How to Handle Guys Hitting on your Girl!

5 ways to handle Guys hitting on your girl

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Handy Dandy tips I found which can be beneficial to the Real Love Doctors Clinic

If your are one of the many lucky men that has a girlfriend or wife that attracts a lot of attention from your male peers, you know how annoying those peers can be. Especially when you leave to go to the bathroom or she leaves your immediate side, these guys swarm in like bees to honey. For some guys this represents reason to stay out the bar or club scene with you girl but there are ways to handle these situations and have a little fun in the process. The most important thing is never let this rattle you, despite your possible insecurities always keep your cool as odds are she came with you and she is leaving with you and if not you're better off without her.


1. Let's say a guy is at the bar attempting to buy her a drink, if she is a respectable girlfriend she will not accept his offer. Just hang back a second while he gets rejected, then move in on your girl opposite side and pretend you don't know her, tell her how beautiful she is and offer to buy her a drink. She of course will accept and the heckler on the other side should slump off in defeat.



2. This same application can be used when a guy asks you lady to dance, again she will reject him and again you swoop in as if you don't know her and grab her hand and ask her if she wants to dance. Again you win and the heckler has lost, as if he ever had a chance of winning. This too is fun and can be quite erotic if you spice up your approach a little.

3. A bold move is to wait until a guy is trying to pick up your girl and then politely stroll up and say excuse me to both of them and say, young lady you are so beautiful that I had to just come over and see what you taste like, followed immediately by passionately kissing her deeply. She won't resist, and if she does you two got problems. Again the picker upper is defeated and this type of role play is the type of gift that can keep on giving.

4. A smooth move while at the bar, is to position yourself at the end of the bar then send the bartender over to your girl with a drink, while the guy trying to pick her up is talking. The bartender will give her the drink and say compliments of the gentleman at the end of the bar and he would like you to join him. Again, she won't resist and the picker upper will be stunned by the move. This is for those who want to avoid close contact with the heckler, but be careful with this one as it may backfire if your are to far away or if your lady has poor eyesight.

5. A final crushing maneuver is to walk while the guy is trying to pick up your girl and say excuse me, I have been thinking about you all night long, let dip outta here back to my place. She won't resist and you don't have to leave right away, but for any would be pick up artist this is a severe ego blow.

These are just a few of my tactics, each of which can modified and spiced up, the main thing is to be bold and smooth, women love the role play and the confidence. If you are too busy worrying about what this guy might do if attempt one of these moves then it is probably best you stay home until you build up some gonads. In addition, having a woman that is desirable to other men is a good thing, trust me.

Tactics may not apply to women pick up artists, again if your woman is desirable to men and women this too is a good thing!!!









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Am I a bachelor at the Age of 28?

Hello my avid readers!

Welcome back for an Update on The Real Love Doctor On Real Love, Life and Relationships 101

Sorry for the delay in posting as I have been busy lately for my new JOB! Yes the Real Love Doctor is also having side-jobs on the mend to provide for the family. ^_^

When I was gone for a good 2 weeks The Love Doctor's Clinic is overwhelmed with only 3 mails? ONLY 3 mails!??? Come on guys keep those mails coming please!

For Now I got a guy who at a young age consider himself a bachelor! Read on his letter and my prescription to his Love Problems afterwards.

" Dear Doctor or shall I say Real Love Doc

good day to you sir, My name's Rigor Mortiz not a real name but kinda sort of a screen name i use in the blogosphere hehehe, and this may sound absurd to you but i think i iwll be going to be a bachelor soon, my age at the moment is 28, i dont have a gf and for a long while already about 2 years since my last girl friend and i am scared because all of my friends are married, please help me how to find a wife

with good regards avid reader Rigor Mortiz
"

Hello there to you Mr. Rigor Mortiz, I must say what a catchy name to have in the blogosphere eh?
Mr. Mortiz at your age of 28 years, I don't think you are a bachelor, Most westerners at this time may either be enjoying the prime years of their life by going to bars and enjoying on hitting as many cute women as they like without the "tying the knot" case in their mind. Most western culture men marry at the age of 30-40 years old and some say they even feel their sexiest and most productive years of their life at the age of 32! So with these stats I'm only guessing you are an Asian right? In Asia Most men Marry at the tender [I say Tender because of my love of red meat! LOL] age of 22-26, and many men are felt left out when they reach 30 if they are not yet married, most especially in South East Asia. If you really feel lonely at times and really have the urge to have a family ASAP then follow my tips on my previous post and discussions and I will provide you with a good head start on where to find a unique and loyal wife! By your age level WOMEN are out numbering MEN by a ratio of 10:1 and available and still single! So the odds are on your side, what you only need is to find that near perfect woman, but how?



WHERE TO FIND THOSE LOVING, CARING and LOYAL WIFE [in short a n almost perfect partner]

1. You have to at least know her! -old long lost beautiful neighbors- will probably do the trick here, look back or look up your old long lost neighbors that your feel attracted to long ago but never get the chance to have a romantic relationship with. These way you already know her ways and lifestyle and previously living beside houses together give you a good preview to what kind of woman she is. So choose wisely and seek those that are still available


2. You have to at least know her! again -old long lost beautiful classmates- yep those pretty classmates and pretty girls in your school which you happen to know by default but never get the chance to be romantically involve with, these time you get a pretty clear view on what kind of women these girls are so you can choose which one will suit you, Find the ones you like, hit the phone and try to search using your old buddies and do your magic.

3. You have to at least know her! again again -old long lost beautiful officemates- another good start of finding a good wife is to look for again of your long lost office mates which you set your eyes on, go ahead go back to that old work place and ask around the previous people that you know there to have an info to where this girl is now

4. And lastly Family advertisements! -yep it may sound funny but a family member form a not so distant stem of your family might just have someone in mind for you to date, or they might at least show an ad of your personality and type to one of their friends, pursue this kind of getting to know, when it comes from the family preference, usually it means a good thing!

There you have it, coupled with a great self confidence and a hefty time of searching you will soon be dating again in no time! And better yet with women that you are familiar of and with the same age range you have better your odds in finding a real nice partner for life. Good luck to you and Happy hunting!

The real love doctor signing out of the love clinic. till next time.










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Dear Love Doctor, How many women have you dated?

Dear Love Doctor, How many women have you dated?

Today we will read a westerner comment on the real love doctor. It's funny how many odd letters I Get lately ranging from how to pick up women and how to score with them, even into how to seduce married men, but please all my efforts here folks are focus on finding you a healthy relationship, love and a happy life. So please do control the parental guidance value of your letters.

take the doctor's advice!

Now to our segment- Ask the Real Love Doctor and the Real Love Doctor Answers!

Dear Love Doctor,

Hello good day doc, been an avid fan now for a month. Just want to know if how many women have you approached and dated using your strategies, and are you for real? yeah i find it here funny. LOL


brent, Florida USA



Hello brent, it's been a while since your love doctor have returned from a family trip to the outskirts of town. The busy life has left me posting on this blog only twice last week. Anyways to answer your inquiries I will go straight to the point. Yep I have approached countless women in my lifetime, and I must say the early years were a little bit distressing as the young love doctor is still struggling with his self confidence, it takes years to master the art of being the "MAN". Not long as since 5 years ago, I have found that I have connected with a lot of women on a casual basis. I dated easily and grab their attention with the skills I am trying to promote to you guys.

The women I have dated ranges from the students in colleges to the executives of firms and even to the denim sales lady. I must admit that I have a pretty liking to the women in the sales department, especially the pants section.

You know it takes time to master stuffs about approaching women, and I cannot guarantee a 100 percent success rate, but this I can assure you that if you follow closely my prescriptions, then you will have the better chance of let's say 90% and above to finding a real happy relationships.

Keep the letters pouring in okay?

Thanks you very much, see you in a day or two

Real love doctor out.

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A love story to share - To all the girls I loved Before!

A love story to share - To all the girls I loved Before!

Good day avid readers and my small but loyal fan base for the Real Love Doctor Site! Today we will tackle on something different, we will read a letter from an avid fan with the name of DEATH ZERO. He will be sharing a short story for today about his past love life, the girls he knew and loved before and all the relationships to be that just didn't happen. I enjoyed reading it and it's a bit bunchy but if you have time it will be worth a while to read.

You too can participate in the sharing or asking of questions regarding love, life and relationships, so email me or write a comment and be heard by our loyal fan base here in
the Real Love Doctor's Clinic.

Here is his letter.

"
ei guys wanna share some of my on-going story and i hope the DOC post it in the BLOG and give some comments so that other bloggers and viewers may learn a lesson..

To The Moon And Back (and confuse a bit)
by: deathzero23

puppy love is not true love

I know i've been in love before and again..Yeah, I had my first serious relationship wayback at 3rd Year highschool and we started as best friends..A good foundation to start. And a good pattern developed into love. Yeah all are first times, like the first time i admit my true feelings in the face of the girl, prove my cleanest intentions, talked to her parents, first date, first kiss (yeah everykind of kisses hehehe), first touch, first score, etc. you named it, it's all there. But things got sour after highschool days..Yeah college days are crucial in terms of handling precious time.

I know at first before we pledge our love together (ahem i remember Edgar Mortiz' classic song My Pledge of Love Cannot be Broken LOL!) that we have this one difference. RELIGION. She's a catholic-convert-to-born again and I'm a pure Catholic. I know it will be a future problem but i neglected it just to have a serious Relationship. Then I paid the price, I lost her. But still i thank GOD for it. I thank God for making RELIGION is the cause of our break-up and not some 3rd party which is very painful. And i walked and wandered around soul-searching. Till i found this cute girl...

Yeah we've met in the university and we're classmates. College days. We have so many similaraties from A to Z. Yeah same pattern happened, Best friends turn lovers. The catch is By that time that we were friends, she have a BF but i'm at the right time since their relationship is starting to fall apart. I'm there to catch her fall. And completed her life...I think.

Since she transfered to other school then she got her first failing grade (yeah she's a genius student and tasted her first defeat), She got very busy and busy and busy. Her craving to get back at the top caused our nearing break-up...Adding to my INJURY she got a guy..yeah 3rd party which i didn't expect. She didn't told beforehand about this guy. She hid it from me. And just waited for me to find out for myself..I never really expect such kind girl to turned like that...and i hate what she did...she tried approaching me several times but i neglected it everytime. My reason? it's simple, the DAMAGE has been done so what to explain and to expect? nothing....And she got tired chasing me from e-mail, SMS and Friendster.

After that i made a hiatus from having serious relationships almost 4 years i think...i concentrated on studying hard...Still i thank GOD for this reason of our break-up happen earlier before i got enrolled in my thesis subject. Imagine the HUGE DAMAGE if the break-up happen during my thesis. It will be more than hell to suffer...right?

yeah i got graduated and got a job, still single and enjoying life, like spend money on stuffs, eat and drink, play videogames, enjoying my liberty. but something happened, i've met a girl.....

I know i've been in love before. I know how it feels from being loved, to be in love and being left and hurt...I'm not saying i love this new girl. We're having constant communication thru SMS, we see each other if time permits us. I can say that I LIKE HER. She's cute, kind, deep, thoughful, etc. although she believes in paranormals and tarrot cards and may some of you called it weird but hey i can still ride on it. But.... She's very career-driven girl. She's a Dean's Lister in college, want to earn big bucks early, taking a review school after work, and probably take board exams in January next year.

I'm in all total support for her. everytime she feels tired from such multi-tasking activities, having pressure problems and stuffs, I'm there to make her smile, feel happy, laugh, inspired and make her spirits up. And she's very thankful about it. Thankful to the point that she feels guilty for taking up my time just to be with her. But i told her not to worry and it's fine for me and it's true.

avoid conflicts with her family to avoid this!^^^^^

She's a Fil-Chinese and i know such cultural differences may clash. Not to her but her parents. She's a Fil-Chinese alright but she's more of 80% PINOY in her attitude so no problem. But her parents is what bothers me. I know i've been there before but what is happening to me?

I always say to myself that i like her time and time again. But Is it the truth or am I just being CAUTIOUS due to my past heartaches? Again I've been there Before but i feel something is different within me.

Up to now, we still talked and cherish every conversation we have. And if I managed to have a date with her, I always make it a special moment never to forget for her. I'm stopping the story for now since i have nothing to add...I hope the readers never got tired reading this and i hope some of you learned a lesson at least a bit.

Whaddya Say DOC MAC?"

"



As all can see, I will never ever edit your letters, so what ever came to my mail box, I will post it as is.

To Death Zero, thanks for this very informative and funny side of your life and love relationships. I will be monitoring your stories as always and will provide tips for you to make you more appealing to the women that you like, for now your story is nice and it showed me your nice strong character to move on from one failed relationships by making your chin-up and face the world. That is truly a manly character for you!


Good day, love doctor out for the day!

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The Real deal about Real Love by the Real Love Doc himself!

The Real deal about Real Love by the Real Love Doc himself!

What is real love?


Hello once again my good readers, it's been a few days since you last heard from the real love doctor eh? Well I have been pretty busy up late trying to promote the blog to the widest audience possible, also I am acquiring about a dozen letters already about love, life and relationships advice and I'm doing the best I can to get them all answered. Okay to move on, I would like to thank to all of you who started to comment here, although I would really love it if you can post a name or a nickname to your comments as being called "anonymous" seems to be getting old.

I have been asked many times about my views about real love, how did someone like me became a doctor of Real Love, well to be honest to you, I don't hold any doctorate degree or any real love diplomas, I simply just happen to know the ins and outs of Real Love. Many of us would get stuck and face a big wall when it comes to love, what more so if it is real love right? So to clearly gave you my beloved readers a good insight about real love I will quote a lot of stuff for today.

a hug of real love

There are just too many lines of words describing real love, some were even made into songs, all of the above have one thing in common though and I will show it to you at the near end of my post, for now let's read some of the famous lines about real love.




Love is patient, love is kind...

Love is patient, and love is kind,
it is not jealous or prideful
love is not rude,
it is not selfish,
it is never angry, it is not happy with evil,
love is not happy with lies, but rejoices in the truth.

Love never gives up,
love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things,
endures all things.

Love never fails.

God is love.

source: the bible



Everything is clearer when you're in love.
Guilt for being rich, and guilt thinking that perhaps love and peace isn't enough and you have to go and get shot or something.
If someone thinks that love and peace is a cliche that must have been left behind in the Sixties, that's his problem. Love and peace are eternal.
All you need is love

source: john Lennon


Kindness in words creates confidence.
Kindness in thinking creates profoundness.
Kindness in giving creates love.

source:Lao Tzu


There is more hunger for love and appreciation in this world than for bread.

Source: Mother Teresa


“The best smell in the world is that man that you love.”

source:Jennifer Aniston


I believe the key to happiness is: someone to love, something to do, and something to look forward to.

source:Elvis Presley

the king of real love?

As We have read along some of the quotes of famous people around the course of history, many describe love as something important and as a need, well they become famous but does that give them enough authority? We have quoted the bible, but not all really think it has authority to tell what is love, so who do you really believe when it comes to telling you what real love is? Will you believe what a real love doctor have to say about love? If you are intrigue and ready to hear my say on the issue of real love then read below now.


"For me real love is just not a need to be love but unconditional love, I got this thing which pretty much sums up my idea about real love:
"Real love isn’t "I love you if you love me", that’s worldly love.
Real love is "I love you no matter if you love me or not". Real
love just loves, and hopes the best for the other, and does whatever
they can for the happiness of someone else rather than themselves."

real love is everywhere, even for pets

Yes many will say "hey that is foolish and loving blindly" well for me that ain't the case, you see if you respect the authorities like your government, that is already showing real love for your country, if you care for your spouse or partner that you sacrifice a few minutes everyday to comfort them and hug them to make them feel better that is already real love, if you can take time to bath your dog because you don't want him to stink or catch fleas then you are genuinely loving your dog. All of this self less acts of love is for me real love. So my tips, the next time you truly say I love you to your partner or love one, consider first the things you did the day before or the things you were planning to do for the days ahead, if you think you have unconditional love in your radar, then congrats you have found real love."

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I need space! Ask the Love Doctor/ Love Doctor Mac answers! 2

Ask the Love Doctor/ Love Doctor Mac answers!

Another fine day to all of you! We're back with our new letter for the week. I choose this letter out of about 6 because I was encouraging folks to comment and join in the discussions, So this guy did just that! and because He did He will get Love, Life and Relationships 101 tips from the Love Doc. Here's his letter:

"got a big problem hir guyz just dont know what 2 do anymore im just starting to dislike my girl im just tired of her trips and attitude but damn i just cant leave her it fells like im in hell w/o her my best budd tells me that this the point were in we both need space but we both cant give it to each other for an unknown reason hope you could give some tips i have many more to say.... till next time - LuNaTiV_0829"

Hello there LunaTiv, Firstly I would like to welcome you in here and thank you so much for the courage to come out in the open and tell the Love Doctor about your relationship problems. I will waste no time in giving you a sound advice for today okay? But the results is still really up for you to achieve. So with out further ado some tips from your in-house Love Doctor!

not talking?

Suggestions:

1.Communicate!- Early part of your relationship with your girl I'm betting that both of you were heavy chatters right? Talking about each others life, experiences and mainly topics to get to know each other the better. Why not do it all over again? This time around talk about future plans or new found interests between the both of you. The chain in a good relationship is good over all communication! So take time, have a seat in a park or in a place where both of you will share a minimum of an hour a day to just talk! Talk a lot. I do this too with my girl, we chat on coffee and we end up laughing our ass off always and I always look forward to her nice coffee making skills in the morning and in the afternoon. For something new, never take the moment conversation out of the coffee talk, What I mean is, what is it that you and her talking for that talk moment stays during that time and never strays to another time of day or the next hours after your chatter with her. We always talk about politics and stuff in the news for example, then after the coffee talk, we never talk about it again till the next time we sit and have coffee again!


2.Bond like glue!- Most often times relationships and love goes stale because the lack of bonding, most times too we just can't seem to take the other partner's trips or likes as what you said in your letter... "im just starting to dislike my girl im just tired of her trips and attitude"... this comment came from someone who never bonded with his/her partner. The stuff that binds us in a good relationship is love right? But if Love goes wrong and boring the foundation or "glue" will not be strong to keep things in tack. That is why a good bonding trip should happen. First talk to each other and plan a certain activity that the 2 of you will surely enjoy! Most women like to see nature or travel to places. So if you can afford a trip around Asia go on travel, [visit here for an Asian Travel Guide!] or better yet have a cheap adventure and drive around the next town and see places you too have never been. The misadventures and the bondness these trips can bring will do wonders for the relationships and it will save it! Remember the key here is to have an activity that both of you enjoy, a guarantee success of good lovers bonding in a happy event is what I promise you if you will be able to pull this one off.


So before you decide on harsh decisions and that dreadful "NEED SPACE" excuse, why not try the 2 tips I did. I am hoping that my 2 easy tips will save your lost interest to your girl, remember it was you the guy who came into the life of your girlfriends, bother the living hell out of them and it is not just right to leave them just then and there, make an effort to be in love with her again just like the effort you did a while ago in making her love you back!

P.S.

"we both cant give it to each other for an unknown reason hope you could give some tips i have many more to say"

Dude I'm no psychic, just tell me the whole thing and we will discuss it here okay?

goodluck!



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Seduction Tips #2 Clothes

Seduction Tips #2 Clothes

Clothing for men

In a relationship to be? Love at first glance? Already started dating? Let the Real love doctor help you on this matter.

Hello readers and once again good day to all. Another busy day in the clinic and lately I have a surge of emails pouring in. To those who mailed, don't you guys worry, the love doctor is here to answer your relationship, love and life inquiries even if it takes me a long life time to do all of it! So unto our next seduction tip. Clothing for men!

On our first tip on grooming we specifically point out the importance of clean decent clothes to be worn not only at work but on a daily basis when you leave the house. Why? Because we can't be too sure if Mr. Right for me or The Girl of your dreams might suddenly pop up out of nowhere. The next topic is clothing style for men. Yes clothes, it's a basic necessity of our everyday life so why not add it to your appeal to women. If your middle aged or even in the late teens, don't you think its time to rid of the "youngsters look" all in all? What I mean is the hip-hop culture or the emotional punk rocker days must be left behind! But if you prefer to remain in these so called years then I can't force you to totally commit and do a transformation. One thing I learned after college is when I rid of my rocker look, more women came up to me and I started to feel confident too. I don't have the weird looks I use to get at trains and subways when I do public transport, I started to do my own individual style of wearing my favorite clothes. Yep it is still on, individuality is still king in the modern world, but you have to make sure your individuality taste is still in the norm. Why? because in general most of the population is in the norm, it's basic marketing sense that if you sell to the mass general public that you tend to grab the big sales and these sales means a lot of eyes of women that will find you attractive.

simple yet elegant is still trendy

Clothes if you are already dating or in a great relationship not only projects your image, but along with your partner, the two of you will show to the world to what type of a couple are you. Decent formal, clean pressed clothes will tell the public that both of you may have stable jobs or that you both came from well brought up family, while rugged and dirty looking "drags" will convey a sense of rebellion or worse lower status in the society, so you better be careful in what you wear so to not to shame your partner. It's viral if you don't know yet, if your partner dresses decently, you will somehow get infected and pretty soon your preference on clothing is due to change to decency too. That's the good in a well developed relationship.

elmo says you don't have to be emo anymore

different styles of clothing to attract varies from one person to another depending on the individual's height and weight. It's just basic common sense that is needed to avoid the pitfalls of bad clothing. For example, wearing dress shoes and black socks on running shorts or cargo shorts make you look like a grandpa disaster [what a term!] and having to wear tennis shoes on corporate wear is somewhat dumb! Every clothing has it's own do's and don'ts but the thing that stands out the most is COLOR!. Color blending is my term on this one, if you're dark toned in skin, then it is adviceable to avoid pastel colors and neon colors, they will surely make you look like a lollipop holder or a tootsie roll on crack, instead go with the near shades of black and white to grey and lightly toned colors of the rainbow. When I say rainbow, the basic colors or elementary colors compromising the spectrum is just made up with the Red, Blue and Green, wear light versions of these colors to help promote eye rest when people stare at you. If you are whiter in complexion like me, then pretty much all colors are in favor for you to wear. Just make sure to always wear the basic colors or singled color shirts because they tend to bring more attention that those flowery or graffiti types, worse are the stripes [we ain't no zebra's! stripes only works if your super thin or super fat or super short or super tall] Stripes are good too sometimes and on ocassions but I don't recommend them to be worn often.

we zebras should watch out for em lions

The key ingredient here is simplicity. A simple colored clothing when a catchy small graphics or a tag line is enough to draw attention. Don't forget once you got that female looking at you to smile and be your at your best confidence, because this is your first step in getting to know her. You have already done the part of selling your biggest advertisement, your self and your clothes.
Clothes need not be expensive to stand out, it just have to be worn properly and appeal to more people together with your self. You must be confident enough to wear a certain clothes for it's seduction magic to work. With this tip number 2 on relationship, love and life advices I can guarantee a few glances from the opposite sex coming your way!

till next time avid readers good day
Love doctor Mac signing off!



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Gift Ideas #1

Gift Ideas #1

For Relationship and Love Spicer from the Love Doctor himself!

Hello avid readers and good day to all of ya! One thing I noticed from our site is the lack of comments, come on guys move out of the shadows and start talking, I receive about a thousand page views a day from around 60-70 viewers all around the globe yet no one even dare chatters? Well how about those who knew me well to come out and chat the way in the comments box, yes if you happen not to find it , it's way below after each post.

Well I received an email last night, even though it can be categorized as a "Ask the Love Doctor" or a question for me , I decided to just let it slide since the mailer doesn't want to be named and for obvious reasons that her email is just a one liner. Yep our letter sender is a female, I guess my post about the tips on finding a few good men really pays off! She was just asking around and in one short sentence as me if what is it that I think is a good gift idea for her boyfriend, this came after her year long relationship with her current boyfriend, she just about ran out of good ideas. Girl if in a year you have gave your guy about more than a dozen gifts or an average of more than twice a month, then I will tel you frankly that you have over done it, maybe that's why you are just about to ran out of gift ideas to gave to him because you plainly just about gave him everything!

remember you ain't santa!

This issue of gift giving will be tackled in detailed soon in our upcoming Love and Relationship tips and advices, for now I will just answer the girls' inquiry.

Simple enough there are limitless gifts to give to your loved one and you bet I can't count them all, but the usual chocolates and letters and flowers seems to be redundant right? Then why not go to the extreme! Yes to the extreme! So my gift giving ideas will be extreme in nature and will always focus on the stuff that your lover might not expect at anytime in your relationship, may it be early on or later on.

For starters I assume a one year relationship is somehow long enough for the two lovers to be intimate to each other and the trust should be now flowing, so a trip to another town, city or even another country can be very bonding to both of you! Why not go to your travel agent and inquire about pricing of a certain country [only if you have enough and can afford!], or if better yet you can go check this site and visit ASIA!!! ---> http://asiantravelguide.blogspot.com <--- seriously once I slid a travel map of an out of town adventure full with iterenary and to do list on a brown envelope in one of my past girlfriend, to my surprised she looked so shocked and can't stopped kissing me for hours. So the trip happened after months of planning we really go on an adventure in one of the secluded Island of the Philippines, and it was the blast!

So for a gift idea I recommend you do something like what I did before, be creative and do it at your own way, I can only suggest the tips and advice but the implementation and tasks is still in your hands!


Till next time CHOW!!!
the love doctor signing off but i will be waiting for your comments!


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For Women Love Tips Number 1

A few Good Men!

For the Girls, Relationships, Love and Life Tips for Women #1
Places to meet those Mr.Right for me.


Ah You might probably ask why on earth are we looking for Mr. Right when he doesn't actually exist! well not to burst your bubble girl he does exist, but only as "Mr. Right For you!" why as just for you? because there is always a someone for anyone, the only thing we need to do is look for them and not be like those hopeless romantics who wait for their Prince falling down from the sky or sprouting from the ground out of nowhere. Men are territorial creatures, and just like the time of the stone age, Men can be categorized to the places he usually hang out. I will give further details about this stuff on future issues, for now we shall concentrate on where do most of the few Good men hang out!

like a grain of sand, where are the few good men?

Before we jump into the topic of finding the few good men on building relationships or finding love, let me tell you this. As a guy I already know what the entire world is like, and that women outnumbered men, hmmm i don't know the exact figure but last time I check it was like a ratio of men versus women to the numbers of 1:5, which basically means in every one guy there are five women. Nature is a culprit for this because of the chromosomes needed in the DNA to produce a male offspring. During conception, where the mom and the dad share one chromosome each, it takes 2 genes of DNA x to have a male and any other combination like x-y, y-x, y-y will eventually produce a female. No wonder in other countries a son born to a family is accompanied by tremendous celebrations! I think the ratio now tends to worsen since the female species have gays, transsexuals and any other male preference to compete with! No kidding. So there you have some little facts not to get your ass sitting there if you really want a man in your life, go find him and don't let those countless hours you spent in the mirror or millions of bucks for beauty products just go to waste by either finding no man in your life or ending up with Mr. Wrong.

Now where do the few good men hang out? Well to tell you a little known fact is that they don't hang around the Internet! Even though
a million women may claim that they find the man of their dreams online, I doubt it if they have any idea to how many perverts, nerds, over sized lards preying on helpless women are there in the web, I don't even know the figure but with all the bad rep in the news about online dating and online match making the Internet is still not a good place to seek a few good men. To those who got lucky in the Internet, then good for you, the word says it all. LUCKY. Real men who are worthy of your time don't need to sulk up in the Internet for more that 1 an hour a day in the Internet or if work requires even an 8-9 hour shifts on the net, why? cause like TV the Internet takes away his social life. Real men who are ripe for good relationships and love making are everywhere where there is people, these guys are social creatures. A healthy normal guy is a social person. They love to go out and meet people on all walks of life, and not wasting their time in the net, watching porn or doing some stuff many of us don't understand [why do many fall into the traps of Internet addiction? we can only wonder what they are doing in that hell hole!] Yes, real man that could be Mr. Right For You can mostly be found in Social, well beloved and people packed places! if you want to know what are the Places I'm talking about I will give you just a few list soon as I will continue to tell you
about where to seek real men in future post. For now I will suggest a good meeting place!


The Ball Arena!!!

act like a good crowd

It's simple. Men thrives and dies for competition. So in the real world today where can this place of competition be? Well for one is the workplace, but hell no you don't want to seek your Mr.right there! These places can be found in SPORTS ARENA or typical venues where sports are played! It's a fact that real men love sports. There are many types of sports, be it boxing, wrestling, bikes and other physical dangerous stuffs but nothing appeal more to men that BALL SPORTS. Do your research but the top ball sports are these FOUR---BASKETBALL,
BASEBALL, SOCCER and FOOTBALL/RUGBY. So go cheer for your favorite team, bring along a companion, when I say a companion it means only one! Men sometimes tend not to approach a herd of women, so at least a nephew or a close friend will do, best if she's a girl too. Sit somewhere in the general admission area or if you can afford after the ringside seats, then try to look fresh and act naturally. Mostly guys go with their friends too but most of them go with their buddy, so If one of these few good men spot you and you advertise your self right by carrying the right moves and wearing the right clothes for the occasion [casual wear or sporty, no need for expensive dresses in a ball game] then they might just will make a move to get to know you. Also don't wait till half time to buy drinks or food at the stalls, if your Guy stands up and heads for the comfort room then you too should stand up. Just make sure you are always on his radar or just around the vicinity, if he is into you he will do the right move and introduce himself to you. Don't frustrate if it takes you a couple or more games till some guy approaches, everything takes time.

dress sporty!

That's it for today's relationship tips by your love doctor!



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Love Tips:1 for MEN

Love Tips:1 for MEN

Hello,

Another day in the

Real Doc's Love, Life and Relationships blog

. For today we will be reading about our first ever Love Tips for the record.
Well I don't only have a lot of Love and Relationships tips but I do have a bundle! So to kick off let's take Tip number 1


During the course of the pre-relationship era or if you and your gal are just starting out may it be a couple of months or just a few weeks

1. NEVER NEVER SHOW YOUR INCOME

Why? Read on!



not only 'em pirates wants a piece of me gold!

As your relationship goes deeper it is normal for a couple to share income woes or budget woes or better yet budget happiness if one of you or both you is financially stable. I've seen couples share a bank account or even take turns in the household expenses, BUT a big BUT! please avoid sharing your networth early on the road.
If you are just dating or you and her are in the early stage of getting to know more each other, please let go of talks about money or your income, you can be the next Bill Gates or damn broke as the next Mike Tyson but really she doesn't have to know yet...
Let the relationship start out with her digging you first and not your goldmine [if ever you have one!]
Buy her stuff she fancy if you're well off, and if you don't overdo them, and she starts to avoid you, the BETTER. When from the start she asks for stuff or she don't like, you and her hanging out in a cheap diner then these are tell tale signs that this chic could be a GOLD DIGGER.

The Good side is when she'll take you for who you are and what you are as a person and not your bank account, it'll be nice if she can split the bill in sometimes but you'll know you're worth more than money right? So if it's still early keep those GREENS in your wallet and don't show off too much.

You'll thank me later.

Ciao

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Ask Dr.Mac and the Love Doc answers! first letter

Hello and Welcome to our first ever segment of Ask Dr.Mac and the Love Doc answers!

And for our early bird I have received a comment post with a letter in it in just 2 days after this sites' been up. Talk about fast, and so he so unanimously deserves to be my first ever letter sender and he will receive first hand the answer to his queries.
You too can join and be a part of the discussions by commenting on the Love advices segments. We are going to answer 2-3 letters a week so if I receive a bundle, it means that the line to the Doc's office will be long and your queries will have to wait.

For a free "based on real life" no kidding professional like advices, tips and Love topics, Just ask the Love Doctor, Doctor Coolmac No P.H.D. Mail me or indicate in a comment a quoted letter, then go get a number in the front desk and wait for your number to be called. ^_^.

The email is coolmacpaul@yahoo.com

And now to our patient:

let's just call him by name Junior. This letter is by no way edited what so ever to show you I never sugar coat stuff in my clinic, if times do arise to provide clarification to your letters and stuff, I will do so by putting the translation, correction and clarification inside a brace comment [ edited stuff here ] so still your stuff will be left unedited and your creative way of expressing yourself still intact!

Good day love doctor,

I have this crush for such a long time now.
Since i was committed back then, i dont nurse the feeling that i think im falling for her.
When i went to a get together last night, to my surprise she was there.
Its actually my/our first time to meet in a get together/drinking session
so i was a bit hesitant to make a move.
I dont want to be like arrogant and cocky in her eyes since its just our first time.
I didnt ask for her cell number w/c i could have done coz i can remember her
saying, "at last somebody texted me".
From that i could have simply as for her number but again, [could you prolly mean "ASK"?]
i dont want to be quick. Also shes telling her friends that she wants to eat this and that,
i could have accompany her to eat but then again i dont want to be quick again.

My main concern here is im having doubts that ill pass on her standards.
She got brains and beauty. I mean, she a teacher.
I dont know if i can coupe up with her "intellectuality" [coping a feel? don't be a perv. oops you meant to say compete there eh mate?]
and i dont want to act smart and just be plain stupid in the end.

Any tips on how to break those barriers?

Hope you can help me.
Jr.

"shyness the only barrier to shagness"

Well let's break your letter into pieces to slowly grasp what your trying to visualize me and our audience here, then we will put everything together for you and show you some light on the subject of LOVE and DATING -_-

Good day love doctor,

I have this crush for such a long time now.
Since i was committed back then, i dont nurse the feeling that i think im falling for her.

A crush is a crush, commitment is a different thing. You don't need to nurse a crush feeling because to tell you the basic thing, you just like the girl. She falls into your "attractive" category so no problem there. It's pretty normal to have people of the opposite sex as our "crush, fantasy or attracted to". Yeah really, it's not cheating nor immoral. It's a basic human feeling.


When i went to a get together last night, to my surprise she was there.
Its actually my/our first time to meet in a get together/drinking session
so i was a bit hesitant to make a move.

Many believe in destiny, and it's funny how timing can play a major part in some people lives, but most of the time people just over react. So what if you saw her there? or She bumped into you in a train? or if you and her suddenly showed up in a work interview? The truth is we all live in planet earth, and earth, although a gigantic piece of a planet houses all humans, the possibility of meeting someone we knew somewhere, some place and sometime is not ZERO! unless if she lives in Mars. The big problem is in the last part of your dissected letter,

so i was a bit hesitant to make a move.

Why? Don't you want to get to talk to her again after all these time? Why were you so hesitant? To make yourself feel all so confident again you resort to the "destiny" trick, the " oh we finally met again after such a long time crap!" Next time, when it comes to this so called "chances" we as MEN must not hesitate. I will explain the importance of taking things into your hand in future posts of mine, but for now if you consider yourself a MAN, don't hesitate! Always GO FOR IT, GO FOR THE KILL! ehem I mean GO FOR THE GOAL! Losers hesitate, Winners never wait!


I dont want to be like arrogant and cocky in her eyes since its just our first time.
I didnt ask for her cell number w/c i could have done coz i can remember her
saying, "at last somebody texted me".

Now this is confusing, if you mean to say that this is your first time to be close to her in a conversation type of way, then you won't look arrogant and cocky! but if this is the second or the many times she have seen you in a lifetime, then maybe not talking to her makes you arrogant and cocky! To all MEN reading this, the notion that girls think that a guy that approaches women with confidence and style is purely A MYTH. When women say "Wow you're so cocky!" these are defensive measures and can swing both ways. Women when approached by a guy can only think of 2 things she can either have a good thought or a bad thought. So when she say you're cocky or act like you are some fresh, cocky and overconfident dude, she can only be thinking 2 things The good = if you fall for this, then you're not man enough" and the bad = "My God what a jerk!". The latter only applies to real jerks [ see the MV of Pretty Fly for a White Guy ] and from the way I read you Junior I hope you don't fall into that category, Women make tests to see if the men in front of them is really that MANLY enough to be attractive, I will explain more about this in future posts, for now all you need to know is you won't look arrogant and cocky if you approach your crush.

I didnt ask for her cell number w/c i could have done coz i can remember her
saying, "at last somebody texted me".
From that i could have simply as for her number but again,
i dont want to be quick. Also shes telling her friends that she wants to eat this and that,
i could have accompany her to eat but then again i dont want to be quick again.

All these assumptions and confusions are a direct results from what I said previously. All your questions and assumptions can be summarized into one whole sentence: "WHY OH WHY DIDN'T I APPROACH HERE IN THE FIRST PLACE.??? [insert regret, regret regret here and more regrets here"]



My main concern here is im having doubts that ill pass on her standards.
She got brains and beauty. I mean, she a teacher.
I dont know if i can coupe up with her "intellectuality" [coping a feel? don't be a perv. oops you meant to say compete there eh mate?]
and i dont want to act smart and just be plain stupid in the end.

Any tips on how to break those barriers?

Hope you can help me.


Now I find this part really funny and sorry if I had to laugh out hard at them Junior, but I guess it's the only way to show you the hard truth and hard facts of the Society today.


My main concern here is im having doubts that ill pass on her standards.

Well you won't pass anyway if you won't take her test, and the way to fill up for the entrance exams is to go talk to her period.

She got brains and beauty. I mean, she a teacher.

Don't tell me you got no brains? You an alien? of course not, SO what if she's a professional? there are some out there who married a model/actress/millionaire and they are just plain guys or worse yet, sleazy bum holes of society. This ain't an excuse man.

I dont know if i can coupe up with her "intellectuality"
and i dont want to act smart and just be plain stupid in the end.

This is no time to compare GPA's and SAT's, this is life, in life brain will mostly get you on top but staying on top takes more that that, if you think negatively always then there will be less hope for you, A MAN is a man of confidence and HE WON'T show his weakness ever. If you think she is more intelligent than you, then it's time to show her that you're wiser and streetsmarter than her. Or you can share your life's adventure which can peak her interest at you. It's all about getting her to talk with you. Your goal here is to get her to talk to you, and not by the phone or by texting, But real face to face chat. I will provide tips on this later.


Any tips on how to break those barriers?

Hope you can help me.


I do have tips and it will follow on the next segments to come here in our site so you better be on your toes and check on here always

And I can only do so much to help you, but everything is still in your hands and how you handle the next situations to come.

For better help I will give you some sample advice so you will gain confidence in approaching a girl.

get her to talk to you

1. Look Good Feel Good

Groom your self, read my grooming posts, then practice at a mirror the way you talk, walk and interact. If you have time watch some James Bond films and copy the way Mr. Bond handles himself when talking to women.

2. Walk the walk

A real man walks with confidence, no slouching and crouching, not so fast, not so slow. Learn it! Relax.

3. Talk the talk

A real man talk with confidence, not so fast, not so slow, not so loud and absolutely not so soft! Also talking comes with eye to eye contact and no cleavage peeking for crying out loud.

4. Mannerisms and gestures

A real man is not careless but takes calculated/simulated/fully automated and confident moves. The man with the right moves will magnetize chics in a snap of a finger. The best example I can show you is James Bond and the worse can be The Hunchback of Notre Dam. Borat seems to be getting there but Boy George is what to avoid in copying good gestures and mannerisms.

5. Lastly Everything is believable

A real man looks like HE CAN BE TRUSTED! and not like a con-artist or someone who will rape a girl due to his super confidence. In other words HE WON'T APPEAR FAKE AT ALL. This takes practice mind you, so what are you waiting for, practice them all now.



And once you got the hang of it, try approaching your friends with your newly found confidence, they will be the first to notice your change, then try approaching and talking to someone you knew but never get the chance to be close. Any age will do. Any family member or close relative that you haven't got the chance to talk or interact with will be great practice.

Remember your first step is confidence and self-esteem.

Here's an additional tip, Women always notices the men's height first, so if you are tall then you are already above the rest, if not then you will have to work on the second thing they notice about us and that's our gestures/mannerisms. I will work on the psychology of the women's mind as well as the men's mind in the future posts.
For what i have read from your letter Junior it looks like you haven't made any of the two above. As we put our selves on sale for the rest of the world those two stuff is our marketing slogans and advertisements.

Hope some of my comments here will help you gain confidence as this is the only stuff customizable and can be improved through practice. Your face and Height and body built requires much hardwork and operations to change but your confidence is just improveable in 2 weeks minimum in my "experience"


Till next time goodluck!




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The Love Doctor | Real Life Experiences To Love Tips

It's been a while since I started to give advice again. After so many failed relationships in my life [let's say more about more than a dozen, but hey at least a couple or two did work out fine] I decided to tie the knot maybe sometime around next year. Which leads me to do this website to at least give out helpful advice to youngsters and not so youngsters out there or to those who are happy in love.

Life isn't about being alone and being frustrated and there is always time to move on or face new things. This Real Love Doc blog site isn't about your ordinary e-book about relationships or love advice cliche that you will always hear or read everywhere. This Site is an in your face, real life experiences and no holds bar accounts on finding a partner, being together with your partner, facing the problems in a love partnerships and many other life related accounts. All of these are not created for you to follow step by step just like you do in a manual, but for you to take notes or inspire or even make it as a reference as why somebody out there is successful at love or why somebody out there is miserable in love.

Once a week we will take a letter or email from our readers, guests or friends and We will be able to read, comment and give our own advices to the one seeking our help. Then we will also have our weekly tips and tricks about love form those who are "experienced" enough for all of us to learn and enjoy reading. Articles about healthy life and living will also be discussed weekly and of course our last course for the day will be literature, movies and all other interesting stuff that makes being in a romantic relationship ever so appealing. All in all we can all expect this blog to be updated at least 3-5x a week the max and at least 2x a week the minimum. so be sure to be here always and expect to find stuff that relates to you. This blog will surely grow from its humble roots to help people all around the globe, with or without internet access, to be one of the best source of real life information about love relationships.

Have no worries, Doctor Mac is no dirty salesman or some internet wacko who will do you harm, The Doc is a simple computer engineer who have at least been into many places all across the globe but still find time to inspire people in all walks of life through free thought writings, comments, forums and this upcoming blog. When one helps, one will feel fulfillment and joy like no other, religion,gender and race set aside. He believes no man is an island and no island anywhere is incapable of housing men.

So sit back, join in the discussions, drop me a line or email cause the Doctor is in. The Love Clinic is officially opened!

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