Friday, December 28, 2007

How to Properly Prepare for a Date [ yeah for noobs and virgins ] VERY EFFECTIVE TECHNIQUE

1.Do some homework. In the days before a date, take time out to catch up with current events and hot topics. These are great conversation starters and you will be able to impress your date with your knowledge. Try to remember as much as you can about previous conversations together so you can follow up on them. Have a couple of funny stories or conversation pieces up your sleeve in case you need them.

2.Start looking and feeling good in advance. Set time aside for exercise in the days before the date, whether it's yoga or push ups. Eat well and get plenty of sleep.

3.Pick your clothes early. You should have several outfits laid out before the day of the date. This way you won't have any last minute panics when you realize you have a spaghetti stain down your favourite shirt. Plus, it will allow you to try on a few different looks on the day of the date and see which one fits your mood most comfortably at the time.

4.Clean up on the day of the date. Take a nice, long shower or bath. Ensure you have clean hair and nails. You should smell good, but not overpowering. Avoid heavy perfumes and aftershaves, especially if your date could be allergic. Ladies, go easy when applying make-up and aim for a natural but groomed look. If things go well he will eventually see you without make-up - and you will want him to recognize you at that point. Shortly before leaving for your date, floss and brush your teeth thoroughly.

5.Think positively. You're going out to enjoy yourself, after all. Don't start worrying about what disasters could happen, because that way they are far more likely to. If you are getting nervous, call a good friend, watch your favourite comedy show or listen to upbeat music. Loosen up. Focus on having fun and you inevitably will.

6.Be punctual. Give yourself plenty of time to get to your rendezvous. Keeping your date waiting will start things off on the wrong foot.

* Relax, be yourself, and be confident. More specifically, in addition to "being confident," you should "know your success" (success breeds confidence). Instead of "being yourself," try "being your best self".
* Sometimes even with the best preparation, your date might turn out awful. You may wish to have a "back out plan" in case this happens. Find a good friend you can call and then he/she can call you back in a few minutes so you can say you have some sort of crisis you need to attend to. You could also try being an honest person and say that you don't think it's working out, and that you need to leave early. Be prepared to contribute to the date and excuse yourself.
* Bring a condom. Whether you plan to use it or not, it is better to be prepared than to end up with responsibilities you didn't want. But, remember that you don't have to have sex.

Warnings and cautions
* Never put yourself in a compromising situation--most people are trustworthy, but "date rape" is unfortunately a real occurrence. Always have a first date in a public setting (restaurant, movie, club, mall, etc.) Only accept drinks served from a bottle or can opened by you or in front of you, or by a third party (like a bartender). Unfortunately, there are drugs ("date rape drugs") that can be added to ANY drink without any noticeable difference in taste. Some people use these drugs to put women (and sometimes men) in precarious situations. If you turn away from your drink, get into the habit of covering it with your hand, as it only takes a second to slip something into a drink. If you are suspicious, get a new drink.
* If you feel something's wrong, trust your instincts and politely but firmly end the date.
* Be sure to always have a cell phone and cash for a cab so that you never feel you have to rely on your date for a ride home.
* Always be careful about alcoholic intake.
* Don't Do Drugs

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Wednesday, December 19, 2007



1. Girls like to be held, NOT fondled.

2. We like to cuddle and be loved NOT treated like crap.

3. When we say or neck or back or something else hurts you should offer to make it feel better (give us a massage).

4. We like to be treated WITH respect.

5. We like it when you call when you say your going to call.

6. Girls are more sensitive than guys so watch what you say and do.

7. When you brake-up with us DON'T do it over the Internet and explain why your breaking up with us and tell the truth don't lie about it.

8. If there's something we're doing wrong then tell us NOT your friends, we're the ones that can change it your friends can't.

9. On a date you should pick us up NOT us pick you up.

10. When we go out to dinner DON'T pick the cheapest restaurant.

11. We like it when you put your arm around us and rub our stomach.

12. DON'T force us to do something otherwise you'll NEVER get it.

13. DON'T ask us what's wrong unless you want to know the honest to God answer.

14. DON'T keep asking us what's wrong when we've already told you nothing because obviously nothing is wrong or we just don't want to talk about it.

15. If you don't want us pissed at you DON'T do something stupid that will piss us off.

16. If you don't want us to hate you forever don't let us find out about your other girlfriend in simple terms DON'T EVER CHEAT ON US.

17. You don't ALWAYS have to be right.

18. Except us and love us for who we are NOT who you want us to be.

19. If we talk to another guy it's NOT cheating.

20. When we brake up DON'T lie to your friends and say we broke up with you when YOU broke up with us.

21. When our best friend is a guy it doesn't mean that we like them.

22. When someone comes up to us and says crap DON'T just stand there stick up for us.

23. When we say call me it means as soon as possible NOT 2 or 3 days later.

24. When we ask what your thinking we just want to know if your thinking about us.

25. Just because your friends don't like us doesn't mean you have to break up with us, you're the one going out with us not them.

26. DON'T judge us on looks because looks DON'T matter it's what we're like on the inside NOT the outside.

27. DON'T get mad over something stupid because you'll be ruining it for yourself NOT us.

28. Just because we talk to our ex boyfriends DOESN'T mean we like them. (A lot of us like to become friends with our ex's not enemies)

29. We don't care if you talk to your ex girlfriends just DON'T do ANYTHING with them. (KEYWORD is ANYTHING)

30. When we say we don't feel good we really mean we need you to hold us and kiss us and make us feel better.

31. Anything we say or do during that 4 days to a week each month CANNOT be held against us.

32. We think about you ALL the time.

33. If you're developing such good finger skills playing video games you better put them to good use sometimes.

34. We're sensitive gentle (and we're not just talking about our hearts here guys).

35. When we say we're tired put your arm around us and cuddle with us so we can put our head on your shoulder or lap.

36. Don't EVER lie to us about ANYTHING, you know we'll find out eventually.

37. SAYING something sweet MIGHT get you off the hook, but DOING something sweet will always get you off the hook.

38. Hugs and kisses MUST be given at all times.

39. Don't always expect us to call you, the phone works both way, you know the drill!!

40. I love you is a big step, DON'T say it unless you really mean it.

41. Come and pick us up when we need you to, most of the time we just miss you a lot and want to see you!

42. DO NOT hit on or lead on numerous girls...Because it definitely sucks for you when we all find out...You just ruined your chances with all of us!!

43. We have PMS every month...Please just try to understand...We don't feel good, we're angry, and we're emotional.. DON'T FIGHT WITH US...It's just something you don't want to do.

44. Most of the things you do reflects back on us in some way...or efects us in some way...DON'T DO ANYTHING STUPID.

45. Don't say you understand when you really don't.

46. Don't make bets about us we ALWAYS find out.

47. We don't shave our legs EVERY day so get over it.

48. You don't have PMS so don't act like you know what it's like because you never will.

49. Be there for us...a hug, a kiss, a call, a visit or even just listening to us can go along way.

50. When we brake up DON'T go after my best friend.

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Tuesday, December 18, 2007

How to Properly french kiss someone

Hello dear Readers of the Real Love Doctor's clinic, today the Love Doctor will continue to give tips and know how's about Love and the art of body language in presenting one's love for another. Today as I checked on the last time in most of my emails, I have learned that a lot of those of you out there were asking on how to hug properly, when is the time for a great holding hands and even 2 letters on how to kiss correctly a girl. As I teared my self in laughing upon reading such things, I came up with a standard way of kissing passionately instructions just for you to follow. enjoy

Introduction To the ART OF FRENCH KISSING

French kissing is similar to another French invention: Champagne. A little bit will make you giddy but too much can lead to trouble. Whether you're studying up before a first date or simply curious, here are some French kissing techniques for anyone looking to learn how to French kiss.


Difficulty: Easy

Things You'll Need

  • Breath Mints
french kissing in the real love doctor clinic



Step One

Remember that French kissing can quickly unhinge passions. Start with gentle pecks and tongue-free kisses as you get to know someone.

Step Two

When you're ready to French kiss, lean toward your date with your head tilted slightly to avoid bumping noses. Men may wrap their arms around a date's waist; women may wrap their arms around a date's neck.

Step Three

Make eye contact as you lean toward one another but close your eyes as the lips meet. Inadvertent eye-contact mid-kiss can be quite awkward.

Step Four

As you lean in for the kiss, have your lips parted ever so slightly and inhale through your mouth to heighten the senses and to avoid breathing on your date.

Step Five

Allow your lips to brush against each others to create light, feathery kisses. Keep the tongue in your mouth initially.

Step Six

As the kiss warms up, allow your tongue to flicker onto your date's lips. Don't let your tongue linger--keep the flickers quick and gentle.

Step Seven

If your date responds in kind, let your tongue extend back toward his or her tongue. Keep the movement light and gentle--tongue wrestling is a no-no.

Step Eight

Breathe through your nose as your tongues touch playfully and sensually.

Step Nine

Lose yourself in the moment: give complete attention to the kiss. If your mind is on anything else, you're missing out on the full experience.

Step Ten

End the kiss. French kissing can get messy if continued without breathers. Take time to nuzzle necks, nibble ears or whisper sweet nothings before diving in for another kiss.

Tips & Warnings

  • Fresh breath is essential. Avoid smelly foods (garlic, brie cheese, corn chips, coffee) beforehand. Freshen up with a mint or gum, making sure to dispose of the gum before kissing.
  • Some people find it helpful to practice French kissing on ice cream. It's a chilly but effective way to practice tongue flickers.
  • Read your date's body language to ensure a French kiss would be welcomed. Holding hands and gentle brush-ups during the date are good signs.
  • There is no single right way to French kiss. Kissing is as individual as the people doing it. The most important thing is to be true to yourself, your date and the moment.
  • French kissing can quickly unleash passions. Know your limits beforehand and be prepared to put the other person on hold when you reach them.
  • French kissing improves with practice. Don't be dismayed if your first time French kiss fails to ignite fireworks. Practice makes perfect.
  • Don't shove your whole tongue in the other person's mouth, it's not a pleasant experience.

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Friday, December 14, 2007

Why do guys give girls sexy expressions? Answered By the Real love Doctor

Hello Dear Readers of The Real Love Doctor Clinic. Oh My How Time Flies By the Minute and soon it will be Christmas, Just in 12 days or less depending on your location, the grandest festive time of the year for most countries is really here. Your Love Doctor as busy as always have been going into a lot of trouble preparing life's management as of late. No worries To all who sent their emails as I have been answering them privately too.

To all concern Our Email System has broke down and I will Change the Email To

I repeat Mail all your Life, Love And Relationships Concerns only to

For now let's go on to our next letter sender of the day.

It came from a sweet girl going to a name Vallery, Here is her concerns about real love or flirting and my answer is right in below. Let the Real Love Doctor get to work now and have your appointments ready for those who needs love advice and love tips.

Dear Love Doctor

Why do guys give girls sexy expressions?
This guy i like at work when ever i look at him or smile or laugh or talk to him he gives me this really sexy expression. and i cant even explain it. and i don't know why he does it. i hope you can help me on this.
Dear Vallery, in accordance to your letter I will make this brief and simple for you just like your love letter to me. Which is plain short and straight to the point and I really find it appealing that you did it that way as it has a rush kinda feel in it. LOL

Why do you feel this way to him can only be answered in two simple ways

1. First He is into you or he wants you, that's why he gives you the look and he tries to be sexy all the time when talking to you, guys tend to be at their sexiest when they flirt with girls they like.

2. Maybe He's really that sexy and you find him attractive, everyone has a distinct taste about how we like our partners or mate to be, YOU MIGHT JUST BE ATTRACTED TO HIM. Maybe he is really a hunk after all

there You have it, keep the love letters pouring and have a merry Christmas ahead.

The Real Love Doctor Signing Off

Till the next time our clinic opens

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Friday, December 7, 2007

Simple Relationship tips for men

Okay guys, we all have wondered at one time or another, what’s it take to have a good relationship? Hopefully I can help some of you struggling fellows out a bit.

Woman are mysterious, strong, soft, weak, compassionate, caring, thoughtful, delicate and many other emotions, usually all at the same time. Men, well, we just are what we are. We get confused when they cry, laugh, get mad, scream and sleep. It’s a basic difference between men and women. Some things you can do to help your woman and make her think she is the best and only person in your life. This is of course directed to men in a relationship.

Pay attention to her. This is the number one thing you can do. If she is talking, don’t be text messaging a friend, watching sports, playing games, or reading. Give her your undivided attention. And keep that thought running through your head out of there, it will show up in your eyes. Make eye contact with her. Gently lay your hand on her arm or leg to let her know you are focused completely on her. It makes her feel that she is worth your time and attention.

Do thing with her that she wants to do. She goes with you to sporting events, the latest action flicks, your sports bars, your greasy restaurants. Go with her where she wants. See a movie she wants to see. Maybe *gasp* get dressed up and go to a nice restaurant. Go for a quite walk in a park, by the lake, in a flower garden. During this time, turn your cell phone off, or on silent, hold her hand, look at her. Listen to what she says, and reply in full sentences instead of monosyllable words.

Compliment her, but don’t over do it. Don’t use the standard, “you are hot” or other cheesy lines. Pick out something specific. If you watch her get ready, see what she spends the most time working on, and compliment that. Compliment her hair, shoes, clothes. Tell her she is beautiful. Look in her eyes when you say this and maintain eye contact. Never complain about how long it takes her to get ready. She is doing it for you.

Having other female friends is not necessarily a no-no, but if you do have any make sure your woman knows about them. If they want to meet for dinner/lunch, always, always, always make sure your woman is invited. This is a touchy subject, some women want no other woman talking to her man, others don’t mind as long as they are included in every aspect of your friendship as well.

If anything is remembered from reading this, remember this. When you have a woman, and she is everything to you, make sure she knows it. Don’t take her for granted, cause somebody else out there will show her what you can’t, and you will be without your everything.

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Saturday, November 24, 2007

Best Friend Close Friend causing Love rifts to Lovers

Hello Dear Readers of The Real Love Doctor Clinic. Today we will tackle a life experience of the Real Love doctor himself. so sit back and enjoy reading the post below today!

I have been asked one too many times to somehow share my life experiences around here so people can gaged my being the Real Love Doctor as either fake or somewhat credible enough. I must say I am stumped always and that I don't have a clue where to start talking. One day a girl mailed me and ask why not share an experience about having an opposite-sex close friend. She asks if it is safe or not? She also included that she is in a relationship and that her boyfriend is pissed off sometimes with this guy close friend of hers.

Hello dear love doctor,

can you site some of your experiences regarding 3rd parties or best friends scneario that threatens a relationship? i have a clkose guy friend in which i have been doing sweet things lately and my current boyfriend is so jealous that he orders me not to hang out with my best friend again.

i'll gladly listen to your explaination,

good day doc
love maris

Dear Maris, To answer that question of your regarding third parties and other members of the opposite sex which could be a potential hazard to our current love relationships, I will personally share you one of my experiences about it. Not that I only have one experienced about that situation, I do have a few, but I will only cite the most relevant one that will surely tackle our main concern for the day.

First I really don't believe in GIRL_BOY best friends or close friends relationships, why??? Simple because for me it is considered as a love relationship under control or in other words you both are semi-in love with each other. That's why the jealousy and insecurity of your other behalf regarding your so called "opposite sex" best friend or close friend.

Man and woman cannot be close friends at all. That is my definitive answer. Many times I am close with a girl, we either become kissing friends or any other physical type of attraction occurs. It's best that the closeness must not be that "close" anymore. Do you treat the same sex friends of yours like the opposite sex close friend of yours the same??? Most answers will be probably no. It's because these close/best friends of the opposite sex we have are just as special as the next lover that we may have.

So I guess you are keeping this guy around because you are attracted to him. My advice is if you really want to be happy with your relationship now it's best that you tell your close friend to slowly pull away before anything else developed into some weird and strange feelings.

Till next time the Love Doctor Signing out of the Love Clinic

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Friday, November 23, 2007

99 Top secret List that women should know about guys


1. Guys don't actually look after good-looking girls. They prefer neat and *presentable girls.

* * * 2. Guys hate flirts.

* * * 3. A guy can like you for a minute, and then forget you afterwards.

* * * 4. When a guy says he doesn't understand you, it simply means you're not thinking the way he is.

* * * 5. "Are you doing something?" or "Have you eaten already?" are the first usual questions a guy asks on the phone just to get out from stammering.

* * * 6. Guys may be flirting around all day but before they go to sleep, they always think about the girl they truly care about.

* * * 7. When a guy really likes you, he'll disregard all your bad characteristics.

* * * 8. Guys go crazy over a girl's smile.

* * * 9. Guys will do anything just to get the girl's attention.

* * * 10. Guys hate it when you talk about your ex-boyfriend.

* * * 11. When guys want to meet your parents. Let them.

* * * 12. Guys want to tell you many things but they can't. And they sure have one *habit to gain courage and spirit to tell you many things and it is drinking!

* * * 13. Guys cry!!!

* * * 14. Don't provoke the guy to heat up. Believe me. He will.

* * * 15. Guys can never dream and hope too much.

* * * 16. Guys usually try hard to get the girl who has dumped them, and this makes it harder for them to accept their defeat.

* * * 17. When you touch a guy's heart, there's no turning back.

* * * 18. Giving a guy a hanging message like "You know what?!..uh...never mind!" *would make him jump to a conclusion that is far from what you are thinking.

* * * 19. Guys go crazy when girls touch their hands.

* * * 20. Guys are good flatterers when courting but they usually stammer when they talk to a girl they really like.

* * * 21. When a guy makes a prolonged "umm" or makes any excuses when you're asking him to do you a favor, he's actually saying that he doesn't like you and he can't lay down the card for you.

* * * 22. When a girl says "no", a guy hears it as "try again tomorrow."

* * * 23. You have to tell a guy what you really want before he gets the message clearly.

* * * 24. Guys hate gays!

* * * 25. Guys love their moms.

* * * 26. A guy would sacrifice his money for lunch just to get you a couple of roses.

* * * 27. A guy often thinks about the girl who likes him. But this doesn't mean that the guy likes her.

* * * 28 You can never understand him unless you listen to him.

* * * 29. If a guy tells you he loves you once in a lifetime. He does.

* * * 30. Beware. Guys can make gossips scatter through half of the face of the earth faster than girls can.

* * * 31. Like Eve, girls are guys’ weaknesses.

* * * 32. Guys are very open about themselves.

* * * 33. It's good to test a guy first before you believe him. But don't let him wait that long. *

* * 34. No guy is bad when he is courting

* * * 35. Guys hate it when their clothes get dirty. Even a small dot.

* * * 36. Guys really admire girls that they like even if they're not that much pretty.

* * * 37. Your best friend, whom your boyfriend seeks help from about his problems *with you may end up being admired by your boyfriend.

* * * 38. If a guy tells you about his problems, he just needs someone to listen to him. You don't need to give advice.

* * * 39. A usual act that proves that the guy likes you is when he teases you.

* * * 40. A guy finds ways to keep you off from linking with someone else.

* * * 41. Guys love girls with brains more than girls in miniskirts.

* * * 42. Guys try to find the stuffed toy a girl wants but would unluckily get the wrong one.

* * * 43. Guys virtually brag about anything.

* * * 44. Guys cannot keep secrets that girls tell them.

* * * 45. Guys think too much.

* * * 46. Guys' fantasies are unlimited.

* * * 47. Girls' height doesn't really matter to a guy but her weight does!

* * * 48. Guys tend to get serious with their relationship and become too

* * * possessive. So watch out girls!!!

* * * 49. When a girl makes the boy suffer during courtship, it would be hard for him to let go of that girl.

* * * 50. It's not easy for a guy to let go of his girlfriend after they broke up * especially when they've been together for 3 years or more.

* * * 51. You have to tell a guy what you really want before getting involved with *that guy.

* * * 52. A guy has to experience rejection, because if he's

* * * too-good-never-been-busted, never been in love and hurt, he won't * be matured and grow up.

* * * 53. When an unlikable circumstance comes, guys blame themselves a lot more *than girls do. They could even hurt themselves physically.

* * * 54. Guys have strong passion to change but have weak will power.

* * * 55. Guys are tigers in their peer groups but become tamed pussycats with their *girlfriends.

* * * 56. When a guy pretends to be calm, check if he's sweating. You'll probably *see that he is nervous.

* * * 57. When a guy says he is going crazy about the girl. He really is.

* * * 58. When a guy asks you to leave him alone, he's just actually saying, "Please come and listen to me"

* * * 59. Guys don't really have final decisions.

* * * 60. When a guy loves you, bring out the best in him.

* * * 61. If a guy starts to talk seriously, listen to him.

* * * 62. If a guy has been kept shut or silent, say something.

* * * 63. Guys believe that there's no such thing as love at first sight, but court the girls anyway and then realize at the end that he is wrong.

* * * 64. Guys like femininity not feebleness.

* * * 65. Guys don't like girls who punch harder than they do.

* * * 66. A guy may instantly know if the girl likes him but can never be sure unless the girl tells him.

* * * 67. A guy would waste his time over video games and basketball, the way a girl *would do over her romance novels and make-ups.

* * * 68. Guys love girls who can cook or bake.

* * * 69. Guys like girls who are like their moms. No kidding!

* * * 70. A guy has more problems than you can see with your naked eyes.

* * * 71. A guy's friend knows everything about him. Use this to your advantage.

* * * 72. Don't be a snob. Guys may easily give up on the first sign of rejection.

* * * 73. Don't be biased. Try loving a guy without prejudice and you'll be surprised.

* * * 74. Girls who bathe in their eau de perfumes do more repelling than attracting * guys.

* * * 75. Guys are more talkative than girls are especially when the topic is about *girls.

* * * 76. Guys don't comprehend the statement "Get lost" too well.

* * * 77. Guys really think that girls are strange and have unpredictable decisions but still love them more.

* * * 78. When a guy gives a crooked or pretentious grin at your jokes, he finds them offending and he just tried to be polite.

* * * 79. Guys don't care about how shiny their shoes are unlike girls.

* * * 80. Guys tend to generalize about girls but once they get to know them,they'll realize they're wrong.

* * * 81. Any guy can handle his problems all by his own. He's just too stubborn to deal with it.

* * * 82. Guys find it so objectionable when a girl swears.

* * * 83. Guys' weakest point is at the knee.

* * * 84. When a problem arises, a guy usually keeps himself cool but is already *thinking of a way out.

* * * 85. When a guy is conscious of his looks, it shows he is not good at fixing *things.

* * * 86. When a guy looks at you, either he's amazed of you or he's criticizing you.

* * * 87. When you catch him cheating on you and he asks for a second chance,

* * * give it to him. But when you catch him again and he asks for another chance, ignore him.

* * * 88. If a guy lets you go, he really loves you.

* * * 89. If you have a boyfriend, and your boy best friend always glances at you and it obviously shows that he is jealous whenever you're with your boyfriend, all I can say is your boy best friend loves you more than your boyfriend does.

* * * 90. Guys learn from experience not from the romance books that girls read and take as their basis of experience.

* * * 91. You can tell if a guy is really hurt or in pain when he cries in front of you!

* * * 92. If a guy suddenly asks you for a date, ask him first why.

* * * 93. When a guy says he can't sleep if he doesn't hear your voice even just for one night, hang up. He also tells that to another girl. He only flatters you and sometimes makes fun of you.

* * * 94. You can truly say that a guy has good intentions if you see him praying sometimes.

* * * 95. Guys seek for advice not from a guy but from a girl.

* * * 96. Girls are allowed to touch boys' things. Not their hair!

* * * 97. If a guy says you're beautiful, that guy likes you.

* * * 98. Guys hate girls who overreact.

* * * 99. Guys love you more than you love them if they are serious in your relationships.

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Thursday, November 22, 2007

Blonde Women May make Men Dumber

Men like to make jokes on the stereotype of the dumb blond women. And now, a French team has discovered that men's mental ability plummeted when dealing with blond women, probably as they thought they had a less intelligent interlocutor.

The study published in Journal of Experimental
Psychology consisted in two trials, both of them coming with the same results. Men in the study had to complete general knowledge tests while being exposed to women of various hair colors. The scores dropped in both trials when the subjects were presented images of blond women. Further investigations revealed that the subjects had been following unconscious social stereotypes.

"This proves that people confronted with stereotypes generally behave in line with them. In this case blonds have the potential to make people act in a dumber way, because they mimic the unconscious stereotype of the dumb blond," said co-author Thierry Meyer, professor of social psychology at the University of Paris X-Nanterre.

You know that everybody takes the delicate girl with a high-pitch as an innocent creature, when actually she curses all day long when the boss is not around. The same happens with all people we deal with: he/she must be that way because he/she looks like that, speaks like that. This study is another proof which underlines the theory that people’s behavior is powerfully dictated by stereotypes.

Hollywood especially started (at the middle of the 20th century) to boost the stereotype of the dumb blond bimbo through movies stars like Marilyn Monroe, Goldie Hawn and Pamela Anderson. And the trend has been refueled recently by celebrities like Paris Hilton, Britney Spears, and Jessica Simpson.

Most white babies are born blond, that's why some researchers suppose there is a basic connection between blond hair and infancy, and the tendency to regard blond woman as less mature. As men have the tendency to look for younger women, as these are at the climax of their fertile period, perhaps this also explains the sexual preference of men for blond women, which they could perceive as younger.

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Tuesday, November 20, 2007

Reasons Why Men are Happier Than Women

35 Reasons Why Men Are Happier Then Women

1. We keep our last name.

2. The garage is all ours.

3. Wedding plans take care of themselves.

4. Chocolate is just another snack.

5. We can be president.

6. We can wear a white T-shirt to a water park.

7. Car mechanics tell us the truth.

8. The world is our urinal.

9. We never have to drive to another gas station because this one's just too icky.

10. Same work, more pay.

11. Wrinkles add character.

12. Wedding dress - $5000; tux rental - $100.

13. People never stare at our chest when we're talking to them.

14. The occasional well-rendered belch is practically expected.

15. New shoes don't cut, blister, or mangle our feet.

16. One mood, ALL the time.

17. Phone conversations are over in 30 seconds flat.

18. We know stuff about tanks.

19. A five-day vacation requires only one suitcase.

20. We can open all our own jars.

21. We get extra credit for the slightest act of thoughtfulness.

22. If someone forgets to invite us, he or she can still be our friend.

23. Our underwear is $8.95 for a three-pack.

24. Everything on our face stays its original color.

25. Three pairs of shoes are more than enough.

26. We don't have to stop and think of which way to turn a nut on a bolt.

27. We almost never have strap problems in public.

28. We are unable to see wrinkles in our clothes.

29. The same hair style lasts for years, maybe decades.

30. We don't have to shave below our neck.

31. Our belly usually hides our big hips.

32. One wallet and one pair of shoes, one color, all seasons.

33. We can "do" our nails with a pocket-knife.

34. We have freedom of choice concerning growing a mustache.

35. We can do Christmas shopping for 25 relatives, on December 24, in 45 minutes.

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Wednesday, November 14, 2007

Sex at Work? Here's the TOP 10 PLACES where to do it

10 places to have sex at work

One in five people claim to have had sex in their office building. I did some asking around (and, of course, some looking on the internet) and discovered exactly where:

1. The boss's desk. Some surveys suggest that up to 25 per cent of people have bruised their spines - or someone else's - on their manager's table.

2. All 25 desks in your office. Don't think that you have the energy? Follow the example of this Australian woman.

3. Against a filing cabinet. It might be noisy and it's possible that at least one of you will end up with handle marks imprinted in your buttocks; on the other hand, a naked break-dancing civil servant might jump out of the cabinet mid-way through, making the whole escapade less private but potentially more exciting, if you like that sort of thing.

4. The editing suite. Apparently this is the preferred place for trysting TV types, being warm, dark and well-covered with CCTV cameras.

5. On the rooftop or a balcony. Outside, no one can hear you scream. On the other hand, unless you work in the tallest building in the vicinity, plenty of people can see what you're getting up to.

6. A sofa. Several people questioned in an informal Snakes & Ladders poll of people we thought might be quite naughty admitted bouncing on their boss's furniture after hours. One person suggested choosing leather over fabric where possible.

7. Somewhere there's food. Depending on where you work, this could be the canteen (mmm, gravy); the staffroom (particularly useful if you are dating a colleague although not recommended if you are also married to one); or the office tea-trolley. Really.

8. A disabled lavatory. More room than the average cubicle but still smells like a toilet.

9. The nurse's room. A lock, an examination table and even some wet wipes.

10. In the middle of an open-plan office. Go on. Be a devil. But do plan ahead; you'll need to think of something good to tell the recruitment agent the next morning when she wants to know why you left your last job.

Posted by Carly Chynoweth on November 7, 2007

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Wednesday, November 7, 2007

OMGosh Beautiful Girl going into my Pad

Hello dear readers of the Real Love Doctor's Blog, A long absence from the doctor eh?

not to worry even though I'm Busy I still replied to most of your emails dear fans.

and today the clinic once again opens from a dear guy who has a troubling yet funny love letter for us today. read on and be amazed at what is he up to now.

This is the Real Love Doctor coming in and helping out relationship problems.

The letter goes down bellow;

"ei mac,

long time no see in your clinic huh, love doctor lol.anyways i have read and followed some of the steps to date a girl from here, and this comming weekend a very beautiful and cute girl will be going into my place, what shall i do? i'm sacred as hell and i'm a newbie. any tips???


decent guy but semi-kinky"

Hello there decent guy [but semi-kinky] I somewhat find that contradictingly funny, your name and all but first I would like to congratulate you on having a date and with a beautiful girl at that and straight into your pad. A big WOW for your achievement.

Now that you got the girl going to your place here's my advice and tip for you. This are the general 10 when having a woman in your house should be.

1. Since the girl agreed and trust you enough that she's even willing to spend time right there and then in your pad it's a good sign! Why? because she notices you and eventually started to like you and feel comfortable with you, so don't try to destroy that little established trust that you so faithfully earned.

2. Your going to spend a few hours with her so why not plan out what you want to do this week end now! It could either be a movie through top DVD's or a cooking spree and lot's of table talk.

3. If you prefer movies, then decide what to rent. girls are suckers for love related flicks or cute animal flicks. Just don't rent out animated stuffs or you will lose your manly appeal, also avoid slasher or teen bop flicks, they suck dude.

4. Prepare the place, set an atmosphere, clean it a little. Remember Grooming?

5. Put up and air freshener or something nice like scented candles.

6. unto your personality, don't be nervous be spontaneous enough and stay calm as much as possible.

7. Keep the lady entertain and when she allows it she might be touchy in a few hours or so and hugs will be there, but if it won't come don't force it. If you know your law, there is a term called rape.

8. Avoid long void silence, always talk, when watching a movie, comment in every nice scenes and tell stories.

9. Don't come into her too hard, you will regret it, be smooth and relax and she'll reply in a soft way.

10. Smile and act like the king of your place, this boost of confidence knowing you are in your territory will be sexy for the girl.

Well there you have it mate, enjoy the weekend and I hope you will be successful with this one, remember a happy relationships starts with communication and a lot of attention, so in the stage you are now I won't be surprised that anytime soon both you and this girl will be hitched.

Till next time, keep the letters pouring and enjoy the Real Love Doctor Clinic

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Tuesday, October 30, 2007

50 real reasons why women make love

Top 50 Reasons Why Women Have Sex

This info from the Love Doctor's Clinic Will surely be at help to those who wants to uncover the secrets to why women want or have sex.....I hope this helps! Love Doctor is quiet Busy nowadays, but don't worry we will be in posting mode soon!

When drinking or drugging one has sex, uses sex and does sex for various OK or not so OK reasons.

Recovery from alcoholism/addiction increases sexuality and desire.

This list can help you decide why you had sex, and why you may have sex in the future. A key question is ‘Will the reason I’m having sex enhance my serenity - sobriety?’ Or, ‘Will I be disturbed by this action?’.

This study is very important to modern society. This is especially so since the sexual revolution opened peoples minds to a broader range of sexuality and sexual expression.

The study;

Historically, the reasons people have sex have been assumed to be few in number and simple in nature-

  • to reproduce,
  • to experience pleasure, or
  • to relieve sexual tension.

Several theoretical perspectives suggest that motives for engaging in sexual intercourse may be larger in number and psychologically complex in nature. Our first study used a procedure that identified 237 expressed reasons for having sex.

Here are the top 50 reasons women have sex;

  • I was attracted to the person
  • I wanted to experience the physical pleasure
  • It feels good
  • I wanted to show my affection to the person
  • I wanted to express my love for the person
  • I was sexually aroused and wanted the release
  • I was ‘‘horny’’
  • It’s fun
  • I realized I was in love
  • I was ‘‘in the heat of the moment’’
  • I wanted to please my partner
  • I desired emotional closeness (i.e., intimacy)
  • I wanted the pure pleasure
  • I wanted to achieve an orgasm
  • It’s exciting, adventurous
  • I wanted to feel connected to the person
  • The person’s physical appearance turned me on
  • It was a romantic setting
  • The person really desired me
  • The person made me feel sexy
  • The person caressed me
  • It seemed like the natural next step in my relationship
  • I wanted to become one with another person
  • It just happened
  • I wanted to increase the emotional bond by having sex
  • I wanted the experience
  • I wanted the adventure/excitement
  • The person had an attractive face
  • The person was a good kisser
  • I wanted to intensify my relationship
  • My hormones were out of control
  • I wanted to try out new sexual techniques or positions
  • I wanted to feel loved
  • The person had a desirable body
  • I wanted to celebrate a birthday or anniversary or special occasion
  • I wanted to communicate at a ‘‘deeper’’ level
  • I was curious about sex
  • It was a special occasion
  • The person was intelligent
  • I wanted to say ‘‘I’ve missed you’’
  • I wanted to keep my partner satisfied
  • I got ‘‘carried away’’
  • The opportunity presented itself
  • The person had a great sense of humor
  • I wanted to improve my sexual skills
  • I was curious about my sexual abilities
  • The person seemed self-confident
  • I wanted to make up after a fight
  • I was drunk
  • I was turned on by the sexual conversation

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Saturday, October 27, 2007

How to Handle Guys Hitting on your Girl!

5 ways to handle Guys hitting on your girl


Handy Dandy tips I found which can be beneficial to the Real Love Doctors Clinic

If your are one of the many lucky men that has a girlfriend or wife that attracts a lot of attention from your male peers, you know how annoying those peers can be. Especially when you leave to go to the bathroom or she leaves your immediate side, these guys swarm in like bees to honey. For some guys this represents reason to stay out the bar or club scene with you girl but there are ways to handle these situations and have a little fun in the process. The most important thing is never let this rattle you, despite your possible insecurities always keep your cool as odds are she came with you and she is leaving with you and if not you're better off without her.

1. Let's say a guy is at the bar attempting to buy her a drink, if she is a respectable girlfriend she will not accept his offer. Just hang back a second while he gets rejected, then move in on your girl opposite side and pretend you don't know her, tell her how beautiful she is and offer to buy her a drink. She of course will accept and the heckler on the other side should slump off in defeat.

2. This same application can be used when a guy asks you lady to dance, again she will reject him and again you swoop in as if you don't know her and grab her hand and ask her if she wants to dance. Again you win and the heckler has lost, as if he ever had a chance of winning. This too is fun and can be quite erotic if you spice up your approach a little.

3. A bold move is to wait until a guy is trying to pick up your girl and then politely stroll up and say excuse me to both of them and say, young lady you are so beautiful that I had to just come over and see what you taste like, followed immediately by passionately kissing her deeply. She won't resist, and if she does you two got problems. Again the picker upper is defeated and this type of role play is the type of gift that can keep on giving.

4. A smooth move while at the bar, is to position yourself at the end of the bar then send the bartender over to your girl with a drink, while the guy trying to pick her up is talking. The bartender will give her the drink and say compliments of the gentleman at the end of the bar and he would like you to join him. Again, she won't resist and the picker upper will be stunned by the move. This is for those who want to avoid close contact with the heckler, but be careful with this one as it may backfire if your are to far away or if your lady has poor eyesight.

5. A final crushing maneuver is to walk while the guy is trying to pick up your girl and say excuse me, I have been thinking about you all night long, let dip outta here back to my place. She won't resist and you don't have to leave right away, but for any would be pick up artist this is a severe ego blow.

These are just a few of my tactics, each of which can modified and spiced up, the main thing is to be bold and smooth, women love the role play and the confidence. If you are too busy worrying about what this guy might do if attempt one of these moves then it is probably best you stay home until you build up some gonads. In addition, having a woman that is desirable to other men is a good thing, trust me.

Tactics may not apply to women pick up artists, again if your woman is desirable to men and women this too is a good thing!!!

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Saturday, October 13, 2007

Lately i learned that her family is planning to marry her to a guy with their same race

Good day everyone,

Another segment for the Real love doctor on real love,life and relationships 101. Today I will focus my time on someone who calls himself ZERO. He got this big problem on his love life and things are looking pretty bleak as of late. let's read as the love clinic opens once again


Dear Love Doctor,

I like this girl, and we have been dating for such a long time now. Lately i learned that her family is planning to marry her to a guy with their same race, i know i might be out of place and all but the girl confides to me that she won't marry off with the guy, help me i'm confuse.

confuse, zero


The issue of racism and closely tied family friends circle has haunted people for generations and generations more to come. If the girls family has somehow made up their mind to have their daughter wed to the guy of their choice, then you my poor guy have a little thing to do left. I am not telling you to forcibly ran away with the girl as that will just worsen things, but in my experienced, that is probably the closest thing you can ever do to a hell bent parents of such close minded culture.

For one if we try and go by the books, I will simply say to you, okay go their house, present yourself and show them how you can be the fitting man for their daughter by simply selling out the best in you! And back this up by being the real man that you claimed to be. But that is simply not the case, as I say drastic times requires drastic measures.

I think you need to do the latter thing I suggested....

Till then as busy as always, the Real Love Doctor's Clinic is still open for your letters! Good day, Love doctor out

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Sunday, October 7, 2007

Chris Rock on Relationships LOL

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