks in your office. Don't think that you have the energy? Follow the example of this Australian woman.

3. Against a filing cabinet. It might be noisy and it's possible that at least one of you will end up with handle marks imprinted in your buttocks; on the other hand, a naked break-dancing civil servant might jump out of the cabinet mid-way through, making the whole escapade less private but potentially more exciting, if you like that sort of thing.

4. The editing suite. Apparently this is the preferred place for trysting TV types, being warm, dark and well-covered with CCTV cameras.

5. On the rooftop or a balcony. Outside, no one can hear you scream. On the other hand, unless you work in the tallest building in the vicinity, plenty of people can see what you're getting up to.

6. A sofa. Several people questioned in an informal Snakes & Ladders poll of people we thought might be quite naughty admitted bouncing on their boss's furniture after hours. One person suggested choosing leather over fabric where possible.

7. Somewhere there's food. Depending on where you work, this could be the canteen (mmm, gravy); the staffroom (particularly useful if you are dating a colleague although not recommended if you are also married to one); or the office tea-trolley. Really.

8. A disabled lavatory. More room than the average cubicle but still smells like a toilet.

9. The nurse's room. A lock, an examination table and even some wet wipes.

10. In the middle of an open-plan office. Go on. Be a devil. But do plan ahead; you'll need to think of something good to tell the recruitment agent the next morning when she wants to know why you left your last job.

Posted by Carly Chynoweth on November 7, 2007








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OMGosh Beautiful Girl going into my Pad

Hello dear readers of the Real Love Doctor's Blog, A long absence from the doctor eh?

not to worry even though I'm Busy I still replied to most of your emails dear fans.

and today the clinic once again opens from a dear guy who has a troubling yet funny love letter for us today. read on and be amazed at what is he up to now.

This is the Real Love Doctor coming in and helping out relationship problems.

The letter goes down bellow;

"ei mac,


long time no see in your clinic huh, love doctor lol.anyways i have read and followed some of the steps to date a girl from here, and this comming weekend a very beautiful and cute girl will be going into my place, what shall i do? i'm sacred as hell and i'm a newbie. any tips???


from,

decent guy but semi-kinky"


Hello there decent guy [but semi-kinky] I somewhat find that contradictingly funny, your name and all but first I would like to congratulate you on having a date and with a beautiful girl at that and straight into your pad. A big WOW for your achievement.

Now that you got the girl going to your place here's my advice and tip for you. This are the general 10 when having a woman in your house should be.


1. Since the girl agreed and trust you enough that she's even willing to spend time right there and then in your pad it's a good sign! Why? because she notices you and eventually started to like you and feel comfortable with you, so don't try to destroy that little established trust that you so faithfully earned.

2. Your going to spend a few hours with her so why not plan out what you want to do this week end now! It could either be a movie through top DVD's or a cooking spree and lot's of table talk.

3. If you prefer movies, then decide what to rent. girls are suckers for love related flicks or cute animal flicks. Just don't rent out animated stuffs or you will lose your manly appeal, also avoid slasher or teen bop flicks, they suck dude.

4. Prepare the place, set an atmosphere, clean it a little. Remember Grooming?

5. Put up and air freshener or something nice like scented candles.

6. unto your personality, don't be nervous be spontaneous enough and stay calm as much as possible.

7. Keep the lady entertain and when she allows it she might be touchy in a few hours or so and hugs will be there, but if it won't come don't force it. If you know your law, there is a term called rape.

8. Avoid long void silence, always talk, when watching a movie, comment in every nice scenes and tell stories.

9. Don't come into her too hard, you will regret it, be smooth and relax and she'll reply in a soft way.

10. Smile and act like the king of your place, this boost of confidence knowing you are in your territory will be sexy for the girl.



Well there you have it mate, enjoy the weekend and I hope you will be successful with this one, remember a happy relationships starts with communication and a lot of attention, so in the stage you are now I won't be surprised that anytime soon both you and this girl will be hitched.

Till next time, keep the letters pouring and enjoy the Real Love Doctor Clinic









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50 real reasons why women make love

Top 50 Reasons Why Women Have Sex

This info from the Love Doctor's Clinic Will surely be at help to those who wants to uncover the secrets to why women want or have sex.....I hope this helps! Love Doctor is quiet Busy nowadays, but don't worry we will be in posting mode soon!

When drinking or drugging one has sex, uses sex and does sex for various OK or not so OK reasons.

Recovery from alcoholism/addiction increases sexuality and desire.

This list can help you decide why you had sex, and why you may have sex in the future. A key question is ‘Will the reason I’m having sex enhance my serenity - sobriety?’ Or, ‘Will I be disturbed by this action?’.

This study is very important to modern society. This is especially so since the sexual revolution opened peoples minds to a broader range of sexuality and sexual expression.

The study;

Historically, the reasons people have sex have been assumed to be few in number and simple in nature-

• to reproduce,
• to experience pleasure, or
• to relieve sexual tension.

Several theoretical perspectives suggest that motives for engaging in sexual intercourse may be larger in number and psychologically complex in nature. Our first study used a procedure that identified 237 expressed reasons for having sex.

Here are the top 50 reasons women have sex;

• I was attracted to the person
• I wanted to experience the physical pleasure
• It feels good
• I wanted to show my affection to the person
• I wanted to express my love for the person
• I was sexually aroused and wanted the release
• I was ‘‘horny’’
• It’s fun
• I realized I was in love
• I was ‘‘in the heat of the moment’’
• I wanted to please my partner
• I desired emotional closeness (i.e., intimacy)
• I wanted the pure pleasure
• I wanted to achieve an orgasm
• It’s exciting, adventurous
• I wanted to feel connected to the person
• The person’s physical appearance turned me on
• It was a romantic setting
• The person really desired me
• The person made me feel sexy
• The person caressed me
• It seemed like the natural next step in my relationship
• I wanted to become one with another person
• It just happened
• I wanted to increase the emotional bond by having sex
• I wanted the experience
• I wanted the adventure/excitement
• The person had an attractive face
• The person was a good kisser
• I wanted to intensify my relationship
• My hormones were out of control
• I wanted to try out new sexual techniques or positions
• I wanted to feel loved
• The person had a desirable body
• I wanted to celebrate a birthday or anniversary or special occasion
• I wanted to communicate at a ‘‘deeper’’ level
• I was curious about sex
• It was a special occasion
• The person was intelligent
• I wanted to say ‘‘I’ve missed you’’
• I wanted to keep my partner satisfied
• I got ‘‘carried away’’
• The opportunity presented itself
• The person had a great sense of humor
• I wanted to improve my sexual skills
• I was curious about my sexual abilities
• The person seemed self-confident
• I wanted to make up after a fight
• I was drunk
• I was turned on by the sexual conversation

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Am I a bachelor at the Age of 28?

Hello my avid readers!

Welcome back for an Update on The Real Love Doctor On Real Love, Life and Relationships 101

Sorry for the delay in posting as I have been busy lately for my new JOB! Yes the Real Love Doctor is also having side-jobs on the mend to provide for the family. ^_^

When I was gone for a good 2 weeks The Love Doctor's Clinic is overwhelmed with only 3 mails? ONLY 3 mails!??? Come on guys keep those mails coming please!

For Now I got a guy who at a young age consider himself a bachelor! Read on his letter and my prescription to his Love Problems afterwards.

" Dear Doctor or shall I say Real Love Doc

good day to you sir, My name's Rigor Mortiz not a real name but kinda sort of a screen name i use in the blogosphere hehehe, and this may sound absurd to you but i think i iwll be going to be a bachelor soon, my age at the moment is 28, i dont have a gf and for a long while already about 2 years since my last girl friend and i am scared because all of my friends are married, please help me how to find a wife

with good regards avid reader Rigor Mortiz
"

Hello there to you Mr. Rigor Mortiz, I must say what a catchy name to have in the blogosphere eh?
Mr. Mortiz at your age of 28 years, I don't think you are a bachelor, Most westerners at this time may either be enjoying the prime years of their life by going to bars and enjoying on hitting as many cute women as they like without the "tying the knot" case in their mind. Most western culture men marry at the age of 30-40 years old and some say they even feel their sexiest and most productive years of their life at the age of 32! So with these stats I'm only guessing you are an Asian right? In Asia Most men Marry at the tender [I say Tender because of my love of red meat! LOL] age of 22-26, and many men are felt left out when they reach 30 if they are not yet married, most especially in South East Asia. If you really feel lonely at times and really have the urge to have a family ASAP then follow my tips on my previous post and discussions and I will provide you with a good head start on where to find a unique and loyal wife! By your age level WOMEN are out numbering MEN by a ratio of 10:1 and available and still single! So the odds are on your side, what you only need is to find that near perfect woman, but how?



WHERE TO FIND THOSE LOVING, CARING and LOYAL WIFE [in short a n almost perfect partner]

1. You have to at least know her! -old long lost beautiful neighbors- will probably do the trick here, look back or look up your old long lost neighbors that your feel attracted to long ago but never get the chance to have a romantic relationship with. These way you already know her ways and lifestyle and previously living beside houses together give you a good preview to what kind of woman she is. So choose wisely and seek those that are still available


2. You have to at least know her! again -old long lost beautiful classmates- yep those pretty classmates and pretty girls in your school which you happen to know by default but never get the chance to be romantically involve with, these time you get a pretty clear view on what kind of women these girls are so you can choose which one will suit you, Find the ones you like, hit the phone and try to search using your old buddies and do your magic.

3. You have to at least know her! again again -old long lost beautiful officemates- another good start of finding a good wife is to look for again of your long lost office mates which you set your eyes on, go ahead go back to that old work place and ask around the previous people that you know there to have an info to where this girl is now

4. And lastly Family advertisements! -yep it may sound funny but a family member form a not so distant stem of your family might just have someone in mind for you to date, or they might at least show an ad of your personality and type to one of their friends, pursue this kind of getting to know, when it comes from the family preference, usually it means a good thing!

There you have it, coupled with a great self confidence and a hefty time of searching you will soon be dating again in no time! And better yet with women that you are familiar of and with the same age range you have better your odds in finding a real nice partner for life. Good luck to you and Happy hunting!

The real love doctor signing out of the love clinic. till next time.










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Seduction Tips #4 Use your sense of touch! The Real Love Doc recommends

Seduction Tips #4 Use your sense of touch! The Real Love Doc recommends

Hello once again dear readers, another update in our seduction tips section of The Real love Doctor's clinic. For today we will discuss the fourth seduction tip for men and women. That is to use the sense of touch as a weapon of seduction!

Read on how to use one of the basic overall senses of the human body, the sense of touch, to work in our favour.

In the previous seduction tips, we have talked about how to start a conversation and even the right timing to get her contact details, once the topics are flowing and both of you have well engaged in deep chat for around more or less than 5 minutes, it's time to use this special technique that some of us has learned to master. No we won't use the "touchy" feel thing nor do we need to cope a feel, some simple steps will do to get her interest aroused and make her feel that you are really into her.

be compose all the time

Tap on the shoulder

When the chance arises, don't shy out in placing the palm on your hands directly above her shoulder blades, doing so gives her the feeling of belongingness and just making the atmosphere friendlier. Smile and calmly tap her shoulders once in a while and doing it once in every ten to fifteen minutes will do.

Pressing or lifting her elbows

This technique works well when the girl is holding on to her glass or drinks, when it appears that she is the one making more of the conversation and the time comes when it's your turn to talk, leverage her arms by holding on the tip of her elbows and slightly raising it, this will cause her to feel a little closeness between the two of you.

Holding her hands

When in guiding her to stand from a seat or better yet to help her out when taking steps, it's best to hold her hand and gently use your strength to keep her balance, her palms have most of the nerve endings of her body, so when she'll grab your warm hand, she will feel ease and security!

Guiding her lower back

Same as holding her hands, another closer approach can be guiding her lower back while taking steps, dancing or best while walking to some minor obstacles like ledges, small hallways, leaving doors or a puddle of water. This technique will not only boost your gentleman points but will make you the REAL MAN in shining armor for her, just don't over do it and act over excited, remember be calm and keep it cool!

The last and most important seduction techniques involving the sense of touch is playing, fixing and stroking her hair

I usually do this when we are both comfy on our chairs and sitting close together, I start while she is leaning forward and slowly play with the arch of the back of her head, trying to feel her long hair [or short hair], then after a few minutes I'll make an effort to brush it aside and fix it along her ears when the wind blows it away to reveal her face. Do this while smiling a little and looking straight at her eyes. This move will surely signal the girl that you are so into her! No situation can be the same, but if you master this technique it will work wonders for you!


There you have it folks, seduction tips for men today, and next time I will include women's seduction tips on men because I have received a couple of mails from women who also want to seduce men! Yeah women need advices from the Real Love Doctor too!

Till then the Real Love Doctor is signing out! Peace and Good blessings!

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Why Women Don't Like Porn and other Men's Stuff that men like!

Why Women Don't Like Porn and other Men's Stuff that men like!

For today, Let us focus more on the funny side of life and not strain our backs on being a "womenizer" for just a short while, still as I have been saying since the past keep them letters pilling up please, the real love doctor will surely not hesitate to post some of your letters if it fits the Life, love and relationships topics. Good day.

I received a funny letter from a dear reader and I must say most of his thoughts about women is almost near perfectly true! Many thanks miss Genevieve for this funny yet humorous side of women in general.


why girls why?

Why Women Don't Like Porn

What you have to understand is that the average woman thinks that she is the only woman in the world who has a vagina. Not that they seriously think that, but it's a fantasy they all have. It's like being the only one to own a certain dress, or a certain pair of shoes. Seeing clear, irrefutable evidence that another woman has one that works perfectly well is a tremendous blow to the ego.

Why women don't like sports

Because it is competitive, and women being insecure about their own ability to compete physically (and rightly so), have a problem with even the idea of athletic competition. They condescend to pretending to like sports because guys like it, and a chick who likes sports is seems stronger amd more appealing.

Why Women don't like anal sex

Because everybody has an anus, which kind of removes them from being the sole porperty of the female sex. It doesn't make them feel feminine and sexy. Also they know that men will be grossed out afterwards and won't want to cuddle with them.

Why Women Don't Like Action Movies

The same reasons as sports, basically. Action movies involve competition that surrounds physical strength and skill, areas in which the femal sex is often lacking.

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Dear Love Doctor, How many women have you dated?

Dear Love Doctor, How many women have you dated?

Today we will read a westerner comment on the real love doctor. It's funny how many odd letters I Get lately ranging from how to pick up women and how to score with them, even into how to seduce married men, but please all my efforts here folks are focus on finding you a healthy relationship, love and a happy life. So please do control the parental guidance value of your letters.

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Now to our segment- Ask the Real Love Doctor and the Real Love Doctor Answers!

Dear Love Doctor,

Hello good day doc, been an avid fan now for a month. Just want to know if how many women have you approached and dated using your strategies, and are you for real? yeah i find it here funny. LOL


brent, Florida USA



Hello brent, it's been a while since your love doctor have returned from a family trip to the outskirts of town. The busy life has left me posting on this blog only twice last week. Anyways to answer your inquiries I will go straight to the point. Yep I have approached countless women in my lifetime, and I must say the early years were a little bit distressing as the young love doctor is still struggling with his self confidence, it takes years to master the art of being the "MAN". Not long as since 5 years ago, I have found that I have connected with a lot of women on a casual basis. I dated easily and grab their attention with the skills I am trying to promote to you guys.

The women I have dated ranges from the students in colleges to the executives of firms and even to the denim sales lady. I must admit that I have a pretty liking to the women in the sales department, especially the pants section.

You know it takes time to master stuffs about approaching women, and I cannot guarantee a 100 percent success rate, but this I can assure you that if you follow closely my prescriptions, then you will have the better chance of let's say 90% and above to finding a real happy relationships.

Keep the letters pouring in okay?

Thanks you very much, see you in a day or two

Real love doctor out.

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Getting her phone Number, Email or anything to keep you 2 in touch! Love Advice #3 Evaluate when to make a move!

Getting her phone Number, Email or anything to keep you 2 in touch! Love Advice #3 Evaluate when to make a move!

Hello once again, avid readers of my site, for today a great topic for seduction tips number 3. It's a topic about Getting her phone Number, Email or anything to keep you 2 in touch! From my previous prescriptions, I have always said that self promotion and marketing comes first in attracting the opposite sex, just like a giant bill board, if you can't have the girls noticed you the first time around then you already lose the potential mate or partner which you could be in a relationship with. Our next seduction tips get's you into a mood in approaching her, making a small chatter and a few feel good conversation, it was centered into making her comfortable with you. So it will be appropriate that our next tip is to have her contact infos so maybe you can invite her for a snack, dinner or whatever date that suits your taste.

So before you go jump around and start celebrating and shouting "yes the real love doctor will finally reveal to me secrets of getting the girl's number!"

chance of a lifetime?

Asking a woman for a date, for her phone number, or for her email address is always risky. You are having a hard time figuring out how big a risk you must take, and how quickly you must take it. Because you can't tell how much you should risk and how quickly you should risk it, you miss important opportunities.


When you interact with women, you need to keep a closer eye on just how urgent the situation is. Every man has had a wonderful woman walk out of his life forever because he wasn't conscious of how urgent it was to take a risk with her right then. Men have also blown it by risking too fast with women, and scaring them off. Understanding the three time frames of an interaction with a woman will help keep that from happening to you again.

1. You only have a few minutes: In this situation you only have a few minutes (or a few seconds, even) to make contact. You are on the train, or you are in line, and this is your one and only chance. You are in line with a woman, you say hi to her, and it leads to a conversation, you have to get her number or email address right then. If you blow it, she is going to be literally gone. In this situation you have to cut to the chase quickly. You have to risk a lot to get her phone number or email address, or it's all over.

2. You have a few hours. This is a situation like an all-day seminar, a party, or a work-related activity, where you know she is going to be around for a little while. You can risk with her over time. You don't have to risk it all right away--you can afford to wait, and to take small risks with her over a few hours, rather than having to take a really big risk all at once.

3. You can reliably have interactions over days, weeks, or more. This is the waitress you can go back and see over and over, or the woman in your Aerobics class who always works out at 5pm on Tuesdays and Thursdays. You can risk much more slowly with these women, and build a connection over time, because you know you will see them again and again.

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The power about knowing about these three time frames is that it gives you the power of knowing how much you have to risk, and how quickly you have to risk it. It gives you a "reality-check" about what you absolutely must do next if you want the woman. If you are putting gasoline into your car, and the woman next to you is attractive and you want to talk to her, then you had better risk a lot right then, because she is about to disappear from your life. On the other hand, if that same woman shows up at an eight-week class you are taking, you don't have to risk big right away by going for her phone number or email address. You can risk big if you want, but you can also take smaller risks, and seduce her over time.

You can also look at this like it is a "risk spectrum." You have to take more risk when you ask for the number of a woman you are in line with than you risk in getting her number over time, like when you see her twice a week in your aerobics class, for instance.

Hopefully this will help you evaluate your situation, and take appropriate action!

So for our next Love and Seduction tips we will tackle the next tip, CALLING HER or CONTACTING HER.

till then hope you enjoyed!

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